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Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by SultanOfAbia: 10:42am On May 08, 2020 |
The Bible says obey your father and mother so ye shall live long. What if you're father is telling you to do something you know is very wrong Will you obey him or disobey him? What if your mother supports your father in every negative thing he tells you to do? Some parents are not wise and are easily manipulated by pastors and imams. I think you should only Respect your parents if they are WISE 58 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by SultanOfAbia: 10:50am On May 08, 2020 |
African mentality is that you should respect your parents no matter what because they sacrified all they had for you. This is a tactics used to Guilt Shame you whenever you don't agree with parents Lol, duhhhhhh. Before nko?? If you bring a child into this world then you must sacrifice to keep it alive. It's not rocket science If you don't want to sacrifice then don't go and insert your dick and give birth to kids. You don't owe your parents for taking care of you.. That is a duty they both agreed to do once they decided to have kids If I request for a puppy, of course I have to get ready to feed and raise the puppy. It is my responsibility and duty since I requested for it. You can never achieve anything if you cling too much on your parents advice They are biased on many many levels Some are blinded by doctrine They had no access to Internet and a large amount of information unlike us. That is why White people are far ahead of us. They allow their kids to explore life and in doing so these kids become their best selves with great potential to the community and the world. 314 Likes 42 Shares |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by dukeprince50: 10:58am On May 08, 2020 |
Pls this deserve front page. I am going through similar problem that is frustrating the hell out of me and need some advice 51 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by Exmilitant(m): 11:11am On May 08, 2020 |
Some parents are chickens!! Never obey chickens if you are a eagle. Had i listen to my overprotective mom, i wouldn't have been the wealthy and powerful son she now boast of... 171 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by SultanOfAbia: 11:47am On May 08, 2020 |
dukeprince50:Can you elaborate more on the matter? Tell us what happened 3 Likes |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by dukeprince50: 12:04pm On May 08, 2020 |
SultanOfAbia:deleted, not necessary 1 Like |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by dukeprince50: 12:26pm On May 08, 2020 |
SultanOfAbia:though I deleted the post, u were quick. Weda I become successful or fail in life, I'll still feel it more and people won't point fingers at my parents, so I think everyone has the right to choose a path, after all u will still be the one who will account for it in the future, nobody will blame ur parents for ur failure and nobody will praise them for ur success. Nobody is blaming shekau's mom for not raising him properly and only few people knows Bill Gates mother. Our destiny is in our hands, so to ur earlier question, I'll say if ur parents gave u advice, u have the right to take it or not, Nothing guarantee success, it's better to do what makes u happy and fail than to do what doesn't make u happy and still fail. Happiness cannot be compromised 57 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by SultanOfAbia: 12:31pm On May 08, 2020 |
dukeprince50:God gracious you have said it all Our future is in our hands.. I wish you all the best in life! 24 Likes |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by Slawormir: 9:10pm On May 08, 2020 |
Damnnnnn niggarrr Isoright Bros op is right But whether ignorant or not Our parents mean well for us It is up to you to use your discretion 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by betterman22(m): 9:10pm On May 08, 2020 |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by betterman22(m): 9:10pm On May 08, 2020 |
SultanOfAbia: 1 Like |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by jnrbayano(m): 9:10pm On May 08, 2020 |
That's where wisdom come to play... Don't refuse them outrightly to their face but when you depart you do the right thing Just like when your boss instructs on the way a task is to be carried out which you are certain is a wrong approach. You don't go about schooling him in order to expose his ineptitude and enthrone your ideas. You just need to apply the right approach and give him feedback on the success of the execution of that task without insisting you didn't get the task done not following his guidelines Wisdom! 89 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by NobleAngell(f): 9:10pm On May 08, 2020 |
Truth is, I have understood the kind of parents God has given me so I've learnt that obeying everything they say is a bad idea. Really bad idea. My parents have a kind of ideology that would work fine if only we were still in 1900. So I don't even bother. When I manage to take their advice, I add some 2020 spice to it. But most times, I just allow God to lead me. 75 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by overseer1(m): 9:10pm On May 08, 2020 |
How? Suddenly, your parents become ignorant because you have meet one woman who you are not sure of her sincerity and genuineness to you. My bro better have a rethink before you rush to classify your parents as ignorant. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by Donald3d(m): 9:10pm On May 08, 2020 |
Listen to the Holy Spirit He is the best teacher and director 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by betterman22(m): 9:10pm On May 08, 2020 |
dukeprince50: 1 Like |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by PureGoldh(m): 9:10pm On May 08, 2020 |
The matter wey dey on ground so....e heavy for mouth 1 Like |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by ElFantasma(f): 9:11pm On May 08, 2020 |
Ignorant advice I can disobey, since anyone can sometimes give wrong advice based on lack of adequate information, but I can never refer to my parents as ignorant or unwise. 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by IME1: 9:11pm On May 08, 2020 |
that word ignorant itself is dishonourable 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by bukatyne(f): 9:11pm On May 08, 2020 |
SultanOfAbia: There is a time for everything under the sun. A time to obey your parents and a time to honor them. You necessarily do not have to obey them during honoring. 4 Likes |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by Authoreety: 9:11pm On May 08, 2020 |
Just give the impression that u are on same page with them.. But try to do the right thing that they won't be ashamed of 3 Likes |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by Offpoint: 9:12pm On May 08, 2020 |
If they are ignorance, it's your duty to enlighten them.. It's not disobedience. Got uncle who snuffed, till I left his place I've never gone to get him snuff. He got tired of beating and gave up. There should be lines 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by fastseo: 9:12pm On May 08, 2020 |
In the LORD not outside the Lord Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. 8 Likes |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by directonpc(m): 9:13pm On May 08, 2020 |
Nope! But disobey in a kind way. Don't be like those Nairalanders that derail Christianity and Islam threads because they feel religious people are ignorant. 10 Likes |
Re: Should You Obey Ignorant Parents?? by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:13pm On May 08, 2020 |
There’s a way to go about these things. God is Wise. Yes, it is true that we’ll be more knowledgeable than our parents in certain areas, but we won’t in entirety be wiser than our parents so much so that they should be outrightly disobeyed. Wisdom is profitable to direct. If you find that your parents are asking you to do something that’s not the best, and you know better, calmly explain things to them. If you’re not succeeding, involve someone else who they respect, to make them see reasons. This is especially when you’re still under their roof. You can’t just go about saying your parents are ignorant and should be obeyed only if they are wise. That statement in itself shows that you are not even wise. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
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