Hello fam,
This has been a concern to me in my relationship.

I am a short guy, I have a small body stature.
The girl I'm dating is about my height. She has tendency of adding weight if comfortable.

What will be your counsel to me?
If you were in my shoe, will you marry her?

NB: I love this girl so much

Professorcplus:
Guyyy

Yes Prof.

Nairaland guys are to short, broke ND ugly

Your kids

kestolove95:
Nairaland guys are to short, broke ND ugly

Lol.
I'm not extra short.
I'm averagely short.
I'm not broke
And I'm a fine boy

kestolove95:
Nairaland guys are to short, broke ND ugly

seems true,i think that's the reason most don't have Profile picture

Na mortar pestle we born be dat.

pls look for someone that will complement your height. it's very necessary

You have to marry a. Person who is taller now

Don't disadvantage your children.

Rozz:
seems true,i think that's the reason most don't have Profile picture

lol...I don't agree. There are actually many handsome guys on Nairaland. I have seen some of them on video calls, and on their WhatsApp and IG profile.
I think most guys here don't like to put up pictures because it makes them "too public," and doesn't make other people curious; I removed mine for this purpose. Do try to meet people from here sometimes.

Spark2:
Hello fam,
This has been a concern to me in my relationship.

I am a short guy, I have a small body stature.
The girl I'm dating is about my height. She has tendency of adding weight if comfortable.

What will be your counsel to me?
If you were in my shoe, will you marry her?

NB: I love this girl so much

Oh well, I thought it's love that matters? If you are short and not build of heavy muscles and your babe of similar stature, please stay with her.
Do you by any means have a better chance of meeting a tall lady that you will love as you love your present girl and that will love you the same way? If you know you're not pleased with her stature and how build she will become in the future, let her go in time. You seems to have doubt as to whether she's and will be good for you in the future. As a man, you go after ladies that you like their stature. I think tall for tall, short for short, right? I am not sure

I understand that look and stature matters, but you have to look at the possibilities within your own stature here. I think where there's love, there is everything-- and soon enough, her height won't matter.

Rozz:
seems true,i think that's the reason most don't have Profile picture

lol.But you don't have profile picture nan,is it for same reason?

Onebabe:
You have to marry a. Person who is taller now

What if he won't love the taller lady as much as he loves his present girl?
And what if he finds a taller girl, but she doesn't love him and stay?
Then you also need to consider that taller girls want to date and marry someone taller as or than them, not short.

Kevin Hart comes to mind. His wife is taller.
I think Pharell William's wife is taller too.

fairheart:

lol...I don't agree. There are actually many handsome guys on Nairaland. I have seen some of them on video calls, and on their WhatsApp and IG profile.
I think most guys here don't like to put up pictures because it makes them "too public," and doesn't make other people curious; I removed mine for this purpose. Do try to meet people from here sometimes.

lol its understandable for ladies,but what will a guy be hiding except if he's into fraud.

jasent:
lol.But you don't have profile picture nan,is it for same reason?

my picture is always there,i had to be covering my face for security reasons same as the few ones who have profile picture do, i even try sef,almost all Nairaland members don't have profile picture,its always blank

I can't marry someone I'm taller than

Rozz:
lol its understandable for ladies,but what will a guy be hiding except if he's into fraud.

You're funny. If it's understandable for ladies, the same can be said for guys. The same reason can be applied to you: why don't you put your full picture showing your face? We know you're the full package , but what happens to your face? You don't want to be too public, and you want people to be curious!

fairheart:

You're funny. If it's understandable for ladies, the same can be said for guys. The same reason can be applied to you: why don't you put your full picture showing your face? We know you're the full package , but what happens to your face? You don't want to be too public, and you want people to be curious!

you people made it a big deal to show face and I followed suit,i think I have actually showed my face when I newly registered,nothing happened to my face,we are all hiding our faces. It's even sweet that way,so you can do and undo lol

Marry a tall lady if you meet one. It doesn’t mean that your kids are going to be taller but at least, you’ll be optimistic. My kids will be taller than I am cos it’s either I marry a taller lady or someone of my height.

Tall girls want to marry tall guys, �
Short girls want to marry tall guys

[size=14pt]So who will them marry the Short guys?[/size]

Rozz:
you people made it a big deal to show face and I followed suit,i think I have actually showed my face when I newly registered,nothing happened to my face,we are all hiding our faces. It's even sweet that way,so you can do and undo lol

Right, it is all good.

Rozz:
seems true,i think that's the reason most don't have Profile picture

now u seeing what am seeing

Spark2:


Lol.
I'm not extra short.
I'm averagely short.
I'm not broke
And I'm a fine boy

continue lying

kestolove95:
now u seeing what am seeing

yes ooo you are very right

Rozz:
seems true,i think that's the reason most don't have Profile picture

Thank you dear for finally decoding this secret.

Avoid breeding dwarfs

kestolove95:
Nairaland guys are to short, broke ND ugly

Why na?

.

Spark2:


Lol.
I'm not extra short.
I'm averagely short.
I'm not broke
And I'm a fine boy

....yimu

btw, if u like her so go ahead, buh just no say u go dey pack beans give ur children o.lolz