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I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by RemyDropShadow(m): 5:37pm On Nov 16, 2019
Hey everyone,this might be a lengthy read I'm sorry. Don't even know if this is the right section to post this.
Had to create a new account for this. I'm confused and i really need matured advice from matured folks on here.

I'm the 5th child out of 6 children in my family(4 girls and 2 boys) and I'm 24. My elder bro who happens to be my most senior sibling(first child) is 32 and he has a 26 year old fiancee.

I used to have a very big problem guys, with women actually.

This stemmed from the fact that for some very weird reason, girls almost always adore me to the dangerous point of making it very easy for me to sleep with them even without spending much.
I was addicted to sex and women in general because of that.

My brother has always stayed in his own house since he was 26. He is really comfortable with a very good job plus he runs a successful business. I've been staying with him since I was 16..
We used to be really wayward. I followed him everywhere. Parties, clubs, bars, you name it, we represented. He funded my stupid lifestyle, I even lost my virginity at 17 when he paid a girl to sleep with me. This was the very beginning of my obsession.

At 21, my body count was already over 30 and I had already slept with 2 of his very serious girlfriends (which they initiated actually) without him knowing. I was actually in over my head then and the excitement made me do them without thinking. Probably due to the fact that I've always envied my brother's very masculine physique and looks. I have very dark periorbital circles around my eyes and thick brows which always made me look more feminine than masculine till I was able to hide it with a beard so it came as a huge feat to be able to bed his girlfriends at the very least, to me.

I got caught though with the 2nd who he actually had marriage plans for. He intercepted a text she sent to me and all hell was let loose. A family meeting was held, my mum and entire family were so mad at me. My eldest sister slapped me to kingdom come. I had to kneel and beg in tears for him and everyone to forgive me which he did to my surprise. He forgave me wholeheartedly. He never chased me away from his home till I left for service July last year to Abuja.

During this period, he met and engaged his current fiancee.. I came back from Abuja August this year and met her here. I almost didn't approve of her cause of her slay queen kinda dress style and looks but we got along so well almost immediately.. Then I started noticing some weird behaviors 2 months back.

I was asleep one afternoon when my brother was at work and woke up to find his fiancee kneeling beside my bed, staring at my face. I almost screamed but I recognized her in time and she started laughing so i took it as a joke. It happened again about a week later but this time around, I pretended to be asleep and knew when she walked into my room and I felt her staring into my face for some minutes till she got up and left. I got so scared of her cause i started thinking she was a witch or something.

My brother traveled about 3 weeks ago and she was always walking around the house with a towel that revealed most of her laps. It made me very uneasy and scared. One day she came into my room to take movies from my laptop with same towel. All the while she was sitting in front of me, I could see her vagina clearly but I pretended and was sweating profusely. she acted like she was oblivious though. When she got up to leave, her towel dropped and she was stark naked in front of me. she screamed and acted like it was a mistake but my guts keeps telling me it wasn't. I almost grabbed her I wouldn't lie but the fear of my family is bigger than any urge out there. They'll fry me and hang me out to dry.

She gives me intense stares whenever she talks to me almost like she wants to set me on fire with her eyes and right now guys I'm really scared of repeating what almost destroyed the relationship I had with my brother. I really don't know what to do. I'm thinking of moving back to my family house but when I brought it up to my brother, he wasn't having any of it. He blatantly refused and said he was working on getting me a job somewhere so he needs me close. Should i mention he is also planning on sending me to Canada for my masters. I'm also thinking of opening up to him but I feel like there isn't enough to accuse her and I might just end up re-opening old wounds with such accusations.

I'm at crossroads hear folks, I feel scared of going out of my room these days, I can't even look her in the eyes for more than a second and she seems to enjoy it(probably thinking she is intimidating me with her beauty) but I'm just really scared.

I need matured advices please and if you can't give any, you're better off not commenting.. I'm trying to be a good person my family will be proud of in the future and I've come a long way in beating my sexual addictions.

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This doesn't even need to hit frontpage anymore, I think I have all I need to make a good decision. I'm really grateful to everyone who contributed positively here without insulting me, y'all are the real heroes. You have no idea how depressed I was before deciding to post this here. I'm in good spirits now and for the very first time, I think I have a good plan to get this lady out of our lives without putting a wedge between my brother and i.
I love y'all @Nairaland family.
*Kisses*

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by MiVida(m): 5:39pm On Nov 16, 2019
Wow... Cute guys get wahala honestly embarassed

My story is all over my profile too, finally broke up with my girlfriend recently after a 6year relationship and the temptations in my compound isn't getting any fair on me either. There's a girl who is in a very very serious relationship that I asked out, tho her man isn't here but she's so in love with him. I felt bad for seducing her several times and getting refused every damn time! Of all the ladies in the house, she's the one I like the most... Ebony, biggy biggy in all the fuckingg right places mahn!

I don't want to go into full details cos her bf could be in this forum and I honestly don't wanna ruin things for them... But it happened! Had to get myself to sleep over at her place and yeah! I still can't believe she let me show her what an awesome sexx can be like!

And as for my description, right on my profile.


As for the op, just don't let that girl take away those opportunities you have with your bro, I know how tempting it can be, I'd suggest you tell your sister.

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by NaijaDonCast(m): 5:41pm On Nov 16, 2019
Enjoy your rollercoaster don't drag us into it
Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by Nobody: 5:46pm On Nov 16, 2019
Joseph Joseph.
How many times did I call u??

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by RemyDropShadow(m): 5:47pm On Nov 16, 2019
NaijaDonCast:
Enjoy your rollercoaster don't drag us into it
okay

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by Eroms4life17(m): 5:50pm On Nov 16, 2019
Chairman, go and get yourself a girlfriend that will be coming to the house. Unless of course you want to fulfill your fantasy of sleeping with your bro girlfriend

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by Nobody: 5:51pm On Nov 16, 2019
Nigerian ladies love to eat their cake and still have it with them . She still wants to have fun but needs to hold down a good man. I have narrated this event here ones but I will do it again.
Reminiscing my service year I met this gorgeous and career lady. She had all the qualities I adored in a woman. I met her on the first day of camping. we were so fond of each other to the extent we ignored camp activities just to spend time together. She liked me likewise because according to her I am responsible and good marriage material. For once I never attempted to initiate sex with her because of the genuine feeling I had for her. I saw her as someone I could settle down with so, there is no need initiating sex just to sabotage my chances. Towards the end of our camping a well known play boy in my bunk said he slept with her . I didn't believe it until I saw them in a compromising position. From that day onward my feeling for her disappeared. She kept forcing herself on me but I kept doing the opposite. In fact I lost interest in her . After the camping we were posted to a different local government and I thanked God for that. She kept pestering me thinking she could rekindle the feeling I had for her . At this point I only viewed her as a sex object.
She decided to come spend the weekend with me which I disagreed but it later happened after like two months after camping. She spent roughly three days with me. The first day she came I tried to initiate sex, babe disagreed ooo. Babe was forming wife material cooking , washing my cloths and even cleaning the environment , even my landlady praised her. The second day babe didn't give me sex oo. I was like this babe had fun with a playboy in the camp and she is here taking advantage of my responsible looks and character for granted. The last day she spent which was Sunday night she wanted to act same way, at the middle of the night I threw her out . Nobody told her to succumb to my advances . After that event she was like this guy I never knew you can act that way . Up till today I don't think she is aware I know about her act with that playboy.

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by sweetonugbu: 5:51pm On Nov 16, 2019
Move out
Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by Dollarheist: 5:52pm On Nov 16, 2019
My guy blood is thicker than water your bro is your biggest gee, your biggest fans you are part of his life and future plans no fall his hands abeg just let your bro know the kind pesin him wan wife what if its not you, what if its another person and if you cant speak that out just move to any of your niggas place for some time And if ypu cant ,get a gf and let her come visiting
Thats my take, stay blest

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by walexzee11(m): 5:54pm On Nov 16, 2019
I do not envy your situation bro.... Leave the house until your brother comes around, then call her to talk sense into her brain in serious manner, not threat tho.

Please be careful and DO NOT touch her!

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by Nobody: 5:55pm On Nov 16, 2019
Eroms4life17:
Chairman, go and get yourself a girlfriend that will be coming to the house. Unless of course you want to fulfill your fantasy of sleeping with your bro girlfriend
"Do you want your brother to marry a future adulterer?"

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by Nobody: 5:57pm On Nov 16, 2019
RemyDropShadow:
Hey everyone,this might be a lengthy read I'm sorry. Don't even know if this is the right section to post this.
Had to create a new account for this. I'm confused and i really need matured advices from matured folks on here.

I'm the 5th child out of 6 children in my family(4 girls and 2 boys) and I'm 24. My elder bro who happens to be my most senior sibling(first child) is 32 and he has a 26 year old fiancee.

I used to have a very big problem guys, with women actually.

This stemmed from the fact that for some very weird reason, girls almost always adore me to the dangerous point of making it very easy for me to sleep with them even without spending much.
I was addicted to sex and women in general because of that.

My brother has always stayed in his own house since he was 26. He is really comfortable with a very good job plus he runs a successful business. I've been staying with him since I was 16..
We used to be really wayward. I followed him everywhere. Parties, clubs, bars, you name it, we represented. He funded my stupid lifestyle, I even lost my virginity at 17 when he paid a girl to sleep with me. This was the very beginning of my obsession.

At 21, my body count was already over 30 and I had already slept with 2 of his very serious girlfriends (which they initiated actually) without him knowing. I was actually in over my head then and the excitement made me do them without thinking. Probably due to the fact that I've always envied my brother's very masculine physique and looks. I have very dark periodontal circles around my eyes and thick brows which always made me look more feminine than masculine till I was able to hide it with a beard so it came as a huge feat to be able to bed his girlfriends at the very least, to me.

I got caught though with the 2nd who he actually had marriage plans for. He intercepted a text she sent to me and all hell was let loose. A family meeting was held, my mum and entire family were so mad at me. My eldest sister slapped me to kingdom come. I had to kneel and beg in tears for him and everyone to forgive me which he did to my surprise. He forgave me wholeheartedly. He never chased me away from his home till I left for service July last year to Abuja.

During this period, he met and engaged his current fiancee.. I came back from Abuja August this year and met her here. I almost didn't approve of her cause of her slay queen kinda dress style and looks but we got along so well almost immediately.. Then I started noticing some weird behaviors 2 months back.

I was asleep one afternoon when my brother was at work and woke up to find his fiancee kneeling beside my bed, staring at my face. I almost screamed but I recognized her in time and she started laughing so i took it as a joke. It happened again about a week later but this time around, I pretended to be asleep and knew when she walked into my room and I felt her staring into my face for some minutes till she got up and left. I got so scared of her cause i started thinking she was a witch or something.

My brother traveled about 3 weeks ago and she was always walking around the house with a towel that revealed most of her laps. It made me very uneasy and scared. One day she came into my room to take movies from my laptop with same towel. All the while she was sitting in front of me, I could see her vagina clearly but I pretended and was sweating profusely. she acted like she was oblivious though. When she got up to leave, her towel dropped and she was stark naked in front of me. she screamed and acted like it was a mistake but my guts keeps telling me it wasn't. I almost grabbed her I wouldn't lie but the fear of my family is bigger than any urge out there. They'll fry me and hang me out to dry.

She gives me intense stares whenever she talks to me almost like she wants to set me on fire with her eyes and right now guys I'm really scared of repeating what almost destroyed the relationship I had with my brother. I really don't know what to do. I'm thinking of moving back to my family house but when I brought it up to my brother, he wasn't having any of it. He blatantly refused and said he was working on getting me a job somewhere so he needs me close. Should i mention he is also planning on sending me to Canada for my masters. I'm also thinking of opening up to him but I feel like there isn't enough to accuse her and I might just end up re-opening old wounds with such accusations.

I'm at crossroads hear folks, I feel scared of going out of my room these days, I can't even look her in the eyes for more than a second and she seems to enjoy it(probably thinking she is intimidating me with her beauty) but I'm just really scared.

I need matured advices please and if you can't give any, you're better off not commenting.. I'm trying to be a good person my family will be proud of in the future and I've come a long way in beating my sexual addictions.

Cc: Lalasticlala
Guy you need to call her and tell her not to try such rubbish with you or less you will report her to your brother

My guy avoid her and avoid been alone at home with her ,get yourself busy ,visit your friends anytime it's only both of you around

Flee all appearances of evil.

PS: You need to let your brother know the kind of h0e he wants to get married to

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by RemyDropShadow(m): 5:59pm On Nov 16, 2019
MiVida:
Wow... Cute guys get wahala honestly embarassed

My story is all over my profile too, finally broke up with my girlfriend recently after a 6year relationship and the temptations in my compound isn't getting any fair on me either. There's a girl who is in a very very serious relationship that I asked out, tho her man isn't here but she's so in love with him. I felt bad for seducing her several times and getting refused every damn time! Of all the ladies in the house, she's the one I like the most... Ebony, biggy biggy in all the fuckingg right places mahn!

I don't want to go into full details cos her bf could be in this forum and I honestly don't wanna ruin things for them... But it happened! Had to get myself to sleep over at her place and yeah! I still can't believe she let me show her what an awesome sexx can be like!
Yeah there is a devilish sense of achievement one gets after eating from a pot he isn't meant to but that's what it is bro. It's pure evil and we should know better truth be told..

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by Nemesis0147(m): 6:00pm On Nov 16, 2019
I pity your brother
Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by RemyDropShadow(m): 6:01pm On Nov 16, 2019
Eroms4life17:
Chairman, go and get yourself a girlfriend that will be coming to the house. Unless of course you want to fulfill your fantasy of sleeping with your bro girlfriend
I don't do girlfriends. Always get tired of them once i sleep with them so I kinda just save girls the heartache by not drifting towards that area.

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by Abfinest007(m): 6:01pm On Nov 16, 2019
if she seduces u seduce her back
Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by MiVida(m): 6:02pm On Nov 16, 2019
RemyDropShadow:
Yeah there is a devilish sense of achievement one gets after eating from a pot he isn't meant to but that's what it is bro. It's pure evil and we should know better truth be told..
it's really not easy. Sha do what's right.

I wouldn't dare furk my brother's fiance tho... Even tho I have non embarassed
Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by RemyDropShadow(m): 6:03pm On Nov 16, 2019
Dollarheist:
My guy blood is thicker than water your bro is your biggest gee, your biggest fans you are part of his life and future plans no fall his hands abeg just let your bro know the kind pesin him wan wife what if its not you, what if its another person and if you cant speak that out just move to any of your niggas place for some time And if ypu cant ,get a gf and let her come visiting
Thats my take, stay blest
yes boss. Him knowing is just the best but coming from me without any evidence, it might backfire. It's her word against mine. I'm thinking of telling my eldest sister or my mum but I'm currently the black sheep of the house boss. No one believes me.

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by RemyDropShadow(m): 6:04pm On Nov 16, 2019
walexzee11:
I do not envy your situation bro.... Leave the house until your brother comes around, then call her to talk sense into her brain in serious manner, not threat tho.

Please be careful and DO NOT touch her!
Thanks for your advice boss.
Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by RemyDropShadow(m): 6:06pm On Nov 16, 2019
Goodbloke:
Guy you need to call her and tell her not to try such rubbish with you or less you will report her to your brother

My guy avoid her and avoid been alone at home with her ,get yourself busy ,visit your friends anytime it's only both of you around

Flee all appearances of evil.

Thanks for your input boss. Wish my brother would just let me go home though.
Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by Chuks9000: 6:07pm On Nov 16, 2019
Guy, run for your life. It might even be a setup.
Reporting to your brother is your words against hers. No need for that.

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by Dollarheist: 6:08pm On Nov 16, 2019
RemyDropShadow:
yes boss. Him knowing is just the best but coming from me without any evidence, it might backfire. It's her word against mine. I'm thinking of telling my eldest sister or my mum but I'm currently the black sheep of the house boss. No one believes me.
All you gat to do is form bond with one of your surest nigga and japa from the house and tell your bro u dey one or two hustle outside with your guy so e no go reason am


BRO JAPA !!!!!!!!

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by RemyDropShadow(m): 6:10pm On Nov 16, 2019
MiVida:
it's really not easy. Sha do what's right.

I wouldn't dare furk my brother's fiance tho... Even tho I have non embarassed
Thanks for your input boss. I appreciate.
Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by RemyDropShadow(m): 6:13pm On Nov 16, 2019
Chuks9000:
Guy, run for your life. It might even be a setup.
Reporting to your brother is your words against hers. No need for that.
exactly. Finally, someone gets me.
The last incident added to my long list of atrocities and cemented me as the black sheep or even goat of the house. No one believes me especially when it comes to girls. I feel like crying right now. Honestly don't know where my brother find these people from. I'm gonna have to tell my mum and hope mama sees the truth in my eyes.

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by 1beat(m): 6:16pm On Nov 16, 2019
this story is Fake ... believing dis na OYO u dey although, you rlly try composing this length story
Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by olalat(m): 6:18pm On Nov 16, 2019
Invite your gf to the house. Let her be constant and regular in the house. Your girlfriend presence will make her automatically loose interest in you. Dont touch her pls. And don't inform your brother either. It will raise suspicion.

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by Eroms4life17(m): 6:22pm On Nov 16, 2019
aishauju:
"Do you want your brother to marry a future adulterer?"
So it's okay to fall for her advances?
Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by Eroms4life17(m): 6:23pm On Nov 16, 2019
RemyDropShadow:
I don't do girlfriends. Always get tired of them once i sleep with them so I kinda just save girls the heartache by not drifting towards that area.
Your matter pass my power
Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by RemyDropShadow(m): 6:25pm On Nov 16, 2019
1beat:
this story is Fake ...
believing dis na OYO u dey
although, you rlly try composing this length story
yeah, looks like a script right? Almost can't believe it myself. One thing i can assure you though is this script is very real and if you have nothing important to add, kindly shut up and go read it as a bedtime story to your girlfriend or something.

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by RemyDropShadow(m): 6:27pm On Nov 16, 2019
olalat:
Invite your gf to the house. Let her be constant and regular in the house. Your girlfriend presence will make her automatically loose interest in you. Dont touch her pls. And don't inform your brother either. It will raise suspicion.
Thanks for your input boss. I don't have a girlfriend though but I think I know one or two people that can pose as one.
But I'd really like to see this girl out of my brother's life and telling my mum seems to me like the last option right now.
Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by solmusdesigns: 6:35pm On Nov 16, 2019
undecided



Start quarelling with her for no reason and giving her attitude, or just bluntly confront her and, one thing i noticed about similar situation is that its devil messing around with you and hoping to mess up your life.. once thing go south with your destiny and your family and helpers turn their back on you the same ladies that rush you would turn their backs on you



..

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Re: I Think My Elder Brother's Fiancee Is Trying To Seduce Me. by Plebian(f): 6:36pm On Nov 16, 2019
Are you in lagos? I'll help you intimidate her, probably hex her out of your bros life. Am bored.... and you seem like you need help.

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