Olochee:



Why do I think this post was created with the intention of trolling?

lilmax:
I assure you, you're not in your right MIND at the moment


You might think you're in love but give it time


As for me I can't be with a 34year old woman, not advisable

It's just my opinion to you though, if you think you're good to go then go on

DominusPrime:
Well there is bound to be some desperation. She's not getting any younger so its expected. Don't listen to anyone saying you should or should not marry her. Instead judge based on now and what the future might bring by answering some of these...
Won't she change after marriage if finances are not there?
Will she still see you as the head of the house after marriage cos true colours can come out after a person gets his or her utmost desire?
She's 6 years older. Have you factored in the fact that a woman's beauty depreciates with age especially if there is no money for maintenance? Only a few girls have that natural ageless beauty. That's why you see the ones that cant do without makeup looking older than their ages when you see their natural faces.
When that beauty starts to fade will you remain faithful cos one of the greatest problem of older ladies nowadays is that younger prettier girl with firm natural bodies are springing up nowadays and men cheat a lot with them once the beauty starts to fade?
Are you mentally mature enough to handle a lady cos ladies get exposed to more mature older men faster especially when they are young and it affects how they see their age mates not to talk of one who is older than you?

My point is don't be clouded or fooled by her show of love. It might be genuine but it could still change due to circumstances. Instead think of the worst case scenario as per your relationship and marriage with her and if you can bear whatever the future might bring no matter how bad then go ahead. But if you cant stand the things I've asked up there(and trust me there are may more I did not even ask) then don't set yourself up for an early grave. Set aside feelings and think realistically.

temi4fash:


Bros

You are an elder ooo...

You should be a marriage counselor.. The gift is there.. You tooo make sense

God bless you...

I wish I could like this 2000 times...

Can I send a PM

KindlyAssist:


My people I fell in love with a 34 year old lady & her love for me is times 2 of mine, even though I didn't know her age after 2 months of our relationship, cos she said it could ruin our chances as she can't watch me go.

We are both both working, even though our jobs doesn't have security, she's great everywhere and her body is still 30 by face value.

She wants MARRIAGE, I had asked her to slow down because it seems my time is ticking slowly and hers is faster because of her age, girl is inlove no doubt but sometimes i sense a degree of desperation around her.

Also my job is just 14 months and i just started life so i feel i need more time to think it through and she needs us to start planning the alley way ( marriage) now.

Beautiful
Smart
Hardworking
Very active in communication

Infact i left my ex cos of her but i don't know why one side of my heart isn't cool with the age thing.

Elders Come to my rescue ooooo!

Corbin:
do not marry her you will hate ur self
6years damnnn

don't man
cause you won't enjoy the freshness of her

she is close to her 40s

inspirator1:
No!!! Elder Zoer is not good for us to leave our younger ones confused! You have to say something. An elder doesn't stay in the house and let the goat to die in the stead.
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Here is my experience....you having a feeling that she is desperate, is because you get to know her age; if she had kept mute like most ladies do, you would have told us that your relationship "is heaven on earth".
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Listen in relationship age is not the real deal breaker for me. Once she can be called a virtuous woman and presentable; please show me the route to your father's house.
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Again why not find out if you can care, adorn, respect and admire her without compulsion; as well as keeping her age a secret from familiars and family.
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They above should guide you in not coping with her but has I life with her.
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PS: Don't forget she is coming with wealth of experience on her to keep his man and territorial mapping.

KindlyAssist:

Thoughtful o

zoer:
U no know say she old pass u b4 u toast her?...Guy free us the elders cos we get important meeting for yard now........ Free us

KindlyAssist:


Very nice one God bless you.

Dreciousoreva01:
do you love her? if yes go for her.sit down and access your feelings.marriage is for life.age is just a number

KindlyAssist:


My people I fell in love with a 34 year old lady & her love for me is times 2 of mine, even though I didn't know her age after 2 months of our relationship, cos she said it could ruin our chances as she can't watch me go.

We are both both working, even though our jobs doesn't have security, she's great everywhere and her body is still 30 by face value.

She wants MARRIAGE, I had asked her to slow down because it seems my time is ticking slowly and hers is faster because of her age, girl is inlove no doubt but sometimes i sense a degree of desperation around her.

Also my job is just 14 months and i just started life so i feel i need more time to think it through and she needs us to start planning the alley way ( marriage) now.

Beautiful
Smart
Hardworking
Very active in communication

Infact i left my ex cos of her but i don't know why one side of my heart isn't cool with the age thing.

Elders Come to my rescue ooooo!

KindlyAssist:


My people I fell in love with a 34 year old lady & her love for me is times 2 of mine, even though I didn't know her age after 2 months of our relationship, cos she said it could ruin our chances as she can't watch me go.

We are both both working, even though our jobs doesn't have security, she's great everywhere and her body is still 30 by face value.

She wants MARRIAGE, I had asked her to slow down because it seems my time is ticking slowly and hers is faster because of her age, girl is inlove no doubt but sometimes i sense a degree of desperation around her.

Also my job is just 14 months and i just started life so i feel i need more time to think it through and she needs us to start planning the alley way ( marriage) now.

Beautiful
Smart
Hardworking
Very active in communication

Infact i left my ex cos of her but i don't know why one side of my heart isn't cool with the age thing.

Elders Come to my rescue ooooo!

KindlyAssist:


My people I fell in love with a 34 year old lady & her love for me is times 2 of mine, even though I didn't know her age after 2 months of our relationship, cos she said it could ruin our chances as she can't watch me go.

She wants MARRIAGE, I had asked her to slow down because it seems my time is ticking slowly and hers is faster because of her age, girl is inlove no doubt but sometimes i sense a degree of desperation around her.