Ever since I had knowledge of right from wrong I have been so unhappy with the way things turn out for me.


Firstly when I noticed that I can't be effective in some of the plays we do play as kids then in those days, my life changed, coupled with what my PHE teacher said that I will never compete with my peers who are physically sound than me, I can't seem to shake that off my psyche.. it keeps coming back to me each time I make a wrong turn, it seems its becoming factual like.. check, I'm 25 but I can't seem to make head way in my life.

The only advantage I could have gotten was to get a university degree kind of.. but I was robbed of that (my dad fell from grace immediately I finished senior high) and couldn't get it together while he kept me waiting and hoping till I had to go get a something doing with my life.

I feel life hasn't been fair to me because I keep getting into bad circumstances. I moved to Lagos in search of greener pastures with my uncle, and it turned out that he stays in AJ, which is kind of unfortunate for me because I can't secure a reasonable paying job in my line of profession.

I have ransacked the internet for better openings around AJ but I can't find any. I can't be doing this kind of job that my take home is less than 13k every month, till when?

What do I do with my life? None of my uncle's or well wishers are willing to sponsor me for business, even when I approach with interesting plans, they trash talk it and one was even advising me to save for the funds, and I was like with how much income.

It is as if I'm not doing enough to change my situation, God knows I try, I don't keep any girlfriend whatsoever, I don't drink alcohol, I don't make unnecessary spendings.. gosh I don't even have nice clothes cos I'm hell bent on changing my story at least getting out of my uncle's place, but its all frustrating to me because things are falling apart at every turn...


..to be cont...

Village people, why are you doing this to this young man's life na? . Pls release him so that he can get back to his normal life.

Stay strong, there's nothing worse than giving up on life .

You need to stay strong bro .. Don't rush with time everything will fall into place

Some girl friends can be a blessing..staying away from them and not drinking won't make you rich

Where you stay doesn't matter...connection will come at the right time

Work smart

Dnt give up guy.There is light at the end of the tunnel.

1. Never allow anyone make you feel inferior
2. Never put your trust in human
3. Nothing is irreplaceable

Those three fact you have to make use on your race, if you know these, surely there is light at the end of the tunnel!

I heartily wish you all the best in your endeavors!

1. Never allow anyone make you feel inferior
2. Never put your trust in man
3. Nothing is irreplaceable

Those three facts you have to make use on your race, if you know these, surely there is light at the end of the tunnel!

I heartily wish you all the best in your endeavors!

Simply leave your uncle's place. You be man, socialize with ur fellow guys and move in with them.

High

My brother keep hustling.

I had the same lamentations when I was your age.

But I thank God now.

your own better

See my personal text.
I grew up in AJ. Where exactly in AJ do you live?

don't give up bro your case is better than some, your time will come .pray and work hard

Hang in there bro.. U will surely tell your story, nobody will do that for you. Stay strong brother

ThothHermes:
See my personal text.
I grew up in AJ. Where exactly in AJ do you live?

JMJ Quarters Olodi Apapa side.. do you know there?

Goodlyhrt:
JMJ Quarters Olodi Apapa side.. do you know there?

Olodi is not really AJ.

But that's okay.

I believe that a person's possibilities are controlled by factors beyond the physical. The physical realm is subject to the spiritual so I'll usually advocate a spiritual fine-tuning if one's conditions are persistently undesirable.
But that's just me.

well, I really don't know the kind of advice to give you... but I think you can find a better paying Job that will fetch you more than 13k. I know that kind of job will demand strengths and time but really you really need to look for it.

after getting the Job, set a target for yourself and promise to save enough after month end for a couple of months or years, then repeat the process again. I believe that is the best way to source for funds for your business idea by yourself.

if you can make it through d night there's
brighter day,everything will be alright if you hold on, its a struggle everyday u gotta roll on

ThothHermes:
Olodi is not really AJ.

But that's okay.

I believe that a person's possibilities are controlled by factors beyond the physical. The physical realm is subject to the spiritual so I'll usually advocate a spiritual fine-tuning if one's conditions are persistently undesirable.
But that's just me.

Yeah I thought as much. I asked around and the residents here seem OK (take pride) in it so I let it rest..

I've been fasting for awhile now you know asking questions, demanding answers.. it kind of frustrating!

Goodlyhrt:
Yeah I thought as much. I asked around and the residents here seem OK (take pride) in it so I let it rest..

I've been fasting for awhile now you know asking questions, demanding answers.. it kind of frustrating!

Ever heard of Joshua Selman?
Try listening to some of his messages.