Please let leave Coronavirus for now, Please I
need advice on this issue.
*A SERIOUS MATTER THAT NEEDS ATTENTION*
There was nothing at home, no money in account
and the children were hungry. He started thinking
of way out. Who can I reach out to in this
lockdown period?
It's serious a issue. He felt embarrassed that his
family could not eat properly.
As he was scrolling on his phone then he found
his Ex- Lover's Number. Old memory came and
he decided to send a funny message as thus,
"My wife that run away with another rich man.
Tell your husband to send # 2k because he snatched
my wife".
After a minute the lady replied as thus, "Tell me
you don't have money, old husband". Then he
replied, " Yes, I don't have money, just send
something". In a nutshell, the lady send 20k into
his account instantly.
He jumped up, took his Master Card to the
nearest ATM and withdraw. He gave his wife 10k
and keep the remaining. He lied to her that a
friend sent the money. She buys food stuff and
prepare food. He was eating and left his phone
on the TV when a message came from his EX
asking if he had seen the money.
His wife saw the message, she took time to read
the previous message. Now, his wife suspend
everything. She decided to be starved than to
eat from that food. He tried to explain but all in
vain. Worst part of it is that she instructed the
children not to taste or touch the food.
*Is the man justified?*
*Is the woman right with her action?*
*How can the situation be handled?*
*Please I need intelligent Answer*

NB: copied.

someone is my ex means he/she is my enemy? absolutely not, the wife must have been high of something, first of all, nothing show's they where having anything together, just an old time rapport.

D man said d money was given by his friend which is 100% correct
Can d wife family too help out I forgot most of dis kind of woman der family has nothing to offer
Hunger never bite her stomach no body go tell her na her body go tell her rubbish

Not all ex's are enemies.

God can use your enemy to bless you
Accept your blessings and move on...

Nothing wrong in the man getting help, the shame is on the wife that can't help her husband or at least ask her family to help them

Modified:

Then go around to fight the man for getting help rather than let the family starve

The man is in no way wrong, at least it was not like he offered something in return for getting the money, and he didnt have to go on his knees to beg, and just because shes his EX means she cant offer help when its needed??
Sincerely some women need to grow up,
At least she got food and shes not eating
Abeg if hungry do her something, then no one would advice her to eat before she'll devour the food.
She shouldn't starve the kids biko

I think the wife is wrong.

As far as the husband didn't sleep with the ex. He put his family first. The wife is putting ego and insecurity over the welfare of the family, including the children.

Exes are exes for a reason, he didn't choose them, he chose you for whatever reason.

Or am i alone. I will rather tell him that when lockdown ceases, we will pay her back. Simple.

oluwaseyi0:
Nothing wrong in the man getting help, the shame is on the wife that can't help her husband or at least ask her family to help them

@ bolded is very wrong, the shame is not on anybody. Let's just hope that we build recession proof systems to sustain our families.

Ex no means enemy , the woman must have had money at home and refuse to borrow the man .
shame and guilty conscience is now the problem, she didn't expect that the man will go to that extent.d man should just scope the woman, life continue

Benitam:

What would you do? Would you act like the wife aswell?
Or
Would it have been different if the money was from a stranger on the internet?

Help can come from anyone.

My ex who is married for over 8 years now is practically living off me. Her husband lost his job with Julius Berger 2years ago. I was surprised when she called and said, if i keep quiet i go die o. She even gave her hubby the phone to speak with me. Today we are all friends. The man's cv is even with me to assist him in searching for a job. The point is, the man should have given the woman prior info on what he was about to do.. The woman felt demeaned, embarrassed and hurt when she noticed that a fellow woman provided for them..

funmisticqueen2:
I think the wife is wrong.

As far as the husband didn't sleep with the ex. He put his family first. The wife is putting ego and insecurity over the welfare of the family, including the children.

Exes are exes for a reason, he didn't choose them, he chose you for whatever reason.

Or am i alone. I will rather tell him that when lockdown ceases, we will pay her back. Simple.

Praise the lord. Nice one. Oh wait,seems this account has been hacked.

Justbehave:
Praise the lord. Nice one. Oh wait,seems this account has been hacked.

i still think you are a dick

Exmilitant:
My ex who is married for over 8 years now is practically living off me. Her husband lost his job with Julius Berger 2years ago. I was surprised when she called and said, if i keep quiet i go die o. She even gave her hubby the phone to speak with me. Today we are all friends. The man's cv is even with me to assist him in searching for a job. The point is, the man should have given the woman prior info on what he was about to do.. The woman felt demeaned, embarrassed and hurt when she noticed that a fellow woman provided for them..

This is another angle, but that doesn't mean she should tell the kids not to eat

funmisticqueen2:
i still think you are a dick

Fummi.Wetin I do you nah. Lol.