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Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Mariangeles: 6:13pm On Jun 18, 2020
My people, this might seem like a funny question but I genuinely want to know; Do men purposely keep contacts of women they've had close relationship with?
Like, do men, one way or the other, keep "a collection of exs"? If yes, what is the reason behind it?
I asked someone and he was just going round in circles grin which led me to believe that it might be true cheesy
I need honest answers and no insults please embarassed
Let's try to keep it civil, while having fun

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by XXXXTENTACION: 6:24pm On Jun 18, 2020
As a player.

Its just to keep records of past goals and hatricks. cool

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by liberalchick(f): 6:36pm On Jun 18, 2020
How else will they set the so called Okafor’s law in motion?

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Hathor5(f): 6:45pm On Jun 18, 2020
Yes, they do. Don't ask me how I know. cheesy
Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by rosy1992(f): 6:59pm On Jun 18, 2020
Yes, they hardly let go of it.
Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Mariangeles: 7:06pm On Jun 18, 2020
Hathor5:
Yes, they do. Don't ask me how I know. cheesy

Please spill sis grin
Do it for the sisterhood grin

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Carchoice: 7:11pm On Jun 18, 2020
Free fvcks.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by akaahs(m): 7:34pm On Jun 18, 2020
U can't generalised, personally, I don't keep my ex's number even d one on my head o purposely delete them. I don't keep conversation with them no matter how fun d relationship was.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by DontBullshitMe: 7:59pm On Jun 18, 2020
You might need their help.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jun 18, 2020
Not all Men

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by JasonScoolari: 8:41pm On Jun 18, 2020
Going back to your "Vomit" or keeping it for "Future consumption is not a good habbit for humans.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Hathor5(f): 8:44pm On Jun 18, 2020
Mariangeles:


Please spill sis grin
Do it for the sisterhood grin

From personal experience I can tell you that they keep the numbers. Some will even ring you up years later. My friends keep saying the same thing. One of my friends told me: "Nigerian men will keep coming back again and again as long as you let them." I had to change my number in the past so that someone would let me be. No matter how long or short the relationship or only a date or a few dates, they will contact you again sooner or later. Sometimes they can't get over you, sometimes they have no better option, sometimes to stroke their ego and see if they can still have you.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by bukatyne(f): 8:51pm On Jun 18, 2020
DontBullshitMe:
You might need their help.

And they are the ones reaching out instead?

They must be telepathic cheesy
Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Mariangeles: 8:52pm On Jun 18, 2020
Hathor5:


From personal experience I can tell you that they keep the numbers. Some will even ring you up years later. My friends keep saying the same thing. One of my friends told me: "Nigerian men will keep coming back again and again as long as you let them." I had to change my number in the past so that someone would let me be. No matter how long or short the relationship or only a date or a few dates, they will contact you again sooner or later. Sometimes they can't get over you, sometimes they have no better option, sometimes to stroke their ego and see if they can still have you.

Wow! Thanks for opening my eyes

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Drfernandez(m): 9:15pm On Jun 18, 2020
Hathor5:


From personal experience I can tell you that they keep the numbers. Some will even ring you up years later. My friends keep saying the same thing. One of my friends told me: "Nigerian men will keep coming back again and again as long as you let them." I had to change my number in the past so that someone would let me be. No matter how long or short the relationship or only a date or a few dates, they will contact you again sooner or later. Sometimes they can't get over you, sometimes they have no better option, sometimes to stroke their ego and see if they can still have you.

For your mind it is Nigerian girls who always walkout in a relationship first thereby leaving the Nigerian men confused and making them want to have the relationship to continue. I wonder what you are feeling like. I won't be surprised if it is established that you have never been the one to walkout of a relationship first and if you are the type who cannot afford money to buy panties for yourself but comes to the internet to brag and feel fly. Only low-life men will date an obvious low-life thing like you.

When someone who is nursing emotional wounds writes it is always easy to notice.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Romangalactic(m): 9:48pm On Jun 18, 2020
Hathor5:

From personal experience I can tell you that they keep the numbers. Some will even ring you up years later. My friends keep saying the same thing. One of my friends told me: "Nigerian men will keep coming back again and again as long as you let them." I had to change my number in the past so that someone would let me be. No matter how long or short the relationship or only a date or a few dates, they will contact you again sooner or later. Sometimes they can't get over you, sometimes they have no better option, sometimes to stroke their ego and see if they can still have you.
Lmao cheesy Goddamn, I respect those niggas that worked on you. Their playboy game is really off the charts for you have believed this and go on announcing it.

If an ex is not offering you an engagement ring straight up minus any bullshiit talk, every other tale he's spinning like the ones above, is simply to gain express access to the space between your thighs again. grin

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by cooooooks(m): 9:48pm On Jun 18, 2020
When you have a good close relationship with someone, they are friends more than not/girl friends.

We'll always be friendly.

In the 2 real relationships I had that broke up, we kept in contact after the breakup and naturally reduced communication for years. No malice or calculations involved.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Mariangeles: 9:52pm On Jun 18, 2020
Drfernandez:


For your mind it is Nigerian girls who always walkout in a relationship first thereby leaving the Nigerian men confused and making them want to have the relationship to continue. I wonder what you are feeling like. I won't be surprised if it is established that you have never been the one to walkout of a relationship first and if you are the type who cannot afford money to buy panties for yourself but comes to the internet to brag and feel fly. Only low-life men will date an obvious low-life thing like you.

When someone who is nursing emotional wounds writes it is always easy to notice.





No attacking please!
She stated her opinion, you're free to do yours without being disrespectful.
Let us learn to be civilized please!

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:54pm On Jun 18, 2020
Hathor5:


From personal experience I can tell you that they keep the numbers. Some will even ring you up years later. My friends keep saying the same thing. One of my friends told me: "Nigerian men will keep coming back again and again as long as you let them." I had to change my number in the past so that someone would let me be. No matter how long or short the relationship or only a date or a few dates, they will contact you again sooner or later. Sometimes they can't get over you, sometimes they have no better option, sometimes to stroke their ego and see if they can still have you.
....Hmmm. I didn't agree with you in the other thread concerning abortions but I have to say that you are right about this.

Yes some guys will want to counter it due to ego but all you said here is the truth.

To be honest,once in while I do call my ex's and the funny thing is that whenever I do,most will still want us to do the do even though they know I'm married.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Romangalactic(m): 9:55pm On Jun 18, 2020
Mariangeles:
My people, this might seem like a funny question but I genuinely want to know; Do men purposely keep contacts of women they've had close relationship with?
Like, do men, one way or the other, keep "a collection of exs"? If yes, what is the reason behind it?
I asked someone and he was just going round in circles grin which led me to believe that it might be true cheesy
I need honest answers and no insults please embarassed
Let's try to keep it civil, while having fun
Sexy, how far?
Men don't purposely keep contacts, we just don't delete numbers of an ex over a breakup. There's no physics, chemistry, or general science involved. Normal life.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Hathor5(f): 9:55pm On Jun 18, 2020
Romangalactic:

Lmao cheesy Goddamn, I respect those niggas that worked on you. Their playboy game is really off the charts for you have believed this and go on announcing it.

If an ex is not offering you an engagement ring straight up minus any bullshiit talk, every other tale he's spinning like the ones above, is simply to gain express access to the space between your thighs again. grin

Poor me. cry

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Romangalactic(m): 9:57pm On Jun 18, 2020
JONNYSPUTE:
....Hmmm. I didn't agree with you in the other thread concerning abortions but I have to say that you are right about this.

Yes some guys will want to counter it due to ego but all you said here is the truth.

To be honest, once in while I do call my ex's and the funny thing is that whenever I do, most will still want us to do the do even though they know I'm married.

Bros, na the direct opposite of wetin she talk you just yarn so o cheesy
Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Hathor5(f): 9:58pm On Jun 18, 2020
Mariangeles:

No attacking please!
She stated her opinion, you're free to do yours without being disrespectful.
Let us learn to be civilized please!

See why I didn't want to say anything here. undecided
Anyway, I did it for you. kiss
I could say much more but people here are already hurt attacking me with their alternates.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Mariangeles: 9:59pm On Jun 18, 2020
Hathor5:


See why I didn't want to say anything here. undecided
Anyway, I did it for you. kiss
I could say much more but people here are already hurt attacking me with their alternates.
I'm sorry

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Hathor5(f): 10:00pm On Jun 18, 2020
Mariangeles:

I'm sorry

It's alright.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Romangalactic(m): 10:00pm On Jun 18, 2020
Hathor5:


Poor me. cry
Please don't believe those tales, I'm helping you out free of charge for the culture, though I'm seriously breaking the bro code. angry
Any ex who is not over you and wants you back should say it with an engagement ring. grin

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:02pm On Jun 18, 2020
Romangalactic:

Bros, na the direct opposite of wetin she talk you just yarn so o cheesy
....Lol. Do you expect her to tell you the exact thing that normally happens when such occurs?

I doubt she will.

But the truth of the matter is that most of us keep records of ou ex's and flings..

Note...I said some,not all.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Hathor5(f): 10:03pm On Jun 18, 2020
Romangalactic:

Please don't believe thoss tales, I'm helping you out fre of charge for the culture, though I'm seriously breaking the bro code.
Any ex who is not over you and wants you back should say it with an engagement ring. grin

I know who you are.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Drfernandez(m): 10:10pm On Jun 18, 2020
Mariangeles:

No attacking please!
She stated her opinion, you're free to do yours without being disrespectful.
Let us learn to be civilized please!

So, you endorsed her men condescending post?
Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Mariangeles: 10:16pm On Jun 18, 2020
Drfernandez:


So, you endorsed her men condescending post?

It's not condescending...she was just sharing from her own experience.
But why are you offended though?

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jun 18, 2020
JasonScoolari:
Going back to your "Vomit" or keeping it for "Future consumption is not a good habbit for humans.
Gbam!

I thought I was weird finding it difficult to go back to ex's even when they come feeling sorry. grin . It's not about being unforgiving, I just find it difficult to go back to someone I once dated.

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Re: Are Men Hoarders (of Their Exs) In Nature?? by pocohantas(f): 10:16pm On Jun 18, 2020
Hathor5:


From personal experience I can tell you that they keep the numbers. Some will even ring you up years later. My friends keep saying the same thing. One of my friends told me: "Nigerian men will keep coming back again and again as long as you let them." I had to change my number in the past so that someone would let me be. No matter how long or short the relationship or only a date or a few dates, they will contact you again sooner or later. Sometimes they can't get over you, sometimes they have no better option, sometimes to stroke their ego and see if they can still have you.

Everything you said is the truth. The only reason some are attacking you is because you said the truth!!!! The truth is bitter!!!

Avoid EXes o, before person go dey engaged to one man, come carry belle for another man. grin

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