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Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by luvmijeje(f): 7:34am On May 24, 2020 |
You didn't marry a wife. You married a woman who lacks ambition and who lacks vision. If it is just ambition, e better. If it is just vision, e better. But both, you are in soup. If you mistakenly got broke, she will cheat on you. That's the day you will regret your life and your marriage becomes hell on earth. Just continue to pray that God should continue to bless you to maintain the standard you have set for yourselves. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by Mariangeles(f): 7:52am On May 24, 2020 |
deji85: What is her passion? Start from there. There's hardly anyone void of potentials. What she lacks is enthusiasm, plus I think she's lazy. You should also consider accepting her the way she is. |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by Nobody: 7:57am On May 24, 2020 |
Plead:you are irrelevant 3 Likes |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by Nobody: 8:00am On May 24, 2020 |
deji85:there are other chores too you know. Just communicate with her |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by GboyegaD(m): 10:09am On May 24, 2020 |
cococandy: Sometimes, it is the orientation we get from those around us. If you read some post on NL, you will realize how shallow many is. 1 Like |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by Nobody: 2:25pm On May 24, 2020 |
Op, it's nice that you're providing for your wife but you can provide without being an enabler and encouraging laziness. Why would she want to work and make her own money when yours is easily available? Perhaps you've told her at some point that she doesn't have to work because you can be the sole provider. Only you know what you've told her or the impression you've given her. I can't imagine not making my own money, but we're not all the same. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by Sixfeetbelle: 4:39pm On May 24, 2020 |
deji85: Your wife is someone who will thrive better working under someone. There are people like that. Not everyone will do well in business and I have a few family members as testimonies. However since she was working before you got married, get her a job again. Use your resources if you have to. Then cut off a part of the spending and insist she fill it up with money from her job. Once she realises she has a goal to meet every month, she will think twice about quitting her job next time. Stop enabling her with money. Learn to tighten your money bag 1 Like |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by Setursight(m): 6:16pm On May 24, 2020 |
i think its very important to discover oneself before engaging in a lifetime commitment such as marraiage, imagine a grown u adult changing from proffession to proffession without making headway. The problem i see, is not that she is lazy. Sh simply have not connect to her true self. That to me is the cause of her lethargy. Once she connected, to her core, you do be amazed at the synergy she can excude. Getting married this days involves alot of factors ooo,where self disvovery is very important. 1 Like |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by BlissB(f): 7:09pm On May 24, 2020 |
Pretend say your money don finish |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by Harshreality: 9:36pm On May 24, 2020 |
Lmao and some people are complaining of overambitious wives. One mans meat is another's poison. Anyways, try to have a heart to heart with her. Stop dropping millions for business. There are businesses she can start with 20k(buying and selling) then once it looks profitable you can inject money. Or, maybe she's a housewife material. Some people just don't like work |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by Ishilove: 12:08am On May 25, 2020 |
LadySarah:Obiageri |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by Ishilove: 12:09am On May 25, 2020 |
bujebudanu1:Heh. She is obviously idle. |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by crackland: 9:54am On May 25, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:You ladies despite your fight for cultural emancipation, still end up betraying yourselves when you make statements like, "get your wife a job", "start a business for your wife", "give your wife money for upkeep"... I always wonder if the wife being referred to, is some kind of less-privileged person or a degenerate that needs to be helped financially by her husband before she can have a good life of her own. Naija women... Kai. I thought we wanted to be modern people, all of us. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by naija4life247: 10:24am On May 25, 2020 |
Why not introduce her to the business you do from home and you both do it together |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by Sixfeetbelle: 10:25am On May 25, 2020 |
crackland: Cancel the last two. No one in our movement is supporting that. We want her working in order for her to have/enjoy her good life on her own terms, and if she can't be pushed on her own to do it, extra help is appreciated. See, even though we fight for cultural emancipation, it doesn't mean that all our soldiers are warriors. Besides not all of us are of the same opinion about how to deal with men. Some want men totally incinerated, others want them staying only in their lane like they were meant to. |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by crackland: 10:36am On May 25, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Oh please, extra help (financial) is ALWAYS needed by Nigerians wives from their husbands. We should not kid ourselves... 4 Likes |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by Sixfeetbelle: 12:12pm On May 25, 2020 |
crackland: Not always. The reverse can be the case, as you are well aware |
Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by Nobody: 3:12pm On May 25, 2020 |
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