Good day

I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for more that a year now, my bf is very annoying and gives reasons why he is annoying sometimes he say to me thing he Is not suppose to say and when i get angry he will also get angry, and and start justifying him self raising his voice, when people upset me and I confind in him he will judge me saying that me too I''m this and that he will never ever encourage or pet me how much more support me not even for once in his life, the one that got me so worried was when he said he will make jest of me when ever I cry again...... I'm a very emotional person sometimes when i watch film and get emotional i cry when people hurt me I go to a corner and cry just to relieve my self off the pain only for him to say if I cry over anything he does to me he will make jest of me so I will stop crying I felt so bad that he is taking me for granted I feel he doesn't genuinely love me..... he should rather try not to do things that will hurt me instead of staying he will make jest of me, as if I enjoy crying..... the guy is 28 and I am 26 I kinda feel he is not mature to be saying things like that or maybe he doesn't love me. he doesn't feel remorseful, rather he act as if my tears are irritates him that I'm just crying for nothing, are we compertable or he doesn't really know how to handle me.

Please I really need your help his attitude is discouraging me I dont want to marry someone who doesn't care about my feelings it mean he wont feel remorseful when he really hurts me so bad what do u all think

���� I need a good advice thank you all.

I dont want to marry someone
who doesn't care about my feelings it mean he
wont feel remorseful when he really hurts me so
bad what do u all think

Doesn't 'care about your feelings', then whats the tangible evidence to corroborate a Happy and Healthy marriage Live between both of you if you [mistakenly] ended up in his arms as a wife

Please save yourself from a traumatic rascal cum boyfriend........

He's not your likening
Else you'll end up hating yourself couple with inferiority complex he is subjecting you to .....

Let the ungrateful rascal go•••••
Call it quite and reorganize yourself••••••
You are the Saviour you need now•••••

[b]are we compertable or he doesn't really know how to handle me[/b this question says it all. You're not matured, a matured person can never ask this kind of question. Are we suppose to tell you who handle you best? or you yourself?

Bbankole:
Good day

I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for more that a year now, my bf is very annoying and gives reasons why he is annoying sometimes he say to me thing he Is not suppose to say and when i get angry he will also get angry, and and start justifying him self raising his voice, when people upset me and I confind in him he will judge me saying that me too I''m this and that he will never ever encourage or pet me how much more support me not even for once in his life, the one that got me so worried was when he said he will make jest of me when ever I cry again...... I'm a very emotional person sometimes when i watch film and get emotional i cry when people hurt me I go to a corner and cry just to relieve my self off the pain only for him to say if I cry over anything he does to me he will make jest of me so I will stop crying I felt so bad that he is taking me for granted I feel he doesn't genuinely love me..... he should rather try not to do things that will hurt me instead of staying he will make jest of me, as if I enjoy crying..... the guy is 28 and I am 26 I kinda feel he is not mature to be saying things like that or maybe he doesn't love me. he doesn't feel remorseful, rather he act as if my tears are irritates him that I'm just crying for nothing, are we compertable or he doesn't really know how to handle me.

Please I really need your help his attitude is discouraging me I dont want to marry someone who doesn't care about my feelings it mean he wont feel remorseful when he really hurts me so bad what do u all think

���� I need a good advice thank you all.

I would advise you to walk away from him before it's too late. Just my one Kobo...!

He has no empathy for you

Bbankole:

and gives reasons why he is annoying sometimes he say to me thing he Is not suppose to say and when i get angry he will also get angry, and and start justifying him self raising his voice, when people upset me and I confind in him he will judge me saying that me too I''m this and that he will never ever encourage or pet me how much more support me not even for once in his life, the one that got me so worried was when he said he will make jest of me when ever I cry again......

huuuge red flag..... really really huge..! He prolly doesn't respect u...nope...the nigga don't respect u...move on..! He has broken up with u since...u both just don't know it yet

whitebeard:
huuuge red flag..... really really huge..! He prolly doesn't respect u...nope...the nigga don't respect u...move on..! He has broken up with u since...u both just don't know it yet

But we are planning on getting married once the corona virus reduces.... I feel so bad right now

He's being to hard on you. A man should understand his woman and know how to deal with her in a polite and diplomatic manner when she is wrong. Being too harsh on her will not resolve things. If he is fed up with you he should let you know so you can know your fate and move on rather than being to hard on you for every slightest thing.

To me with what you've said I don't think he genuinely loves you, it could also be his fed up with the relationship but doesn't know how to say it, that's why he is using indirect medium to pass the message across to you.

The point is if you know you ain't happy in a relationship talk to your partner about it, you guys should try and work things out, if it's not working then majestically take your leave, rather than sulking in a sad union.

Remember "A broken relationship/courtship is better than a broken marriage"

Tidamsel:
He's being to hard on you. A man should understand his woman and know how to deal with her in a polite and diplomatic manner when she is wrong. Being too harsh on her will not resolve things. If he is fed up with you he should let you know so you can know your fate and move on rather than being to hard on you for every slightest thing.

To me with what you've said I don't think he genuinely loves you, it could also be his fed up with the relationship but doesn't know how to say it, that's why he is using indirect medium to pass the message across to you.

The point is if you know you ain't happy in a relationship talk to your partner about it, you guys should try and work things out, if it's not working then majestically take your leave, rather than sulking in a sad union.

Remember "A broken relationship/courtship is better than a broken marriage"

Thank you very much I was so scared to post it on here but it was really helpful

Your boyfriend doesn't care about your emotions and that's a red flag. Quit the relationship and thank me later

You lack maturity, he lacks empathy. Grow up, love yourself, and stop waiting for someone's opinion to feel complete. You require a level of self completeness and independence to attract respect of your partner. I don't appreciate when peoples sound like they are begging for love, approval or pity - and please, limit your festival of tears, it's not so good a trend. Remember, no matter how you love someone, never you show signs or believe that you can't do without the relationship. Change that blue (m) suffix to red (f).

I will advise you in the morning

Bbankole:
Good day

I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for more that a year now, my bf is very annoying and gives reasons why he is annoying sometimes he say to me thing he Is not suppose to say and when i get angry he will also get angry, and and start justifying him self raising his voice, when people upset me and I confind in him he will judge me saying that me too I''m this and that he will never ever encourage or pet me how much more support me not even for once in his life, the one that got me so worried was when he said he will make jest of me when ever I cry again...... I'm a very emotional person sometimes when i watch film and get emotional i cry when people hurt me I go to a corner and cry just to relieve my self off the pain only for him to say if I cry over anything he does to me he will make jest of me so I will stop crying I felt so bad that he is taking me for granted I feel he doesn't genuinely love me..... he should rather try not to do things that will hurt me instead of staying he will make jest of me, as if I enjoy crying..... the guy is 28 and I am 26 I kinda feel he is not mature to be saying things like that or maybe he doesn't love me. he doesn't feel remorseful, rather he act as if my tears are irritates him that I'm just crying for nothing, are we compertable or he doesn't really know how to handle me.

Please I really need your help his attitude is discouraging me I dont want to marry someone who doesn't care about my feelings it mean he wont feel remorseful when he really hurts me so bad what do u all think

���� I need a good advice thank you all.

Is he a short man? Short people are troublesome, fam.

The both of you need to grow up.

Bbankole:



Thank you very much I was so scared to post it on here but it was really helpful

You welcome dear.

Love don't care.
Its hard advising ppl in love.

I don't really like advising folks here but I feel that nigga must have been ignorant of his girl's feelings or should I say he's just some typical kidult still growing up
Just sit him down and say your mind. Let him know you really expect him to be your leaning shoulders whenever you're down. Let him know you deserve to be treated like a queen cos that's what you are. If he doesn't listen as usual and try making jest of you again thinking you aren't serious then walk off. It simply means he'll never take you serious. One ought to know when to play and be serious with loved ones.

Both of you are immature, you are made for each other.

Have you explained to him?
Does he know how you feel?

No he should kill you and dump your body in the lagoon.

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You both are better off not being together. If you have some much love for yourself, you wouldn’t need his validation. He likes empathy for you and you’re probably vulnerable from all his BS, so just let it go.

Bbankole:




But we are planning on getting married once the corona virus reduces.... I feel so bad right now

a pain of a lifetime of one of 1 year tops..which do u prefer chose well