Some say that as a woman unless your husband is physically abusing you, stay in your matrimonial home no matter the intensity of the wrong he may be doing to you. Stay married!

The higher the number of NO, the better the relationship:
Is he verbally abusive to you?
Does he cheat on you with different ladies.
And is bold to the extent that these ladies now come to your matrimonial home?
Is he negligent towards you and the children?
Has he fallen out of love with you and you two now live like strangers?
Do you soak your pillow with your own tears every night?
Did the doctor’s report come in that your blood pressure is high?
Are you now questioning your own sanity?
Do you constantly wonder what sort of life is it that you are living?
Is YES your answer to questions 1- 9?
Are people even helping?
A married woman in this situation, gets fed up and wants out of the marriage. The people around her will convince her to stay, pray and fight for her home. That as long as her husband does not hit her, then there is no reason to move out.

We still downplay the extremity of mental/psychological abuse in Nigeria. We say that as long as the scars are not visible, why, it means there are no scars at all. So we wrap mental/psychological abuse up and tape it with a “forgive and forget” message. We therefore send the woman away with a “go and pray for your home” postcard. Kpam-kpam! We have done our part!
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