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Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by Hoephase: 7:27am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Seetto: Have you read the testimonies of House helps in Saudi and how those crimes were never reported? Do you know how hard it is to prove rape under Sharia. Technically under sharia the victim is certain to be punished unlike the rapists. I am beginning to shiver at the thought of you passing on your gene. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by BlueAir: 7:35am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Mr Man learn to think.indecent dressing triggers and provocates some kind of hormones.and disgusts some hormones like mine. Those triggered hormones leads to unbalanced and destabilized emotions in some potential rapists or rapists.THINK SCIENTIFICALLY AND RATIONALLY! COMMON SENSE INSTEAD WITH YOUR FEELINGS. No wonder this country is drowning by Nigerians for the past 50+ years. Most think with their feelings instead of their heads Xisnin: 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by Seetto: 7:47am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Hoephase:You talk as if you are in support of indecent dressing, this days people get undressed and pretend to be dressed, you should understand that immorality has become a norma in our society today, one of the major factor responsible for increase in rape, I don't know how you come to assertion that under Sharia the victim is certain to be punished unlike the rapists, in every society you have unrepentant animals, there is no doubt that in Saudi Arabia, there are cases of rape, but compare the statistics with what is obtainable in USA.. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by alfarouq(m): 7:48am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Let us settle this matter once and for all. Since we have all agreed that there are many reasons for rape which include but are not limited to 1. Lack of self control by rapist 2. Pornography and immorality 3. Drugs and substance abuse 4. Indecent dressing etc. Then, I don't think there's a need for further arguments, 1.Men and women who lack self control, please learn to control yourself 2. Those that can't handle pornography, please avoid it 3. Stop taking drugs that might tempt you into becoming a rapist 4. Those of us that dress seductively, let us stop and be decent in our dressing. I believe we are all against rape, so let everyone play his role to eliminate rape in our society. While you ask people to dress decently, also ask people to learn self control. While asking people to control themselves, also ask people to dress decently. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by ayaside(m): 7:54am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Seetto:I already addressed the issue with indecency. Rape can be reduce when perpetrators have self control. You can just go steal whatever and say shit like " ... Well,I just found it out there ..." We pretty much live in a world where indecency is everywhere and that don't give any retarded dude the right to rape anyone. Everyone is responsible for their actions. Can we agree to disagree here. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by Seetto: 8:09am On Jun 08, 2020 |
ayaside:There was no self control?, when the level of rape keep increasing, you are talking of self control, I don't know may be you think people are programmed to respond to a certain command, indecency triggered libido, killed the source by bringing morality and decency back to the society. |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by Jakumo(m): 8:15am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Chinwe4real: It is no coincidence that the OP of this thread is clearly an adherent to a highly hypocritical religion that has always been pathologically OBSESSED with controlling women, and trying to regulate how they dress and conduct themselves, in much the same manner as a domineering master pokes his long nose into all aspects of his slaves' personal lives and choices. Spending one's entire mortal existence eagerly yearning for a chance to deflower 72 imaginary virgins, in a non-existent paradise, would be characterized by most mental health experts, as a deviant and depraved sexual obsession that could trigger lunatic behavior at any moment. To the OP and his puritanical but sex-obsessed cult members, my advice would be that they all try to simply stop poking their long twitchy noses under women's clothing, and mind their own business. I speak for MILLIONS of red-blooded males, when I declare that I LOVE to see women dressing to celebrate their youth and beauty, BUT that said, while studiously observing Papa God's most beautiful living sculpture, thoughts of sexual assault NEVER cross my mind. I do have a smoking hot 20-year old girlfriend who is ever ready to take me on a wild carnal ride any time the mood takes either one of us, so I can understand but never condone the desperation of cult members whose ugly wives urgently need an upgrade, causing male cult members to devote their waking hours to haughtily inspecting and judging women whose conduct and dress mode are NONE of their phucking business. To all the beautiful young women of independent thinking in their early twenties, who wish to dress sexy and show off the results of their exercise, fine genetics and good diet, I humbly doff my hat with respect and profound gratitude, for I can NEVER get enough of those special viewing privileges and pleasures, when it comes to observing scantily clad women who are young, toned and busty, strut their stuff while in the full bloom of their nubile maidenhood. Kindly study the bikini model pictured below, making special note of those silky toned thighs, and then answer to yourself PRIVATELY, the question of whether if you found yourself at the beach one sunny day, you would prefer that this model dress as shown in the picture, or whether you would prefer to have the same woman dress like Batman, by covering her body head-to-toe, in a freaking gunny sack, while frolicking in the surf or jogging along the sand in the Summer sun. If you voted for the gunny sack, then let me just add that you's a lyin muffuguh, and for that shameless whopper, the fleas of a thousand camels are DESTINED to infest your shriveled bedroom tackle. 1 Like
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Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by greatbuc(m): 8:36am On Jun 08, 2020 |
ayaside:I love this. It is understood that there is a connection but the rapist is responsible right.. You see, rape is so bad that we can't always wait for the act to happen before seeking justice. Conviction as a form of deterrence to rape is not enough, the raped could never be un-raped by convicting the perpetrators. Hence the need skimover all loose ends.. We don't even want any occurrence at all Si what do we do? Wake up our censor board.. They have been sleeping.. They can set standards on any social media operating in Nigeria. Banning of personal social media handles that display nudity, indecent dressing and seductive movements to including twerking, clutching of buttocks and breasts, showing of camel toe and bending over with skimpy clothings. China is doing it at the moment.. So don't say its impossible. When you mop that up, we can think of self defense. Pepper spray, stun gun, alarms, panic buttons, martial arts, knives, tranquilizer guns. If all these fail to stop rape then we go to court. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by Briller: 8:46am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Arrant nonsense. A rapist does not need to be aroused by your dressing. Back in the days, I won an award as the most decently dressed in the department. Always wore kaftan dresses 90% of the time. Yet I was nearly raped on my way back from lectures one of the days, still wearing my kaftan!! The attacker when arrested, said he kept imagining what my figure would look like. The question is: was I indecently dressed. Of course, the answer is NO. Fastforward to 2012. I was already out of school and based in Abuja. Around 7:00pm on this particular day, I picked a cab around Area 1 going to Central Area. The cab-guy wanted me to sit at the passengers seat, under the pretence he was finding it difficult to open the rear door. But I insisted on siting at the back. As soon as I entered, he kept on looking back even while he was driving, and that got me worried. I was only concerned about being in an accident. I didn't even think of rape then. Then he suddenly turned to a lonely road and my danger antennas flew up as in, why would he divert to a deserted area? I asked him to go back to the main road and he tried to make excuses about traffic. Mind you, this particular route is traffic free by such times of the day. The stupid cab guy went back to the road and as we rode, he told me he liked me and would want us to make out. I was mad. Very mad at him. I started screaming as my defense strategy and that attracted people's attention. He zoomed off as soon as I alighted from the car And guess what, I was heavily pregnant at that point. I shared the story with some of them and we concluded he was a pervert and saw me as being helpless because of my condition, and probably would have raped me if he got the opportunity in that deserted road. Another scenario, some guy on my street once passed a comment that my 4year old daughter has a super-cute shape and I kept wondering what is shapely in a 4year old's body. The bottom line is, rapists are sick people and rape has absolutely nothing to do with the way one dresses. 4 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by Hoephase: 8:49am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Seetto: If you think that indecent dressing is to be blamed then something is really wrong with your thought pattern. Are you saying that rape was rampant before the colonisers forced your ancestors into wearing clothes? Because back then you ancestors were walking around butt naked unless you want to tell me that rape was the order of the day in your ancestral home back then? Touting the low statistics from Saudi as an evidence that rape is low there due to style of clothing. Do you know that under sharia if you accuse someone of rape you have to provide 4 male witness that saw the actual penetration. How on earth do you intend to prove it? If you are thoughtful you would have also consider that maybe the difficulties in prosecuting of offenders in the Saudi might be responsible for the low rate of convicted rapists as against the less stringent law in the USA required to prove guilt of rape. You guys should think before posting rubbish here unless you are telling us that you are a rape apologists? 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by Hoephase: 8:54am On Jun 08, 2020 |
BlueAir: Mr. Scientists please show us a peer review study where it was shown that indecent dressing triggers hormones that lead some potential rapist into committing the act of rape? |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by ayaside(m): 9:31am On Jun 08, 2020 |
greatbuc:I agree. Quick question,do you know anyone who had been raped before for no mistake of theirs? If so,ask them what that did to them and what they think about what you just posted. I have known about 3-4 of them. |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by cocolacec(m): 9:57am On Jun 08, 2020 |
AdamsAbubakar: Rape is widely underreported in Islamic countries because of fear of Honor killings by family members(males),forced to marry the rapists.The victims is blamed,I once spoke to a Saudi lady who was raped in her home by three men but she never told her parents. Virginity is a big deal to Arab women,if she marries without being a virgin she could be killed so they go for hymenoplasty, is a simple procedure that will repair a torn hymen or build a hymen that is not present.The surgery will not restore virginity, but it will allow for women to tear and bleed the first time they engage in intercourse after surgery. How come your Nigerian sisters are getting raped by Saudi/lebanese/Qatari/Emirati employers while serving as housemaids in their homes.? Will men become rapists in a community simply because everyone is naked like the Amazonians or Himba tribe of Namibia? Victims of Rape and Law: How the Laws of the Arab World Protect Rapists, Not Victims https://www.jurist.org/commentary/2017/05/mais-haddad-arab-world-laws-protect-the-rapist-not-the-victim/ Iraq sex files https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7pZVQrY_AF8 bacha bazi boys, Afghan 'Dancing Boys' Tell Of Rape, Abuse https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oU6q6EaXBlM 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by hedonistic: 10:18am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Abokki always talking nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by BlueAir: 10:21am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Go watch porn or nudes and learn if u won't be emotionally indulged in as little as possible! Omo extensive thinking good o Hoephase: 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by Hoephase: 10:46am On Jun 08, 2020 |
BlueAir: When you go watch porn you already have in mind what to achieve which is sexual gratification. Hence if the rapist sees a lady whether she is fully clothed or not the rapist already had in mind what to do just like someone that set out to watch porn. Bros the day you get catch this your yeye excuse won't save you ooh. You had better seek the help of a therapist now before it is too late for you. |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by BlueAir: 10:48am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Oponu we dey talk a u talk b. I said watch porn and observe if u will get indulged or not; better go seek new admission form and begin again from school Hoephase: 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by Hoephase: 10:49am On Jun 08, 2020 |
cocolacec: Don't mind those rape apologists. They easily forget that under Sharia law to prove rape you need for male witnesses that saw the accuser penetrates the victim. How do you expect to fulfil that as a rape victim? The law must have been instituted by rape apologists like the op. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by Hoephase: 11:13am On Jun 08, 2020 |
BlueAir: Skull miner. Porn is full blown sex. How does that relate to a lady going about her normal business? You rapists are the lowest of human existence looking for every excuse to justify your perverted life style. Like I said you had better seek help before you get caught and lynched. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by BlueAir: 11:20am On Jun 08, 2020 |
idiot of the year with no pause of thinking.GO WATCH NUDE PICTURES OR VIDEOS FOR THE SAKE OF LOOKING AT NUDITY and watch it's smallest psychological effect . What's my own sha u are obviously one of those low life tribalist nairalanders from God knows where so ur stupidityy and poor thinking faculty is understandable.just go back to ur foodstuff stall and focus on the only thing u are good at Hoephase: 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by Goel: 11:51am On Jun 08, 2020 |
AdamsAbubakar:It isn't. The person who raped a half dressed girl might rape a nicely dressed one too. He is the problem, not girl. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by Hoephase: 12:36pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
BlueAir: That you are a pervert does not mean every other person is. Bros you are not just a pervert but you have serious mental issues. You had better seek psychological help before you get caught red handed and get lynched. My greatest worry isnt a pervert like you getting lynched it is the possibility that you may likely pass on your polluted gene and suffer humanity with another pervert like yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by BrainRider: 12:44pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
ayaside:This was clearly elaborated in the write up. Go through it again. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by BrainRider: 12:49pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
TUANKU:You are the idiot and pig here. Read to comprehend, then reason with your head and not emotions. Indecent dressing is ONE of the factors leading to RAPE. That's the message passed in the write-up. Others raped even though dress decently, is a result of other factors. There a 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by BrainRider: 12:55pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
xendra:I guess you didn't understand the write up. Go through it again, this time, reading with your head and not anus. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by ayaside(m): 1:00pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
BrainRider:We live in a world where indecency of any sort is likely not gonna stop now. Rape issue has been going on for years. Indecent dressing or not. That's why I postulated the question. |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by TUANKU(m): 1:08pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
BrainRider:This one go fvck him sister if him see her unclothedness. Stupid farm tool. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by greatbuc(m): 1:12pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
ayaside:I know what rape does to a lady.. I am not one but people close to me have been there one way or the other. I have not said that they were the reasons why such happened to them but if you think showing of nudity on social media won't put vulnerable girls in danger.. Perhaps you are still in shock of the act.. Many other things cause rape. This one is identified already but one way or the other, we that have noticed such anomaly is tagged as rapists while the real rapists are following online prostitutes selling their bodies to the highest bidder. You don't stop at saying.. Say no to rape' you also know that the rapists too are hearing but tomorrow they will go and do the same. Why not choke them by reducing nudity, perhaps few of them will have something else to do with their time than lust on few ill dressed ladies. If you don't do something about this then don't be surprised. Its a sad thing and I'm not making case for rapists but prevention has always been better than cure. Which of our parents twerked on the internet? Which one showed their camel toe? Common.. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by BrainRider: 1:16pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
ayaside:Well, your question had been answered in the write up. |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by BrainRider: 1:19pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
TUANKU:There is one thing I learnt about fools; they drag you to their level and beat you. Am long gone. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by BlueAir: 1:27pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
see yaba patient on the prowl loose Hoephase: |
Re: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by Swealy: 1:29pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Indecent dressing is one of many factors causing rape in fact I think a prime cause of this rape is lack of swift and strict punishment it gives those rapist morale and there are too many loop holes in the law in relation to rape cases world-wide which makes it hard to convict and prosecute them |
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