KenBen217:

bro...I'm about to give you d most ridiculous advise...but it might work...tell her straight up that you usually don't even know what to say when you call her...and you can't keep asking her what she ate all the time...she can stop by at your place to watch a movie or grab a plate or something...because you must pass that hurdle before you'll even start dating or anything...if u end up together is it not your place she'll be coming...might as well invite her already...then try your best to make her enjoy her visit

MasterShifu010:
heh!!.....sigh of relief cos I thought it's just me....i hate talking,aside from the fact that I get slight headache from talking too much. I run away from girls that always try to engage me in all these emotional talks, I have this neighbour that will always complain to me how she is not getting enough attention from the guy she likes, believe me sitting there listening to her makes me understand why some people commit suicide..for God sakes if some one does not feel the Thesame way quit, but rather they'd want to talk about it.....and I hate chatting be it WhatsApp, Facebook, I don't even have an instagram account, tik tok or any of those social media platforms where people waste their time and resources....my favourite site is quora, w3school, udemy etc......I can spend my whole day on these sites....some days I take out my sim card and put another sim no soul has the number so I can enjoy this sites without disturbance from nobody

McBrooklyn:


Mingling and relationship is important but money is importantanter especially with the way some 9ja ladies now sees relationship as another source of income.. You just keep on working on yourself bruh and don't fück up your cheddar as well cos after all said and done, it's gonna be all you got

MelaninSkinGirl:


You want to get into her brain not just her into her kitty-Cat. Some of you guys are so dull and you wonder why she tries to avoid any alone time with you

Sixfeetbelle:


The excuse they use to hide their inadequacies...

rottencorpse:
I've been seeing your posts and I really need to let you know that you're a bitch

MelaninSkinGirl:


Oh dear, my posts must have triggered you badly

MasterShifu010:
heh!!.....sigh of relief cos I thought it's just me....i hate talking,aside from the fact that I get slight headache from talking too much. I run away from girls that always try to engage me in all these emotional talks, I have this neighbour that will always complain to me how she is not getting enough attention from the guy she likes, believe me sitting there listening to her makes me understand why some people commit suicide..for God sakes if some one does not feel the Thesame way quit, but rather they'd want to talk about it.....and I hate chatting be it WhatsApp, Facebook, I don't even have an instagram account, tik tok or any of those social media platforms where people waste their time and resources....my favourite site is quora, w3school, udemy etc......I can spend my whole day on these sites....some days I take out my sim card and put another sim no soul has the number so I can enjoy this sites without disody

Yayonigga44:
I am the type of guy that run away from people just to avoid striking a conversation. I hate small talks. All that is in my head is work. I usually use money to cover up when getting involved with ladies but that only turned me to a maga. Just met a lady recently, but anytime I call her I hardly have what to say( I won't be telling her about codes na). I have a feeling she will stop picking my calls. Can anyone here relate?

banjicom:


It is not your fault bro, most of our Nigeria ladies are not to write home about when it comes to keeping a conversation going.

MelaninSkinGirl:


Sorry dear that my comments are triggering you A grown and cultured man would try and reason with me but Nairaland is not a place to meet grown and cultured men, Nairaland is full of uncultured jungle men beasts who take pleasure in denigrating women. So SIR, I will keep saying what I am saying and you can ignore all my posts. Thank you very much.

Yayonigga44:

To call all these girls dey fear me. When they Kno you have small change they will begin to demand from you

Exactly Bruh... Just keep on stacking up your money abeg, dem hôes no worth am


A good lady will pop up when the the time is right through the right connection.. you can just keep on working on your communication game in the meantime, trust me everything will turn out fine.. Ma 4

SweetCunt97:
You are as blind as a bat or lack comprehensive abilities. The op says he's the problem and you turning around to spill garbage? Waka there

SweetCunt97:
You are as blind as a bat or lack comprehensive abilities. The op says he's the problem and you turning around to spill garbage? Waka there

rottencorpse:
Check his comment again and see if he used abusive words. Clearly he didn't so why do you have to abuse him? It's obvious that you're very stupid.

banjicom:


Who is dis one?

Be like say u dey mad abi? It is your father dat lack basic comprehensive skills.

I follow you talk ni.........Bleep off!!!!

SweetCunt97:
Watch the way you talk about women next time. If dem no give u training, I go instill am into you via NL by force

banjicom:


Are u mad?
Na me u wan give training.......if you quote me again i will deal with you dis week.

You think u can hide under a moniker and start quoting people writing rubbish abi? U think d world start and ends on nairaland right?

U don't know me, i will deal with you in real life.

Today is monday, If you quote me again to say rubbish i will make dis week difficult for you, i will give you real life home training dat your parents forgot to give you when you are young.

MasterShifu010:
heh!!.....sigh of relief cos I thought it's just me....i hate talking,aside from the fact that I get slight headache from talking too much. I run away from girls that always try to engage me in all these emotional talks, I have this neighbour that will always complain to me how she is not getting enough attention from the guy she likes, believe me sitting there listening to her makes me understand why some people commit suicide..for God sakes if some one does not feel the Thesame way quit, but rather they'd want to talk about it.....and I hate chatting be it WhatsApp, Facebook, I don't even have an instagram account, tik tok or any of those social media platforms where people waste their time and resources....my favourite site is quora, w3school, udemy etc......I can spend my whole day on these sites....some days I take out my sim card and put another sim no soul has the number so I can enjoy this sites without disturbance from nobody

Zdoh:
My kind of person. I used to missed alot of calls purposely because i always feel disturbed or disguished with penty talks.

ReluctantAdult:
I don't like the trivial romantic conversations that women so much love. I just can't do it. I don't wanna listen to her emotional stories too. It's a lot of work, I swear.

One time I tried putting up with that and it drained me out. Let's just have sex, watch a movie together, argue about sports, politics etc. I'll be fine with that.

But the moment you wanna talk about your emotional stuff and expect me to listen to you, I'm out. If you've got a problem you wanna let me know, go straight to the point and we get a solution and move on. No emotional sh1t.

Divay22:

Women ain't wired that way.
You gat learn it, if you'll someday get married.