Greystone:


Forget girls for now.

Work hard and make money.

They will be the ones chasing you.

Gracealone:
Now you mentioned it's beyond repair. Of what benefit is any advice to you?

You need to change your mindset first, and work on your self-confidence.

Oluromantic:
At 19 what you're going thru is not abnormal. What's abnormal about you is your thoughts that are getting near suicide gradually.

Tpave:
Your just 19yrs. You're still very young, work on your self esteem.

liquidfaya:
Reminds me of that loser digmygold

He had to marry a grandmother just to cope. But he was dumped by his father as a baby. So his issues are hopeless.

Needhelppls:
I've never been a downer, never asked for help, but I think i need help . I'm depressed


I'm socially fvcked up beyond repair. Ever think you're at the point where you started learning things too late? It's where I am right now.
I
High school days were tormenting, I had friends that tortured me emotionally, lowered my self esteem and confidence.


Now I'm 19, first year in the uni. Never had a gf, very few friends.
I've been a chronic Introvert, was shy (not anymore).

Would have asked for help earlier but I dismissed the thought, thinking I'll soon get around to fixing my completely non-existant social life.

Social skills, to others, is just like a normal everyday skill, but to me, I apply conscious effort and focus. Trust me, I've tried

Things like having anxiety attacks moment before calling a girl. Ended up calling, was a disaster


I just have this feeling of being behind
- too behind

Now anyone I encounter, I feel completely out-of-sync within a few minutes. I keep loosing meaningful connections.



My outward appearance makes people wanna come close, then they get to notice I'm socially awkward and I'm politely forgotten.

I don't want this Life anymore, I just want to live a normal social life.


Someone pls help!
FP pls

Thoughtfeed:


There is no normal social life

Everyone you see out there has self esteem issues

Thats why girls use filter... Thats why boys want to make money, thats why they flaunt money..

There is no normal.

Accept your social awkwardness and live life...

What are your hobbies and dreams.

In my class some people see me as socially awkward.... I barely talk though lots ofi guys and girls like being around me.... But i live my life. I focus on making money and perfecting my skills

I can now play thr guitar, piano, do graphics and write books.

I'm a student already earning above the minimum wage....

When girls enter my room, i don't try to impress them, i dont even reply their compliments... I sometimes say... I know....

I dont hate my social awkwardness, instead i use the spare time it gives me to focus on getting money and enjoying myself.....

For you to do all these you have to read books

Like 48 lawsof power
The power of the subconscious mind
7 habits of highly effective people
Brian Tracy books
There are many


Dont assume that others are enjoying.... No one is really enjoying in this world.... Those that live happily simply developed a thicker skin.... They know that life is brutal but they are not as soft as you thats why no one or nothing in life can hurt their esteem....

They know that we are all going to die so they enjoy their lives and have fun....

Take this from me

Take life very seriously when you're alone or working but when you're in public, take life less seriously, laugh and joke and play...

If no one laughs at your jokes... make better jokes... Dont start feeling bad...

Another thing is to have direction, ambition.... Remember that you're not going to see those your school friends after 5 years.. so if you live your life because of them you will end up lost after five years...

So plan for youro future and work towards it..... Laugh and joke with your school friends and seriously work towards your future....

Don't try to be the most popular or most loved in school.... Simply be Happy...

Embrace your awkwardness... Stop judging your life by looking like others....

Develop hobbies, learn skills, stay busy and focus on your life goals.... That way you'll have a better future...

And havw fun when the time comes

adeboi1:
Iclef

iClef:


I don't like replying all these kids that open new monikers and the first thing they do is to ask for a relationship or social behavior advice or financial help.

These kids are exactly the ones that use their main monikers to abuse people who post relationship tips and tell them to go make money that with money, they'll get any woman etc

When reality hits them, and all of a sudden, you'll see them with a new moniker asking for help in relationship or finance.

It's hypocrisy and I hate it.

Needhelppls:



Thanks a lot for this

Dobson43:




Your problem basically is how do you handle rejection? Whatever temperament you have, you need to become comfortable with your self. Love your self first. Handling societal pressure is hard because everyone else out there are living lies. My bro, it's all about packaging o. You gat to build your self and simply learn the art of not giving a f_ck. Do your thing and be your self. Forget those advices up there about giving life to Jesus. Think positive thoughts about yourself

Tozic:
first and foremost you need find out that thing that's making u feel timid around women, it could be a malady...
Make friends with extroverts.
Make friends with extroverts.
Make friends with extroverts.
You see I emphasized on this part very well.. Don't joke with it. You need human skills.

liquidfaya:
Reminds me of that loser digmygold

He had to marry a grandmother just to cope. But he was dumped by his father as a baby. So his issues are hopeless.

liquidfaya:
Reminds me of that loser digmygold

He had to marry a grandmother just to cope. But he was dumped by his father as a baby. So his issues are hopeless.

Digmygold:


Poor redpiller wailer. Your children are hungry. Their hoe mothers are fvcking retards to exist. Child support is what you should be researching on. Deadbeat mofo.

Thoughtfeed:


There is no normal social life

Everyone you see out there has self esteem issues

Thats why girls use filter... Thats why boys want to make money, thats why they flaunt money..

There is no normal.

Accept your social awkwardness and live life...

What are your hobbies and dreams.

In my class some people see me as socially awkward.... I barely talk though lots ofi guys and girls like being around me.... But i live my life. I focus on making money and perfecting my skills

I can now play thr guitar, piano, do graphics and write books.

I'm a student already earning above the minimum wage....

When girls enter my room, i don't try to impress them, i dont even reply their compliments... I sometimes say... I know....

I dont hate my social awkwardness, instead i use the spare time it gives me to focus on getting money and enjoying myself.....

For you to do all these you have to read books

Like 48 lawsof power
The power of the subconscious mind
7 habits of highly effective people
Brian Tracy books
There are many


Dont assume that others are enjoying.... No one is really enjoying in this world.... Those that live happily simply developed a thicker skin.... They know that life is brutal but they are not as soft as you thats why no one or nothing in life can hurt their esteem....

They know that we are all going to die so they enjoy their lives and have fun....

Take this from me

Take life very seriously when you're alone or working but when you're in public, take life less seriously, laugh and joke and play...

If no one laughs at your jokes... make better jokes... Dont start feeling bad...

Another thing is to have direction, ambition.... Remember that you're not going to see those your school friends after 5 years.. so if you live your life because of them you will end up lost after five years...

So plan for youro future and work towards it..... Laugh and joke with your school friends and seriously work towards your future....

Don't try to be the most popular or most loved in school.... Simply be Happy...

Embrace your awkwardness... Stop judging your life by looking like others....

Develop hobbies, learn skills, stay busy and focus on your life goals.... That way you'll have a better future...

And havw fun when the time comes

Needhelppls:
I've never been a downer, never asked for help, but I think i need help . I'm depressed


I'm socially fvcked up beyond repair. Ever think you're at the point where you started learning things too late? It's where I am right now.

High school days were tormenting, I had friends that tortured me emotionally, lowered my self esteem and confidence.


Now I'm 19, first year in the uni. Never had a gf, very few friends.
I've been a chronic Introvert, was shy (not anymore).

Would have asked for help earlier but I dismissed the thought, thinking I'll soon get around to fixing my completely non-existant social life.

Social skills, to others, is just like a normal everyday skill, but to me, I apply conscious effort and focus. Trust me, I've tried

Things like having anxiety attacks moment before calling a girl. Ended up calling, was a disaster


I just have this feeling of being behind
- too behind

Now anyone I encounter, I feel completely out-of-sync within a few minutes. I keep loosing meaningful connections.



My outward appearance makes people wanna come close, then they get to notice I'm socially awkward and I'm politely forgotten.

I don't want this Life anymore, I just want to live a normal social life.


Someone pls help!
FP pls