The time,nature and manner of presentation of the gift determines it all.
It could be right or wrong. An EX is not an enemy if the termination was done peacefully without acrimony or spirit of revenge.
I have accepted a lot from one of my EX cos it was giving without any under tone.

there is nothing wrong if there is nothing attached to the gift. so far the gift is from a clean heart

No, it can lead to something else.

Na so e take dey start, later you go hear that it is the devils work
Poor guy (the devil), both the one he did and the one he did not do, he takes the blame

Proverbs 18: 16 A man's gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men.

Dalby:

Proverbs 18: 16 A man's gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men.

2Face says enter the place

bechex:

In my opinion, it all depends on the particular circumstance. Is she celebrating an event or occasion and how cordial has the relationship been after their break up. There are a lot of things to be considered but in all, i dont see anything wrong with it.

me too, m a married woman and dont see anything weong with it cos definitely i will tell my husband about it. my ex gave me a car during my wedding n my husband accepted it, that doesnt mean he is poor he also gave me a jeep afterwards,, n guess wat? i ride his jeep and gave out the car to my sister. both of them are friends and they met through me. my ex is married as wee and the wife is my friend as well.

It is wrong to do that.

The Bible says "the gift of a man maketh room for him".

The gift from an EX will soften the woman up,make room for him in her hearth and eventually in between her legs"

why is the guy giving her gift?

Except on my wedding day, after dat day, Capital No.

The man should know better that it is wrong to offer, now the woman being the weaker sex should accept it And then lets not hear more of this nonsense

Yes. And y not? He's just an Ex, no strings attached! Ok really really with no strings attached! Afterall, married men give gifts to not just 'EXs' but 'Current GFs' everyday.

Ex can be dangerous.if d husband buys d idea of a married woman collectin gifts,there is notin wrong.else mh.ọ nakwa

For I didn't see any thing wrong in that, but it depends on individual understand in gift in question

Yes of course, gifts are gists, regardless of the giver, provided they are given during occasions.
Ahem, i hope its not a car or a house we are talking about though. Thats a definite NO-NO!

its needs the grace of GOD TO TALK TO THIS KIND-TIN OOOOOOOOOOO,

NOT FROM HIM OR ANY OTHER MAN NOT RELATED TO HER BY BLOOD.
THAT HAS BEEN MY RULE AND SHE RESPECTS THIS AND STICKS TO IT TOO.

THE SAME RULE GOES FOR BREAKFAST, LUNCH OR DINNER. NO DINNER WITH ANY MAN (NO MATTER WHAT YOU CLAIM TO BE. WHETHER BOSS, COLLEAGUE, OLD FRIENDS, BUSINESS PROSPECT, MARKETING PROSPECT ETC.).


SO THERE IS NO EXCUSE.

I ONCE NOTICED ONCE THAT A COLLEAGUE OF HERS WANTED TO SIT WITH HER, WHILE I WAS ABOUT ENTERING THE SAME RESTAURANT.I NEVER KNEW SHE WAS THERE, BUT SPOTTED HER FROM OUTSIDE. SHE WAS HOWEVER BACKING THE ENTRANCE SO SHE DID NOT SEE ME COMMING. I DID NOT EXPECT HER TO BE THERE ALSO. I NOTICED THAT THE GUY SAT DOWN AND WITHIN A FEW SECONDS STOOD UP AND LEFT TO ANOTHER TABLE.
WHEN I ENTERED AND SUPRISED HER. I ASKED WHAT HAPPENED TO THE GUY.

SHE SAID ''OHH ITS A COLLEAGUE FROM THE OFFICE. I TOLD HIM THAT I AM HAVING LUNCH WITH MY HUSBAND SO HE SHOULD PLEASE SIT SOMEWHERE ELSE''. I KNOW WOMEN ARE NOT TO BE TRUSTED BUT I ADMIRED WHAT I HAD THAT DAY.

Some of you say ''if the Gift is from a clean heart why not''.


HOW DO YOU KNOW A CLEAN HEART PLEAASSEE? HOW?
IS IT WHEN THE PERSON SMILES?
OR ACTS AS IF HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU? NOTE, COUQUETTES ARE THE BEST OF SEDUCERS!
OR TELLS YOU ''PLEASE TAKE THE GIFT I AM NOT HITTING ON YOU''?

WELL MY WOMAN KNOWS BETTER NOT TO BRING SUCH GIFTS HOME. EXCEPT SHE KEEPS THEM SOMEWHERE ELSE.

married woman can not , right? now what about married men?

Why are you an ex? The best gift a man can give to his girlfriend is marriage.

well, if on a neutral ground, yes. like i said, it depends

Define what a neutral ground is please.
Define what an open heart is please.

Those who ask if it applies to nen pls note,This is not a matter of equality or inequality of the sexes.
If the woman shows she is not happy about it, why hurt her feelings?

Nooo,Im married woman and Ill not accept it!Good or bed,past is past,so everyone has to follow his own way!Thats why is called"Ex",have to remain in d past!

She accepts the gift and could possibly get in trouble or refuses the gift and stays away from trouble.
I say be safe and stay away from trouble.

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No no no no! My man does not play that! There is nothing an ex boyfriend can give me that is worth messing up my happy home.

gossipmama:

me too, m a married woman and dont see anything weong with it cos definitely i will tell my husband about it. my ex gave me a car during my wedding n my husband accepted it, that doesnt mean he is poor[b] he also gave me a jeep afterwards[/b],,  n guess wat? i ride his jeep and gave out the car to my sister. both of them are friends and they met through me. my ex is married as wee and the wife is my friend as well.

This is deep -- and what was the occasion

a married woman should not have a close relationship with her ex-boyfriend,  If he hit it once he might be tempted to hit it again, her too!

The poster might want to ask herself how she would feel if her husband were to start accepting gifts from an ex-girlfriend. If she answers the question HONESTLY she will probably decide that she wouldn't like that one bit. If she cares about her husband and is not simply selfish, greedy and disloyal, she would at least ask her husband what he thinks about the matter before accepting anything from anyone. She shouldn't be asking strangers, but her husband. When a woman accepts things from a man who is not her husband, it is like a gambler placing side bets. Women are notorious for being disloyal and if she accepts gifts from ex-suitors she will give her husband reason to doubt her. And all hell may follow until the end of her days.

SHE SHOULD NOT!
AS FOR ME, I CANT ACCEPT ANY GIFT FROM MY EX...

NO GIFT RECIEVE FROM EX IS FREE, IT WILL LEAD TO IMMORALITY,