when I was about 16years, one of my aunt came to visit, things happened fast and we had sex through out her stay.
it's been 7years now and I don't have a girlfriend, thing is I don't find most girls my age attractive.
when I try talking to a girl and she shows me a little resistance, I just back off and that is it, just like that I forget about her.
man don Taya, I don't know what to do...

sorry

it's been 7years now and I
don't have a girlfriend, thing
is I don't find most girls my
age attractive.
when I try talking to a girl and
she shows me a little
resistance, I just back off and
that is it, just like that I forget
about her.

So all this was cause by your aunt.bro your solution is hustle o,make u no shout all girl are unattractive

Ablyz:

So all this was cause by your aunt.bro your solution is hustle o,make u no shout all girl are unattractive

All you guys do is shout hustle hustle up and down.

How does hustle solve the op's problem?

Molestation? It seems consensual to me.

nauttyn:
when I was about 16years, one of my aunt came to visit, things happened fast and we had sex through out her stay.
it's been 7years now and I don't have a girlfriend, thing is I don't find most girls my age attractive.
when I try talking to a girl and she shows me a little resistance, I just back off and that is it, just like that I forget about her.
man don Taya, I don't know what to do...

And why did you not repport your slutty aunt to your parents, you can still do, that was statutory rape you were less than 18

MJBOLT:

shut up

You shut up.

Ablyz:
it's been 7years now and I
don't have a girlfriend, thing
is I don't find most girls my
age attractive.
when I try talking to a girl and
she shows me a little
resistance, I just back off and
that is it, just like that I forget
about her.

So all this was cause by your aunt.bro your solution is hustle o,make u no shout all girl are unattractive

wetin bring hustle come d matter, its u didn't even read d post u just dey comment

Ablyz:
it's been 7years now and I
don't have a girlfriend, thing
is I don't find most girls my
age attractive.
when I try talking to a girl and
she shows me a little
resistance, I just back off and
that is it, just like that I forget
about her.

So all this was cause by your aunt.bro your solution is hustle o,make u no shout all girl are unattractive

wetin bring hustle come d matter, its u didn't even read d post u just dey comment..

sorry abt dt

Who are those derailing this thread?

Hey I know someone who could help
His name is Jesus

Sexual preferences,desires and kinks are all experential. They usually come from past experiences. Either directly as it happened to us or indirectly as we watched and/orr heard and/or saw it happen to someone else in real life or in movies, books, magazines and other such media. Many people have either forgotten or do not realize how strongly such past experiences influences what they desire and prefer when it comes to sex/copulation/mating, love, courtship and marriage. You can either end up liking such and experience or hating it. Some people get raped and prefer rough sex for life. While some will never like sex for life.

Your sexual experience as a younger man with your aunt is very strongly imprinted in your memory and subconscious.

-It was an older more mature woman.
-It was effortless. Very easy. You did nothing to get it.
-It was taboo of sorts.
-It had a lot of adrenaline rush and dopamine release

This past experience and the conditions surrounding it formed your sexual preferences of today. After this happened you could also have subsconciously fed this new sexual preference by watching movies, etc with such scenes. You also would focus more on older women hoping to relive the experience, etc. This done for long has shapened your impatience with younger girls.

It is not strange then that you do not want any lady wasting your time. Especially when you see she is young, perhaps dumb and practically childish. She is not as advanced as your aunt. Hence you can't deal with this level of childishness when in the past you had it easy with a well advanced woman and even at your young age.

However you need to realize that in today's society, your experience isn't as common. What is common is the man being with younger women. Your case was the reverse. So know this fact and learn to put up with their shenanigans in courtship. Also realize that usually, the male has to chase and woo the woman. While I consider this silly from a logical point of view, it boosts the ego of the woman, makes her feel like she actually selected the mate herself, and makes her feel less cheap/not easily dominated. Both instinct and reason is greatly against you on this one.

By instinct, she wants a male that is worthy of her and can take care of her young. By reason, she doesn't want to be seen as cheap. However, there are ways of making her forget all these and still breaking through these barriers.

A girl was introduced into sex very early by a close family member. At night the young man creeps up to her as she sleeps in her nightie and short wrapper around her waist. He quietly and gently spreads her thighs in her sleep very wide, then and goes ahead to copulates and make love to her in her room for a long time every night. Perhaps we should say fortunately for her, he knew what he was doing and was skilled at it making her experience penile sex, MouthAction etc. and various types of orgasms in the process. It made her experience intense orgasms at a very very young age of around 16. Till today, even in her adult life she confesses that it is only when she is asleep and her boyfriend creeps up to her at night that she manages to want or even enjoy sex. Both she and the guy who "spoilt" her are advanced adults now, but she wishes they were still kids and she could still experience it over and over again.

YOU HAVE TO CONSCIOUSLY LEARN TO BE PATIENT IN SEDUCTION WITH LADIES WHETHER OLDER OR YOUNGER. That is how it is in the society of today. Unless she also has what she wants and believes that quickly giving into you will allow her achieve this.

One more thing. You could use this "issue" to a great advantage and be a real coquette. In the sense that the ladies turn around and chase you instead. You are applying your reaction wrongly.

Lightangel65:


And why did you not repport your slutty aunt to your parents, you can still do, that was statutory rape you were less than 18

It isn't to me

sylve11:



All you guys do is shout hustle hustle up and down.

How does hustle solve the op's problem?

Very annoying, what If the person doesn't have any capital for the hustle or any means of getting it.

Trust me, no body likes poverty, the problem is just the wherewithal.

nauttyn:
when I was about 16years, one of my aunt came to visit, things happened fast and we had sex through out her stay.
it's been 7years now and I don't have a girlfriend, thing is I don't find most girls my age attractive.
when I try talking to a girl and she shows me a little resistance, I just back off and that is it, just like that I forget about her.
man don Taya, I don't know what to do...

Call your aunty and demand for more lashing.

What you not having a gf got to do with you sleeping with your aunt?....7 years ago? You don't find girls your age attractive..... aren't there ladies of different ages and maturity in your village community or wherever you be? I guess in your mind you expect ladies to fling themselves at you.... to 'rape' you... like your aunt did. I suggest you start making friends and that will help you to develop relationships. But if you really want to have a gf express.... no rejection.... no testing of your patience.... someone to make you happy whenever you want ..... no wahala... like your aunt.... go get another an olosho.

So you phuck your Aunt... how old was she then?

Where many say the reason they do so many girls is because they were exposed at a very young age. You are saying the opposite.

Bro it's not your aunty, it's your fault!
Instead blame your finance, confidence and you most likely do masturbate. Bitter truth!

Ablyz:


So all this was cause by your aunt.bro your solution is hustle o,make u no shout all girl are unattractive

No be hustle go solve some kind problem. Or haven't you heard that the rich also cry?

chatinent:
Molestation? It seems consensual to me.

shut up. if it was the other way round, you wont talk like this. you must be a simp.

chatinent:
Molestation? It seems consensual to me.

he was a minor. So at the very least it's defilement.

AngelicDamsel:
Where many say the reason they do so many girls is because they were exposed at a very young age. You are saying the opposite.

Bro it's not your aunty, it's your fault!
Instead blame your finance, confidence and you most likely do masturbate. Bitter truth!

And you think you made sense? What exactly are you trying to say

Naughty Auntie!
Sorry boy..it's sexual violation.
Concentrate on your studies for now.

That aunt is a beast.

The molestation have affected u psychologically.

U need a therapist.





Or starts going out with girls of ur age 4get about sex for now u need to heal first .




Talk to someone u trust