Carchoice:
my dad has lots of lands and houses in the village but none of his children cares about them. Whoever wants them can take it when he’s gone. That’s how we were brought up. And that’s the same way I’ll bring up my children.

Nor put eye for anybody property when you still have two hands, two legs and a life ahead of you, not even my dads property. That’s how I was brought up. My children will be far ahead of any uncle/aunty even if they are just a year old. That’s the plan my friend. I’m no pvssy nigha. I know more than you. If you leave the city and go to the village to claim inheritance, lol. You are the pvssy nigha my friend.

NoToPile:


What I don't understand is why should the deed of her father's property be with the uncle. Is it not suppose to be in the possesion of the children or wife?

Until men stop entrusting their brothers with documents of their properties, children will continue to suffer and their properties confisticated by greedy uncles.

Parents sometimes cause all these issues .

oka4mt:


hey, you have given the worst advise so far, how can u tell one to forfeit his late dad's property and burial, you most be joking.
OP, i dont know how old u are, if u are above 18, and your dad died intestate(without a will), then,you, your mom and the rest of the children are automatically the administrators of your late father's property.
so i advise you take charge and get a lawyer cause you might just need legal actions against your dubious uncles.
please donot make the mistake of sitting and watching, they will take advantage of your inaction and sweep u under the rug, in fact your mom should be the one on the front line not u, u will only back her up with your education, try to know your rights and educate her.
and i repeat, Law enforcement is always there for u, iut will only cost you a reasonable amount of money, but its worth it.
and act wisely catch them unaware.
when they find themselves in police custody and in court with all evidence against them, nobody go tell them.
make sure u start to record ur conversations with them when u have the chance, take pictures, film their dubious act without their knowledge,. keep your distance though
goodluck

MPESA:



A Dog surrounded by Lions and Tigers resuming leadership duties .... Please no dey talk on subject you are not knowledgeable , you can as well learn by reading comments....

Ibime:


She was abroad while the Popsie was home alone. He must have given the brother after he fell ill

frozen70:


Where is your mother in this picture

You have to meet the good elders in your family to put you through

You did not mention the business your father is doing and how your uncle got the keys to open his shops

You need to collect the house keys from your uncle and after the burial change the keys especially the entrance keys

If you are in good relationship with your father's family you will be guided

If the burial date doesn't suit you, ask them to fix another date

From your write up, you are too young to handle it alone

Seek for genuine advice and reduce cost to the bearest

If you are from Anambra state, then lucky you as the state government have reduced burial to avoid waste of money

Slynation:

What is this one even saying, Personally, nobody born of a woman can try such nonsense with me...
So if you are the first Son, ur Dad and Mom are no more, you were left with properties and business to take care of, you are in ur Finals in School, above 24yrs.... You will still depend on your uncles to run things for you... And you think when it's time for OP to take over the business if he at least didn't say something now, his Uncles will just hand over everything to him and his siblings abi....

Anyways it's nobody's fault, the Society keeps breeding weak men on daily basis...

bizzibodi:
1.Do yur father has ppties in d village or city?
2.Was yur mother legally married to yur father?is she with yur father b4 he died?
3.How big is d shop,what goods or worth is inside?
4.Are u in good relationship with yur father b4 he died,when he was sick have u ever visited him.
5.Who took care of him when he was sick?we took him to hospital, who paid his bills.
I can advice u if I get yur answers.

TheArchangel:
Are you sure it is your fathers sweat?
What was your relationship with him? Or you also heard that he is gone and you want to make your own grabs cos what is happening to you is a very rare occurrence especially at 24. And Where have you been all this while?
Have you been in contact with them about the burial or you just jumped when you heard that his shop was opened?
And they needed to make sales in order to bury him, ain't that right? Or are you footing the burial.?
Except if you all are all wacked upstairs as there is no reason for them not to involve you.

MPESA:



You really need to learn..... Strong man, Abi na Alpha Male.. Weldon Sir... Be careful make you No go learn how to use left hand at old age.

Aizen123:

1. Both
2. Yes and No
3. It's a warehouse and he bought new goods worth over 4m
4. Yes we were close. I wasn't able to visit but we kept contact on phone and the illness was very very brief
5. A friend who was with him at the time

oka4mt:
let me share this with u guys.
many soldiers and police men out there joined the force because of their financial condition, they have nothing and got nothing from their father, s they enrolled just to survive, mind u, a very dangerous profession, but u have inheritance u are afraid to fight for it.
no, when u build your own house, make your brother or one idiot come try snatch am from u na, una two go die for the matter, cause u no go gree for any bastard.
make i ask u, why e b say, wen king die, so far him get son, na the son go b d next king, why them no make him brother king.
use your head bro.
fight your fight and God will fight by your side.
if u die fighting, which i doubt, it is worth it.

Slynation:

Bro... The next thing you need to do is too gather all important documents and keep safely, know your dad next of kin in his bank accounts... Most importantly know the kinda plans your uncles have for you and your siblings, from what your uncles are doing now, they'v got other plans, your siblings are looking up to you now, so apply wisdom and trade with caution... #Good luck

Aizen123:
Please I need advice. I lost my Dad over 2 months now and he hasn't been buried due to the pandemic. My Uncle's are all in Lagos and can't come back.

So after the lockdown was over we decided to go to the village.. On getting I discovered that his shop was open and all the money going into the first Uncle (first son) account.. So I called my uncle because he told me it was locked and he was saying did he need my permission before to open the shop and i decided to just control myself because i like peace and i decided to go to the house in the village...

On getting there I called my uncle and he told me the keys are with them in Lagos ... That it was waybilled and i said ok and went back with my brother and sister.

Fast forward today... I got a call from someone in the village that my Dad's burial death has been fixed and i was wowed because as the first son i haven't been told yet by my uncle's. So right now i am about acting but i need advice.

Jesse25:

You are just too weak I swear

Chiderad:
Brother,

My sincerest advise to you is this - Get a genuine Prophet of God to stand by you in the place of prayer. Your uncles already have a plan of fight on ground and so, you must tread carefully, be full of prayers and fasting but don't be confrontational.

As per your daddy's shop, be bold to take over what belongs to you. Seek counsel of wise ones in the village and report them to Umu nna.

Lincolnburrows:


Biko what do you mean that government has reduced burial in anambra?

Aizen123:
I don't think this will be possible...Asin moving his corpse

Carchoice:
The mistake you’ll ever make in life is fighting uncles/aunties over your late fathers property. It’s not a lost battle but it’s a waste of time and resources to me.


Leave them to do their thing. It doesn’t mean you are a weakling or scared but don’t fight over property’s with them. Just don’t do it.

Surprise them on the date of the burial by showing up to pay your last respect or better still you can shun it. Your father is dead already.

Don’t fight over property o!!! If they want to take it by force. Leave it for them and work for your own. You can always do more with the life ahead of you.

EDITED: those of you quoting me to say he must fight, when the fights gets gory and OP waste his youthful age fighting “men” for his fathers property, you guys will not be there to support him. Whoever put eyes and mind in his/her father property isn’t ready to work for his/her own future.

Afrocentric:
COWARD. ITS PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT MAKES TYE WORLD A DIFFICULT PLACE.

Carchoice:
what is your contribution to this world and Nigeria especially? List your achievements and I’ll list mine let’s see what you have done to make the world a good place.

Afrocentric:
you don't have any achievements. Idiot. I'm sure you don't know what COWARD meant.

Carchoice:
coward, someone that shows fears

I don’t entertain fears. I’m years ahead of anything/anyone that will try to use fear against me.

Now I’m telling you if I was OP, I’ll act as if my fathers property doesn’t exist and I’ll work for mine. uncles will start to fear me because they plan holds nothing on the boy they tried to instill fear on.

Now you see the difference?

You’ll grow old trying to inherit lands your unclessss are hell bent on taking from you. Run along boy. I’m not your mate. I don’t care what mansion is in the village when I can own an estate in lekki

Afrocentric:
I repeat, you are a COWARD

Carchoice:
what is your contribution to this world and Nigeria especially? List your achievements and I’ll list mine let’s see what you have done to make the world a good place.