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Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by ChildOfDoom: 3:02pm On May 23
Don't be lured into getting married and having children. Children of this generation are nothing to write home about. If you must get married, don't make babies.

After suffering to train them at their tender age: pack their excreta, rush to hospital when sick, feed to adulthood, pay school fees and so on. They grow up to taunt you

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Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by Ezennwa(m): 3:03pm On May 23
hmm!

You are entitled to your opinion.

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Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by ChildOfDoom: 3:07pm On May 23
There is a lot of truancy, gambling, mischievousness, promiscuity, pilfering, masturbation, lack of self-control etc amongst teenagers and growing adults. Only about 2 percent of children grow up to be successful.

I know what i have made my mum pass through, despite wanting to see her smile. She has really suffered for us her children. Addictions control right thinking. The western world has finished us

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Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by tripplephi: 3:10pm On May 23
ChildOfDoom:
Don't be lured into getting married and having children. Children of this generation are nothing to write home about. If you must get married, don't make babies.

After suffering to train them at their tender age: pack their excreta, rush to hospital when sick, feed to adulthood, pay schools and so on. They grow up to taunt you

You are not a CHILD OF DOOM... you are just WEAK.

If you had STRONG GODLY INTENSE PARENTING... you would be far better by now.

Are we not both in the same generation? Yet we are very different, so pls if you need help, let us know because I refuse to believe that your life is finished and this is the best of you... NEVER... I believe you are only growing through a phase, you can be far better than your past if you are ready to try again the right way.
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by gregyboy(m): 3:27pm On May 23
Children are only cute when they are young, when the grow up they become your night mare....
I still wanna have just two fulfil all righteousness

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Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by ChildOfDoom: 5:01pm On May 23
Ezennwa:
hmm!
You are entitled to your opinion.
okay then. Maybe i'm myopic
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by ChildOfDoom: 5:01pm On May 23
Ezennwa:
hmm!
You are entitled to your opinion.
okay then. Maybe i'm myopic
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by Naija246: 5:14pm On May 23
it depends how you raise them op.
Environment too plays a huge role.

The internet,Tv, Socialmedia, School, Friends all play a major role in shaping a child.

Expose them to these things in a highly controlled manner.
Etc
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by Nobody: 6:04pm On May 23
gregyboy:
Children are only cute when they are young, when the grow up they become your night mare....
I still wanna have just two fulfil all righteousness
I want only 1 too. I can't spend my own life caring for them

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Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by Benqozenero(m): 6:48pm On May 23
ChildOfDoom:
Don't be lured into getting married and having children. Children of this generation are nothing to write home about. If you must get married, don't make babies.

After suffering to train them at their tender age: pack their excreta, rush to hospital when sick, feed to adulthood, pay schools and so on. They grow up to taunt you

The problem is not the children. It's parental failure.
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by ChildOfDoom: 9:42pm On May 23
tripplephi:


You are not a CHILD OF DOOM... you are just WEAK.

If you had STRONG GODLY INTENSE PARENTING... you would be far better by now.

Are we not both in the same generation? Yet we are very different, so pls if you need help, let us know because I refuse to believe that your life is finished and this is the best of you... NEVER... I believe you are only growing through a phase, you can be far better than your past if you are ready to try again the right way.
thank you for your kind words. I will keep picking up the pieces of my life
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by ChildOfDoom: 8:02am On May 24
gregyboy:
Children are only cute when they are young, when the grow up they become your night mare....
I still wanna have just two fulfil all righteousness
hmm.. Maybe my opinion might change if i meet a saviour. For now, i don't even trust myself. Not to talk of trusting any one
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by ChildOfDoom: 11:46am On May 24
Naija246:
it depends how you raise them op.
Environment too plays a huge role.

The internet,Tv, Socialmedia, School, Friends all play a major role in shaping a child.

Expose them to these things in a highly controlled manner.
Etc
hmm. One point. What of when they go to a boarding school or stay on campus in a higher institution. Different influences will still come in
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by ChildOfDoom: 1:45pm On May 24
Lostz:

I want only 1 too. I can't spend my own life caring for them
That sh*t is scary. Being responsible for raising another. Nowadays, children still lean on their parents. Even in their thirties. I'm just a walking bomb

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Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by rosy1992(f): 2:28pm On May 24
You should have the number of children you can train. I am OK with 1 or 2.
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by ChildOfDoom: 5:04pm On May 24
Benqozenero:


The problem is not the children. It's parental failure.
Parents are not the only agent of socialisation. There is the mass media, peer pressure etc. But i get you somehow. If parents could discipline their children well or give them their basic needs, they won't be so desperate to make it through different means

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Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by Benqozenero(m): 5:58pm On May 24
ChildOfDoom:
Parents are not the only agent of socialisation. There is the mass media, peer pressure etc. But i get you somehow. If parents could discipline their children well or give them their basic needs, they won't be so desperate to make it through different means

Now you get the point. In Nigeria, leadership is always a problem. From family to the government, because of misplaced priority.
As a parent myself, if my children becomes a nuisance, then I accept my failure as I bear full responsibility.
If leaders understands that the blame stops at their table then they will start taking right decision. Because I have come to realize that so called head/leaders in this part of the world make wrong decisions on purpose then look for someone to blame
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by BusterG: 7:14pm On May 24
shocked

Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by ChildOfDoom: 2:13am On May 25
rosy1992:
You should have the number of children you can train. I am OK with 1 or 2.
okay. Include God's intervention, proper care and strict monitoring. Some acts of children these days, can give parents hypertension
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by fattprince(m): 7:46am On May 25
rosy1992:
You should have the number of children you can train. I am OK with 1 or 2.
I wanna have 4 from 4 women. And 6 if I go international. I'm the champion.
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by ChildOfDoom: 12:25pm On May 25
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by ChildOfDoom: 6:55pm On May 25
fattprince:

I wanna have 4 from 4 women. And 6 if I go international. I'm the champion.
shocked problems ahead you know
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by InfinityFabric: 7:11pm On May 25
From a self-proclaimed "Child Of Doom"? I believe you!
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by ThothHermes: 7:33pm On May 25
Job 14 vs 7.

For there is hope for a tree, even if it's cut down...

You can keep lamenting, or you can can get up and change your life. Anyone you choose is your choice.
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by Gsauce(f): 8:39pm On May 25
My mom gave birth to 5, she struggled so much to give us care and support. Only to die when we're yet to be on our feet.
More like she suffered for nothing!

Please don't give birth to numerous projenies even if you own CBN. 2 children should be fine, at most.

BTW, I've seen a woman with 2 offsprings yet it wasn't a smooth ride for them.
Re: Children Are No Longer A Blessing From God by fattprince(m): 7:41am On May 26
ChildOfDoom:
shocked problems ahead you know
I think I will be able to handle it. God helping me. And if it causes my death? It will just be one of the ways a man dies.

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