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Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Nobody: 12:50pm On May 26
I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Ofemmanu1: 12:51pm On May 26
Are you Igbo?
Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Easybela(f): 12:53pm On May 26
The guy is too innocent and he means well for you,"am sorry"is all you need to get back on track.


Na my "choir master" for church na wetin make Grace carry bele for John so therefore, be careful.
Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by THUNDER4real(m): 12:56pm On May 26
Na your husband..if you miss him this third time you won't get him again....

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Nobody: 12:57pm On May 26
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.



Qualities of an imo girl
Fall in love with them at your house rent's perilembarassed

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Ehinjuola(m): 12:58pm On May 26
Tomilola421:

I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs

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Tomilola421:

I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs
.

All this below 25 ladies enh.

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by DanseMacabre(m): 1:00pm On May 26
Ofemmanu1:
Are you Igbo?

grin

Just read this your response again and tell me why you should be regarded as a fully-functional human being capable of independent and coherent thoughts and judgment.

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Lamanii22(f): 1:01pm On May 26
Pray first....

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by DanseMacabre(m): 1:01pm On May 26
Hmmmmm

OP from the way you're describing this guy there's every probability of him being a masochist.

I won't say more than that.

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by LegendaryLover: 1:05pm On May 26
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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by LegendaryLover: 1:05pm On May 26
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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Nobody: 1:07pm On May 26
Dicktion:
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.



Qualities of an imo girl
Fall in love with them at your house rent's perilembarassed
which one is imo. Didn’t you see her Monica or you just choose to be blind ni?

Tribalistic bigot.

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by ahnie(f): 1:08pm On May 26
It will end in premium tears.
Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Bartork(m): 1:25pm On May 26
Tomilola421:

I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs


Just be going

Leave him alone
Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Nobody: 1:33pm On May 26
Its obvious you dont like him.
Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Ofemmanu1: 1:35pm On May 26
DanseMacabre:


grin

Just read this your response again and tell me why you should be regarded as a fully-functional human being capable of independent and coherent thoughts and judgment.
Talk, talk, talk: the utter and heartbreaking stupidity of words.
Any fool can make a a sentence and any fool will mind it.
Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by armylord: 1:39pm On May 26
Tomilola421:

I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs
That's how u girls miss out on good guys, someone who stood by u , u dated two guys ,he was still there and u still wasting time! Abi ?? Continue. You are feeling guilty. Did he complain
Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Sixfeetbelle: 1:40pm On May 26
Ehinjuola:


All this below 25 ladies enh.

All these time wasters sef
Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Sixfeetbelle: 1:46pm On May 26
Tomilola421:

I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs

Carnally, I'd advise you flee for your life.

Spiritually, I'd advise you to pray about it. Tell your pastor uncle to pray for you as well before dismissing this guy finally.

Good luck

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by DanseMacabre(m): 1:47pm On May 26
Ofemmanu1:

Talk, talk, talk: the utter and heartbreaking stupidity of words.
Any fool can make a a sentence and any fool will mind it.

Tell me something: are you by any means a Yoruba Moslem

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Ofemmanu1: 1:52pm On May 26
DanseMacabre:

Tell me something: are you by any means a Yoruba Moslem
No I'm not.
Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Tillatalk: 1:54pm On May 26
The guy try ooo..lady if you like miss this opportunity na you sabi
Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by callmeRichie(m): 2:15pm On May 26
[quote author=Tomilola421 post=89977433]


At 23, your relationship histories don full ground like this? who knows the actual numbers sef?? grin chai I give up o!

please give up the guy abeg! he doesn't deserve you, no offence oo! conscience won't let you personally rest.

Unless you're ready to come out in and out o, as in tell him everything including your sexual life, so if he's comfortable you're good to go! Buh if u fail to tell him this, you're even jilting and cheating him d more and remember karma oo...

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by callmeRichie(m): 2:17pm On May 26
[quote author=Tomilola421 post=89977433]


At 23, your relationship histories don full ground like this? who knows the actual numbers sef?? grin chai I give up o!

please give up the guy abeg! u don't deserve d guy, no offence oo! conscience won't let you personally rest.

Unless you're ready to come out in and out o, as in tell him everything including your sexual life, so if he's comfortable you're good to go! Buh if u fail to tell him this, you're even jilting and cheating him d more and remember karma oo...
Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Ruudy(m): 2:19pm On May 26
guys always remember, being too nice to women is bad..... Women prefare bad boys to love

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Humanoid01(m): 2:41pm On May 26
Have you ever thought about your new life being a result of his prayers for you? If he really did pray for you, then that prayer was from the depth of his heart. That guy really loves you, Tomilola421. I can't tell you to date him, as it's entirely your decision to make, but you need to really take this serious. You need to really think and pray about it from the depth of your heart, like he prayed for your salvation.

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by SmellySperm(m): 2:44pm On May 26
ahnie:
It will end in premium tears.
babe puleasegrin

Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by stanliwise(m): 2:48pm On May 26
Tomilola421:

I met this guy two years ago in my during my national diploma. We were in the same dept but he's higher national diploma...
After having met coincidentally several times..we became friends...
We do chat on WhatsApp and all..after few months, he asked me out but I had a bf then who was not in same school with me..
I didn't tell him I had a bf and I didn't say yes or no..my plan was just to get things from him and flee....and I did.

along the line he found out I had a bf and told me he was really hurt.
But then we remain friends and he told me when am ready to quit loving worldly things he's waiting... said he will always put me in prayer to change..

After a while, I had issues with my bf and we broke up...
I went for another guy again not him...
After I completed my OND, I broke up with him too..my life was complicated then as an unbeliever.
My so called friend still calls and we still chat...and he told me he knew about the other guy I dated but he still hopes and is praying (he is a serious Christian)for me to change my ways.
He said he has done those things before and its all vain.

Few months ago I traveled to my uncle place who is a pastor , I got converted there and now a believer..
I don't do those past things anymore...
When I told him(friend) that I got converted, he said he was happy and he is still waiting if am ready for him..
He told me this last week and I told him I have to pray about it since that's how they do in my church...
He advised and gave me time to pray and fast about it....
I like him but not to the extent of love, maybe not yet...
But the problem now is I feel guilty for what I did to him in the past...and I don't even know if I should pray about it or just tell him to move on.
He has been so nice to me despite all
And I think its too good to be true..
What if he's waiting to pay me back with what I did to him..
Am so confused..
Pls advice
Thanks
PS:am 23 and he's 27 yrs
If you don't love him then don't lead him. I wont say more than this.

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by iLegendd: 3:19pm On May 26
I didn't read, but all I can say is: I pity nice guys.

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by Cedar17: 3:58pm On May 26
Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by mrblessed(m): 4:26pm On May 26
Imagine your tasteless description of him: "my so called friend." It tells a lot the kind of person you are. If I were you, l will let the young man go, because he has been keeping tabs of your sexual activities and don't expect him to ever forget it because he isn't a super man.

If you ask me personally, l will say you don't deserve him. So, go look for your type and let your purported repentance be genuine.

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Re: Should I Just Tell Him To Move On? Pls Advice by zed7: 5:23pm On May 26
If you don't like him for relationship it's fine. Never date out of sentiments. Life is too short to be married and unhappy.

Sometimes, people love us but we don't love them back and it's ok. We can't love everyone.

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