Hello NLS...

I'm here to seek solutions to this complicated issue I find very disturbing.

me and my girlfriend have been together for two(2) good years strongly without any cause for departure for once. we love each other to the extreme that both families are in support of our relationship.
Been the 2nd daughter of her parents, her elder sister is 32 while she's 26. her sister was also in full support of our relationship,

To cut the long story short, ion wanna bore you guys.
I discovered some funny characters in her at any slight appearance of me around.
she likes following her sis(mygf) to my house at first I was comfortable but it got so frequent that I had to tell my gf to stop bringing her all the time as I wasn't pleased with it. she stopped eventually ion know how she(mygf) told her but she stopped.

There was a time my gf was down with typhoid very chronic one,I had to visit her in the hospital and after discharging her, I kept on visiting her at home...( this was when I discovered my gf's sis intentions towards me) whenever I visit, she will entertain me due to the weakness in my gf's body. and sometimes my gf will just leave us in the living room to her room and I noticed she was always laughing at any dry joke, trying to play with my hair, holding my hands while talking, but no sexual closeness tho. (trust me guys my mind was free as i never thought she could be seducing me) this go on and on for 2weeks and one day, she was talking to me while my gf was in the rest room...she held my hands and looked at my face and told me "I wish you are mine" I laughed and was like "sis Becky stop whining me jare" then she said she wasn't that she really mean it, I was like your boo nkor? that was when she told me " praise it might sound funny and unbelievable Ice got feelings for you and I envy my sister for having you. The look on her face says it that she was damn serious!!!! I became frightened and my heart was beating fast cos I know this is trouble knocking on my door. I've heard stories of how friends kill each other because of a man but I've never experienced it, mine are not friends but blood sisters.

Now my gf does not know anything about this, cos I didn't tell her. Her sis is disturbing my life for a relationship BTW us, she doesn't even regard her guy anymore Am scared of what it might cause in their family if I should open up to my gf. we are still much in love with each other ( mygf) I wanted to post her pics(gf's sis) but I thought it could result to my gf ending the relationship as I love her so much not to loose her.

pls I need solutions here please ppl it's not a fake story its real. thanks!!

I'm not a good counselor though, but lemme try today.



If she wants fvck, give it to her
if she wants relationship, then sit her azz down and talk sense into her.






#YOLO

This is very tricky cos it's going to cause problems within the family if you open up to your gf but i guess the only thing left is for you to have a strong word with the elder sis and stand your ground firmly or else na trouble u dey use play so...

You can only go spiritual on this case. No any other thing will work.

Cancel her affection for you in the realm of the spirit.

Sorry bro trouble has already entered, besides the elder sister doesn't like you she just like what you guys have, and wishes to have the same sadly in your case the same guy rather than a guy like you, my advice stamp your feet down and stop visiting, I would have said tell the sister but mehn that will drive a discord between them, I wouldn't want to have a problem like yours. take care keep resisting bro

Larryfest:
This is very tricky cos it's going to cause problems within the family if you open up to your gf but i guess the only thing left is for you to have a strong word with the elder sis and stand your ground firmly or else na trouble u dey use play so...

thanks bro

pcguru1:
Sorry bro trouble has already entered, besides the elder sister doesn't like you she just like what you guys have, and wishes to have the same sadly in your case the same guy rather than a guy like you, my advice stamp your feet down and stop visiting, I would have said tell the sister but mehn that will drive a discord between them, I wouldn't want to have a problem like yours. take care keep resisting bro

thanks

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Op don't tell your gf about it unless you've concrete proof on it. Maybe it's a chat or something. Just warn her seriously and threaten her if need be. Then minimize your visit anytime you know her eldest sis is around.

Btw, this look's like typical nollywood where her sis will try to seduce you and you'll be caught then she plays the victim card. Until one day karma visits her and she apologies and you and your gf makeup.

This is a clear case of standing between the devil and the deep blue sea. Tell your girl friend's sis in a no nonsence way to stay away from you if she truely means well for you. And pls "hold ur ear as i say this" dont you ever for whatever reason(s) allow yourself to be found in a lonely or compromising situation with her to avoid stories that touch. Finally my prayers is with you. Cheers.

Op this not a big problem as u envisaged.If she tries it next time,be a man Nd warn her seriously to stop that Nd if she did not , tell her sis. If u try to protect her from having issues with ur girlfriend by telling her, Nd she finds out on her own,u will eventually lose ur girl. So stand firm Nd warn her not talking to her,when I mean warning,I mean stern one.Goodluck

it is not advisable to do anytin with her, having an affair with her will ruin ur relationship.... in btw who knws how to do d python dance ;

Na wa

OK

Let's see how much this land costs

honestly,i dont know what to say....i will just be here to read comments that has sense in it

Op why bother yourself. Date both of them . This is just a matter of buy one and get one free. U can even arrange for three.some

My brother, have thou forgotten Isaac?

Oya ask her to off her pant jare!

Bro na free toto u wan loose so..

Honestly,I will advise you not to intimate your gf about this cos you might become the victim later.Like someone posted above,u have to stand up to her and make your intention known,your NO is ur NO...BE A MAN.

Also Make Sure you have a proof,maybe a chat or audio record incase she decides to give you a smackdown.Peace.

JONNYSPUTE:
Op this not a big problem as u envisaged.If she tries it next time,be a man Nd warn her seriously to stop that Nd if she did not , tell her sis. If u try to protect her from having issues with ur girlfriend by telling her, Nd she finds out on her own,u will eventually lose ur girl. So stand firm Nd warn her not talking to her,when I mean warning,I mean stern one.Goodluck

thanks

makydebbie:

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Op don't tell your gf about it unless you've concrete proof on it. Maybe it's a chat or something. Just warn her seriously and threaten her if need be. Then minimize your visit anytime you know her eldest sis is around.

Btw, this look's like typical nollywood where her sis will try to seduce you and you'll be caught then she plays the victim card. Until one day karma visits her and she apologies and you and your gf makeup.

thank u

JONNYSPUTE:
Op this not a big problem as u envisaged.If she tries it next time,be a man Nd warn her seriously to stop that Nd if she did not , tell her sis. If u try to protect her from having issues with ur girlfriend by telling her, Nd she finds out on her own,u will eventually lose ur girl. So stand firm Nd warn her not talking to her,when I mean warning,I mean stern one.Goodluck

noted sir thanks

Op believe me, you are in trouble. Two sisters?

izzit that she is having banging issues with her current boyfriend ,op I suggest you help because konji na bastard ..!! but seriously just call her sit her down make a voice recording of you guys conversation an tell her when else she brings that love or relationship up again that you will report to your girlfriend

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It's probably a test. Don't fall for it

Just Tell her she's like your elder sister and u can't imagine urself bunking ur own sistet then watch how fast the feelings will die, cos women hate to be friendzoned

please don't give anything because if try to have any affairs with her she won't stop at all she will always demand for it.all what you could do just pray that God should seperate you and her, that is what you could do to be freeplease don't give anything because if try to have any affairs with her she won't stop at all she will always demand for it.all what you could do just pray that God should seperate you and her, that is what you could do to be freeplease don't give anything because if try to have any affairs with her she won't stop at all she will always demand for it.all what you could do just pray that God should seperate you and her, that is what you could do to be free

So what's the problem?

Op i don't understand. If you love your GF, then tell her Sister in no uncertain terms that you love your GF and have absolutely no plans to go out with her.

I suggest you hide a voice recorder nearby to record the conversation, so that if the elder sister gets angry and tries to frame you then you have proof.

I also suggest you discuss this with your gf. I bet you would want your gf to tell you things like this if the reverse was the case.

If however you have already decided to pour akamu inside the elder sister's ponyor then you don't need us o

It is not difficult. Keep your cool. If she tries sweet talking you again. Don't be angry, look her in the eyes and gently ask her how she will feel if roles are reversed and her sister is asking out her boyfriend she loves.
She will adjust immediately.

Meanwhile record everything.

Devil and mammy water don finish joint meeting on top your head

Tell her that you would never want to hurt her or her sister feeling

Then stay very far away from her

Start to record her erotic conversations. There's a very fine line between love and hate, if she feels she is not getting her way, she might want to destroy what you have..
So have some evidence and leverage and brace yourself

Op u are in big trouble...