I feel by now , a lot of us are aware how most babes are
constantly seeking attention/affection and how they tend to be
easily swayed & cheat. For this reason ,I personally am
scared of getting married cause I really can't handle being
cheated on. Well I'd like to know ,has your
wife/partner ever cheated & how did you handle the
situation/react?

LALA, this thread worth front page

You shouldn't have any fear if you are a decent man,i think you might have done alot and hence the reason you feel same might be done to you.May you marry the female version of you.

2017 a lady was trying to force someone else's pregnancy on my junior brother, I was really angry because my brother handled the situation like a simp. I was braging and shouting that he should have slapped her head off her neck but the boy was just too cool for my liking. He said I won't understand until am in such situation.
Behold guys I found myself in such situation yesterday, there's this girl I met march this year and the first time we had sex was march 8 thou was an unprotected sex but no ejaculation.
Fast forward to march 20 she already told me she's pregnant and she decided not to keep me. I was forced to cough out the money for abortion and it was during the lock down I had to send my last savings, she went for it and every thing was fine until this month that her stomach started shooting out and everything becoming obvious she's pregnant had to tell her to go for ultrasound she did and the result came out to be 16weeks and 6days which dated back to Feb12 meaning she was trying to force another man pregnancy on me.
When she called on phone before showing me the result I already told her we are going to keep it since the baby is in good condition and I'll tell my people so we can organize a mini wedding irrespective of the lock down she was so happy hearing this I was happy too thinking maybe it the right time to start a family. But when I saw the result I couldn't shout,scream or lay hands on her I was just thanking God for saving me from struggling to take care of another man kid and finding out years later.
Mind you this crazy girl was forming some crocodile tears that the pregnancy is mine and ultrasound was wrong we had to go somewhere else and the result came back same
Guys there are wolf in sheep clothing out there beware. When your friend or family find his or her partner cheating and you expect them to shout or destroy those that cheated on them but they choose to be cool and handle the situation with maturity don't be quick to call them mumu or simp cause you don't know what it feels to be in their situation

Rozz:
You shouldn't have any fear if you are a decent man,i think you might have done alot and hence the reason you feel same might be done to you.May you marry the female version of you.

Are you saying that decent people don't get cheated on?? Or are you just trying to attack the OP cos he struck a nerve??... If you are a cheat, better change your ways cos it will definitely end in tears


Ciao

Rozz:
You shouldn't have any fear if you are a decent man,i think you might have done alot and hence the reason you feel same might be done to you.May you marry the female version of you.

Women as usual, lack sense of judgement...

let me park. there would be a lot to learn from people here

I never experience such,, buh I wanna learn from the relationship guru comment shaa

planetx13:


Are you saying that decent people don't get cheated on?? Or are you just trying to attack the OP cos he struck a nerve??... If you are a cheat, better change your ways cos it will definitely end in tears


Ciao

you will also marry your female version,say amen lol

Rozz:
you will also marry your female version,say amen lol

Amen...... You will also marry your male version...... Can I hear your amen......

Ciao

planetx13:


Amen...... You will also marry your male version...... Can I hear your amen......

Ciao

amen amen and plenty amen

Rozz:
amen amen and plenty amen

I'd prefer if you start the amen with capital letters ...Amen.....

Ciao

planetx13:

I'd prefer if you start the amen with capital letters ...Amen.....
Ciao

Amen

No b everybody dey cheat na

Rozz:
Amen

Yes...good

Ciao

I don't know because I always avoid checking her phone or personal things. This is not because I don't love her but I'm too young to develop hypertension.

Hollasmall:
2017 a lady was trying to force someone else's pregnancy on my junior brother, I was really angry because my brother handled the situation like a simp. I was braging and shouting that he should have slapped her head off her neck but the boy was just too cool for my liking. He said I won't understand until am in such situation.
Behold guys I found myself in such situation yesterday, there's this girl I met march this year and the first time we had sex was march 8 thou was an unprotected sex but no ejaculation.
Fast forward to march 20 she already told me she's pregnant and she decided not to keep me. I was forced to cough out the money for abortion and it was during the lock down I had to send my last savings, she went for it and every thing was fine until this month that her stomach started shooting out and everything becoming obvious she's pregnant had to tell her to go for ultrasound she did and the result came out to be 16weeks and 6days which dated back to Feb12 meaning she was trying to force another man pregnancy on me.
When she called on phone before showing me the result I already told her we are going to keep it since the baby is in good condition and I'll tell my people so we can organize a mini wedding irrespective of the lock down she was so happy hearing this I was happy too thinking maybe it the right time to start a family. But when I saw the result I couldn't shout,scream or lay hands on her I was just thanking God for saving me from struggling to take care of another man kid and finding out years later.
Mind you this crazy girl was forming some crocodile tears that the pregnancy is mine and ultrasound was wrong we had to go somewhere else and the result came back same
Guys there are wolf in sheep clothing out there beware. When your friend or family find his or her partner cheating and you expect them to shout or destroy those that cheated on them but they choose to be cool and handle the situation with maturity don't be quick to call them mumu or simp cause you don't know what it feels to be in their situation

a Countless number of men are nurturing another man's children. Only a woman can determine the paternity of a child

The main reason why everybody is scared of getting married .

Well this days nobody reacts sanely to a cheat he/she is thrown out to the streets . For that's the right way to treat a cheat.

As a man or woman never stoop so low or stupid to accept a cheat back or you'll learn the hard way.

She was a serial cheat and never fail to apologise because i was catching her almost every time she cheated on me.
I made her my sex mate whenever i want to have sex and even told her that i will marry her that she should wait for me which she did. She just saw my wedding card without my notice and learnt that cheating was never an option

wizod:
She was a serial cheat and never fail to apologise because i was catching her almost every time she cheated on me.
I made her my sex mate whenever i want to have sex and even told her that i will marry her that she should wait for me which she did. She just saw my wedding card without my notice and learnt that cheating was never an option

You're the man. You deserve some accolades

Ten bottles of legend for you

Guys dy fear sha. Lol.. I used to be afraid likewise till I encountered some rare breed of ladies that changed my narrative. Look for those circle of ladies and choose. The only issue is that most of them in this circle are Jesus lovers to the core and they won't look at your face if you don't take God seriously to an extent. They too don't like anyhow men.

It takes two to Tango las las..

Rozz:
You shouldn't have any fear if you are a decent man,i think you might have done alot and hence the reason you feel same might be done to you.May you marry the female version of you.

Most guys wont say amen to dis. They will be claimin is a man' world. yimu..

Rozz:
You shouldn't have any fear if you are a decent man,i think you might have done alot and hence the reason you feel same might be done to you.May you marry the female version of you.

Yes am a decent man, but my girlfriend cheats on me, am tired of her

Here

wizod:
She was a serial cheat and never fail to apologise because i was catching her almost every time she cheated on me.
I made her my sex mate whenever i want to have sex and even told her that i will marry her that she should wait for me which she did. She just saw my wedding card without my notice and learnt that cheating was never an option

I pity the beautiful soul that married you, if only she knew

Nyamve1:
Yes am a decent man, but my girlfriend cheats on me, am tired of her

then do whatever pleases you

merieam16:
Most guys wont say amen to dis. They will be claimin is a man' world. yimu..

They don't need to say amen,theres already a natural amen stamped.You can't cheat nature

ModestGal:

I pity the beautiful soul that married you, if only she knew

Pity her for what?


Nawa for you oh

Guys won't dare say "yeah, I've fvcking cheated on her too". I didn't see any up there sha

Rozz:
then do whatever pleases you

The bottom line is that 90% of girls don't know what they want

Lamba42:
I feel by now , a lot of us are aware how most babes are
constantly seeking attention/affection and how they tend to be
easily swayed & cheat. For this reason ,I personally am
scared of getting married cause I really can't handle being
cheated on. Well I'd like to know ,has your
wife/partner ever cheated & how did you handle the
situation/react?

you can only try your best to close paths that will turn into windows for cheating...
cheating is intentional...it's a choice.. sometimes we misunderstand our feelings and end up doing shit we regret later.
I am not married but if my wife should ever cheat on me, for the sake of my kids I will remain in the marriage...