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Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by prof2007: 3:31am On Jul 03, 2020
A lady has advised men to make women stop using sex as a weapon against them by simply mastering what she referred to as the art of saying no to sex. According to the lady with username @Ayigbe_Nani on Twitter, women have been brought up to believe that men cannot do without sex, so they try to take advantage of it to exploit them.

Well, all hope is not lost. @Ayigbe_Nani said men can be in control of their lives by learning to decline sex offers from women. In her view, when men “master the art of saying NO to sex, women who are opportunists will stay away from them, adding that sex is the only thing women use to get what they want from men.

“As a man, you should master your sexual discipline. Women use sex to get what they want. That’s their only game plan because they are told from an early age that men only want sex. Master the art of saying NO and you will see how useless women will leave you alone,” the lady counsels.

SOURCE: https://www.pulse.ng/news/metro/master-the-art-of-saying-no-to-sex-useless-women-will-leave-pretty-lady-advises-men/mhfjdcz

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:39am On Jul 03, 2020
when women foolishly dress like she does, no wonder men cant say no and view woman as objects... she is part of the damn problem!

also, we men have been battling with the untamed tiger in our pants since the day we were born... and this has nothing to do with women.

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by correctyourself(m): 3:43am On Jul 03, 2020
Well said, but her legs are shining like friend native fowl grin

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Inspectorsuga22(m): 4:04am On Jul 03, 2020
Damn!!
I love that ass
Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Nobody: 4:12am On Jul 03, 2020
They will never master that and will never listen,it has been causing them trouble since time immemorial

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Inspectorsuga22(m): 4:20am On Jul 03, 2020
Rozz:
They will never master that and will never listen,it has been causing them trouble since time immemorial

And the women we see on different blogs fighting n stripping themselves naked cos of di¢k, how far have u tried to make them master the art of staying away from di¢ks n how many have listened to u?
grin grin

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Nobody: 4:24am On Jul 03, 2020
Inspectorsuga22:


And the women we see on different blogs fighting n stripping themselves naked cos of di¢k, how far have u tried to make them master the art of staying away from di¢ks n how many have listened to u?
grin grin
dont listen now,be telling me what I don't know

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Inspectorsuga22(m): 4:27am On Jul 03, 2020
Rozz:
dont listen now,be telling me what I don't know

Of course u know I will never listen...na my right...

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Juliusmomoh: 6:20am On Jul 03, 2020
" Double wahala for dead body " in olamide voice grin

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by bukatyne(f): 7:52am On Jul 03, 2020
A man who can control his sexual urge, do his chores, make his food and tame his ego would ALMOST be 'uncontrollable' and 'un-influenceable'.

Would an average woman really really want that type of man?

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Unnerve: 8:18am On Jul 03, 2020
I was one of the lucky ones who had a father who taught him game very early in life.
He was the one who introduced me to this principle and although it was very hard during my teens, by the time I was in my early 20s, I had mastered & fully inculcated the act of mastering myself and my sexual needs around women.

It has saved me and continues saving me from female manipulations.

The lady didn't include tears, lol. Pops also taught me to identify real emotional tears from manipulative crocodile tears.

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Unnerve: 8:23am On Jul 03, 2020
Rozz:
They will never master that and will never listen,it has been causing them trouble since time immemorial
Lol, true. I wish more guys would learn to master themselves around women

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by dominique(f): 8:49am On Jul 03, 2020
Inspectorsuga22:


And the women we see on different blogs fighting n stripping themselves naked cos of di¢k, how far have u tried to make them master the art of staying away from di¢ks n how many have listened to u?
grin grin

That's exactly the point she's making. Ignore them, push away their subtle advances and see how useless they truly are. A woman that sees a man that's not giving her the attention she wants from him will find other productive things to do Everybody has inbuilt self control, try to exercise it and master it. Your bank account will thank you for this.

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Unnerve: 8:58am On Jul 03, 2020
bukatyne:
A man who can control his sexual urge, do his chores, make his food and tame his ego would ALMOST be 'uncontrollable' and 'un-influenceable'.

Would an average woman really really want that type of man?

The goal is to weed out average women and only go for exceptional women of character who are not passively trying to control and influence you.

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Belafonte(m): 9:04am On Jul 03, 2020
Unnerve:
I was one of the lucky ones who had a father who taught him game very early in life.
He was the one who introduced me to this principle and although it was very hard during my teens, by the time I was in my early 20s, I had mastered & fully inculcated the act of mastering myself and my sexual needs around women.

It has saved me and continues saving me from female manipulations.

The lady didn't include tears, lol. Pops also taught me to identify real emotional tears from manipulative crocodile tears.

I owe your pops a full carton of whatever spirit he drinks.

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by bukatyne(f): 9:18am On Jul 03, 2020
Unnerve:

The goal is to weed out average women and only go for exceptional women of character who are not passively trying to control and influence you.

Exceptional woman, good one.

This thread ties to my thread.

Influence driven by love is the goal.

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Hathor5(f): 9:18am On Jul 03, 2020
I can't respect a man who is not in control of his penis.

Unnerve, teach your brothers what your pops taught you. You may charge them too. There should be high demand for this sort of lessons.

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Nobody: 9:34am On Jul 03, 2020
bukatyne:
A man who can control his sexual urge, do his chores, make his food and tame his ego would ALMOST be 'uncontrollable' and 'un-influenceable'.

Would an average woman really really want that type of man?

its never advisable for any lady to marry a man she can't control at least small lol, right?
Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by bukatyne(f): 9:45am On Jul 03, 2020
Rozz:
its never advisable for any lady to marry a man she can't control at least small lol, right?

Hahahahahahahahaha!

I would prefer influence.

In traditional Nigerian marriages, wives have had influence on their husbands through food, sex and massaging his ego.

There is also influence based on love: because he loves you (which a number of Nigerian women never achieve else they will not resolve to the traditional method).

Now if you have a traditional relationship with a man who can't be influenced by food, sex or ego massage, na fast express be that.

Hence the rhetorical question in my first post:

Would an average woman (Nigerian) really really want such a man?

The goal is to be an assertive visionary man influence able by your woman whom has been properly screened and chosen. cheesy

Make yourself a woman of value and virtue and you have nothing to worry about.

At the end, such a man exercises a great restraint.

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:49am On Jul 03, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
when women foolishly dress like she does, no wonder men cant say no and view woman as objects... she is part of the damn problem!

also, we men have been battling with the untamed tiger in our pants since the day we were born... and this has nothing to do with women.


How the hell is she part of the problem? I'm sure your eyes can open and close at will, so if you see her or any lady dressing seductively and otherwise, close your eyes or scroll and pass, that is why she is preaching control, everyone has the capability of controlling their sexual libido, or you think we ladies don't see sexy AF men with to die for abs and packs that makes our mouth water? We control our urges too, self control breeds dignity and self worth, abide by it.

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Liposure: 9:55am On Jul 03, 2020
Its hard for a man 2 resist a woman talkless of saying no 2 sex. Its like saying no 2 jollof rice. Men are wired sexually. Now, Telling them to say no is like telling a leopard 2 change its spot which can neva happen. Its our nature
Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Nobody: 9:56am On Jul 03, 2020
bukatyne:


Hahahahahahahahaha!

I would prefer influence.

In traditional Nigerian marriages, wives have had influence on their husbands through food, sex and massaging his ego.

There is also influence based on love: because he loves you (which a number of Nigerian women never achieve else they will not resolve to the traditional method).

Now if you have a traditional relationship with a man who can't be influenced by food, sex or ego massage, na fast express be that.

Hence the rhetorical question in my first post:

Would an average woman (Nigerian) really really want such a man?

you are right,the better word is INFLUENCE, that's why it's also safe to do away with any man that follows ubunja,martinez39s and their cohorts here in Nairaland.Any unfortunate lady that falls in their trap will live a bitter life

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by bukatyne(f): 9:57am On Jul 03, 2020
Rozz:
you are right,the better word is INFLUENCE, that's why it's also safe to do away with any man that follows ubunja,martinez39s and their cohorts here in Nairaland.Any unfortunate lady that falls in their trap will live a bitter life

I have updated my post.
Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Nobody: 10:02am On Jul 03, 2020
Liposure:
Its hard for a man 2 resist a woman let alone saying no 2 sex. Its like saying no 2 jollof rice. Men are wired sexually. Now, Telling them to say no is like telling a leopard 2 change its spot which can neva happen. Its our nature
ehn ehn,smh is this why you are always on that side?
Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Martinez39s(m): 10:14am On Jul 03, 2020
Is this not what I have been saying?

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:42am On Jul 03, 2020
Liposure:
Its hard for a man 2 resist a woman let alone saying no 2 sex. Its like saying no 2 jollof rice. Men are wired sexually. Now, Telling them to say no is like telling a leopard 2 change its spot which can neva happen. Its our nature


In other words, it is your nature to dive into any leg that is wide open?

And your comparison is off, some people say no to jollof rice, the spots of leopards is what makes them what they are, does a man have sex spot all over their body? Does sex make a man who they are?

Seriously men trying to defend this sex control thing are of extremely damaged self esteem, like they have nothing of worth except to diick hop their existence away.

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Arrogantbro(m): 11:04am On Jul 03, 2020
Liposure:
Its hard for a man 2 resist a woman talkless of saying no 2 sex. Its like saying no 2 jollof rice. Men are wired sexually. Now, Telling them to say no is like telling a leopard 2 change its spot which can neva happen. Its our nature
You are indirectly saying you can't resist women even when they take advantage of you. Better wake up, self discipline is gold. Some real men still discipline themselves from female manipulation

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Nobody: 11:13am On Jul 03, 2020
Fountainofyouth:



In other words, it is your nature to dive into any leg that is wide open?

And your comparison is off, some people say no to jollof rice, the spots of leopards is what makes them what they are, does a man have sex spot all over their body? Does sex make a man who they are?

Seriously men trying to defend this sex control thing are of extremely damaged self esteem, like they have nothing of worth except to diick hop their existence away.
Hes spoilt man
Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Unnerve: 11:21am On Jul 03, 2020
Liposure:
Its hard for a man 2 resist a woman talkless of saying no 2 sex. Its like saying no 2 jollof rice. Men are wired sexually. Now, Telling them to say no is like telling a leopard 2 change its spot which can neva happen. Its our nature
Lol, it will only put you in trouble.

It's either you're spending your savings to impress a woman, or you're begging a woman for a relationship (because of sex), or you get seduced on purpose and get blackmailed with it, or worst, you get accused of raping someone's daughter because she didn't consent to sex.

Too many things can go wrong when a man proudly says he can't resist a woman and say no to sex. I can't point out a single benefit from being unable to resist women or an inability to say no to sex.

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Omar09(m): 11:35am On Jul 03, 2020
bukatyne:
A man who can control his sexual urge, do his chores, make his food and tame his ego would ALMOST be 'uncontrollable' and 'un-influenceable'.

Would an average woman really really want that type of man?


That is a hell of a bad market for today's women. In fact, they don't want it.

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Omar09(m): 11:40am On Jul 03, 2020
Liposure:
Its hard for a man 2 resist a woman talkless of saying no 2 sex. Its like saying no 2 jollof rice. Men are wired sexually. Now, Telling them to say no is like telling a leopard 2 change its spot which can neva happen. Its our YOUR nature

There, I fixed it. I have mine under control.

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Re: Lady's Advice: Master The Art Of Saying NO To Sex & Useless Women Will Leave by Omar09(m): 11:42am On Jul 03, 2020
Martinez39s:
Is this not what I have been saying?

Idk.. I think it sounds different now that it came from a woman. Maybe men would listen.

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