Hi nairalanders,  To start wt,am a  20yr old gradu8 of 1 of d Federal south-eastern unis. D prob ryt nw iz dt am rily inundated wt advances 4rm older/mature ladies,d latest being a banker in a new generatn bank here in lagos. She's a 9ice person,** nt dat she gv me anyfin tho, **  Ma point iz dt d only gurl i hav feelinz 4 iz nw tellin moi dt she gt a man in er lyf tho she agreed she does av feelinz 4 me 2,  Av made up ma mind to try persuadin her till mnt end afta whch i'll gv dose ladies a chance coz @ d last count dey are nt less dan 10. Btw most r wealthy n seem sure abt wt dey wnt. Its nt dt am  shy or somfin approachin ladies, av very gud communicatn skillz,almost evry1 dt a meet says so n i also knw ds 4 a fact.its jst dt ds gurl hs all i wnt in a woman n i dnt wnt to lose er.pls i need info on ow to win her luv,i need ur advice Nl's  Pls ignore ma username,am nt a player.

whatelse do u wanna hear?she says she has a man already,let her go if u can but if not then wait and pray they break up.although thats not a nice prayer point and i dont fink God answers such.

So wats d innocence u about to loose?

Lord_Reed:

So wats d innocence u about to loose?

help me ask o

Thought OP was gonna say he was a V and one Potiphar's wife was tempting him. . Lost innocence indeed. .

Whatever happened to writing in plain, easy to understand English.

deli.cious:

Whatever happened to writing in plain, easy to understand English.

It's expired. A lot of people write in text-speak,even when they're NOT texting.

@atreides and spcialst ; Yeah am a virgin (didnt do it in uni.)and i won't b naive to think i'd date dem mature ladies without sex,bound to happen sooner or later. Pls all i need is advice on how i can win dis gurls heart b4 i do what's in my mind. Tanx,am waitin,

Dude i think you're too young to start dating older ladies,k, you've your whole life ahead of you, don't exchange it for c'mon s.ex and peanuts and since you're a virgin, its only proper vat your first love making should be wif someone you love and care about and not some Hot shameless old hag.
This girl you talk about, if you truly love her as you claim, then go for her, on a one-one convo wif her, tell her how you feel and what she means to you bla bla bla. . . . .i mean you're the one in love not me.And some girlish gifts might help.
Goodluck.

*hisses*, You just wasted my time cos i was expecting to read how your innocence was about to be lost!

Hook on Phonetics!

First up I think u've got it twisted. Here u are saying u want s e x than u go proclaiming luv.
Since u want the s e x wats stoppin u? Oh sorry its the girl u want to bleep oh oh my bad.
Please don't proclaim any stopid luv dat u don't mean just cos u want to get into her pants. She's beta off as she is b4 she starts changing mind only for u to dump her afta getting wat u want.
Abeg free the girl jor n go n have fun wit those willing to do so.

english please