madridguy:
I wanted to quote the moniker but stopped when i saw your message Thank God its coming from a woman like her.

bukatyne:


Life Matters Nigeria,

I will not tell you what to think.

However, IF you as a husband does not like the attitude of YOUR wife in a certain circumstance, you have the 'duty' to call her to order.

You are not comfortable with their relationship, put an end to it.

madridguy:
Sir, if you help me see FBI job, i will do The OP too gentle jare

Justbehave:
I pity simps.

Professorcplus:

Sir worry no more here is your solution.

1. Go to www. Jumia and order for home cctv and sound record.
2. Install it in some secretive place in your house.
3. Pick your phone and book appointment with your brother.
4. Make sure you set the atmosphere enabling for interaction.
5. Take excuse for long distance.
6. Go to beer palour order for beer and chill with it.
7. Come back home smilling...the rest is story.

Johntemmy:
I am married for over 5yrs now, I love my wife so much and my family. But I don't know what is going on btw my wife and my kid brother(close relative but not sibling), it all started 2016, my brother school in the same State and town am living, he always come around for weekend at my place, and I noticed they get close, I was happy about it.
When i got transferred to work in another State, I started coming home on weekends too, until my wife got sick and I asked my brother to go there and stay with her because he's also on holiday, I think that was how they got so intimate I like the way they play and gist a lot, I was transferred back 2017. but what giving me concern about this' is, whenever he's not around they always talk on phone, video chat, sometimes send pictures to each other, my wife will sometimes block me from viewing her WhatsApp status when she put him there, because I had complained ones about why she used so much romantic words for him. She will always excuse to go and talk to him, when I ask why? she'll say private discussion, I really don't feel comfortable but I think I shouldn't jump into conclusion.
I'm not a heavy eater but my brother is, my wife always give him larger portion, I don't mind but when it's meat, my wife gives him the best meat in the soup, bcoz we always eat together on the same dinning table, I feel uncomfortable & disrespected with this, but I didn't talk, but recently I was checking through my brother phone and saw one of his pics that he took 2018 and unknowingly and unware my wife was sitting down behind him, exposing her breast because of the ordinary singlet she was wearing because she's inside the house but my brother kept this picture since then, I ask him why didn't he delete it, he said "i like it, I don't feel convenient with how my wife shows on it, I ask why he couldn't crop her out of the pics, he keeps giving excuses so i deleted it, and he was mad at me. But this had been a point of concern for me, I don't know what to think and how to handle this....
Please mature minds only! Thanks.
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Dande55:

Exactly o. Had it been the op said the wife doesn't dish out food for his brother, these rapists will still crucify her, now that the opposite is the case, they are saying she's having an affair.
You see why these rapists shouldn't be pleased at ones detriment.

Dande55:

Exactly o. Had it been the op said the wife doesn't dish out food for his brother, these rapists will still crucify her, now that the opposite is the case, they are saying she's having an affair.
You see why these rapists shouldn't be pleased at ones detriment.

merahki:



This is useless to be honest.
But I like the matter of fact way you delivered it. Talk about “being bold in error”

uniqueboi1:
That guy dae chew your wife na... You want them to come and tell you they are fvcking Hellooooo!

Johntemmy:
I am married for over 5yrs now, I love my wife so much and my family. But I don't know what is going on btw my wife and my kid brother(close relative but not sibling), it all started 2016, my brother school in the same State and town am living, he always come around for weekend at my place, and I noticed they get close, I was happy about it.
When i got transferred to work in another State, I started coming home on weekends too, until my wife got sick and I asked my brother to go there and stay with her because he's also on holiday, I think that was how they got so intimate I like the way they play and gist a lot, I was transferred back 2017. but what giving me concern about this' is, whenever he's not around they always talk on phone, video chat, sometimes send pictures to each other, my wife will sometimes block me from viewing her WhatsApp status when she put him there, because I had complained ones about why she used so much romantic words for him. She will always excuse to go and talk to him, when I ask why? she'll say private discussion, I really don't feel comfortable but I think I shouldn't jump into conclusion.
I'm not a heavy eater but my brother is, my wife always give him larger portion, I don't mind but when it's meat, my wife gives him the best meat in the soup, bcoz we always eat together on the same dinning table, I feel uncomfortable & disrespected with this, but I didn't talk, but recently I was checking through my brother phone and saw one of his pics that he took 2018 and unknowingly and unware my wife was sitting down behind him, exposing her breast because of the ordinary singlet she was wearing because she's inside the house but my brother kept this picture since then, I ask him why didn't he delete it, he said "i like it, I don't feel convenient with how my wife shows on it, I ask why he couldn't crop her out of the pics, he keeps giving excuses so i deleted it, and he was mad at me. But this had been a point of concern for me, I don't know what to think and how to handle this....
Please mature minds only! Thanks.
from LIFE MATTERS NIGERIA.

uruba23:

So you think you can stop a cheating woman or man... my advice is do DNA and focus on training your kids, while taking proper precautions.If you want to be monitoring and reacting men one won't last long on earth.

merahki:



You walk away!
And be free from disease, disrespect and self hate!
You train your kids and teach them self respect/how not to stay in unions (where oaths are taken with holy books and or kola and palmwine) that are false. How not to be cheats or “simps” or dumps. You teach them to respect you who walked out of a dishonest and disrespectful arrangement. You teach them to appreciate mutually loving or at least mutually respectful unions.
This is a more honest stance.
You walk away, not “train your children and take proper precautions” to quote your frankly disturbing and “simpy” comment.

CsRockefeller:
I wanted to say something might be going on then I remembered my story.

My uncle had this lovely lady he wanted to marry, for some reasons unknown to me we became really close.

We used to talk on the phone and gist whenever we saw, it was so clear to everyone and there was nothing sinister about our moves.

Unfortunately, the marriage didn't last a month after the wedding, we were so close that people were asking me why d marriage crashed even when I knew nothing.

So, I'm thinking this might be d case here or otherwise.

uruba23:
[s]If men don't have timetime a baby mama arrangements is better.Getting married means you have to be communicating at least three times in a week[/s].

merahki:



You are deviating from the issue I have with you.
Getting married means swearing an oath to be faithful to one partner and not cheat on them, it means accountability between two oath takers, and certainly “not bend over to raise your children and take proper precautions” when being cheated on.
I don’t care a pinch about how many times you want to be communicating with your spouse. If you like don’t communicate at all. If you want to choke them with communication, it’s all up to the marriagers. No oath was taken on communication so no issues there.

merahki:



Were you storing her half-naked pictures in your phone? Was she giving you more meat (this bit was funny ) than her husband/fiancé? And were you constantly having video chats with her and thus annoying the man?

Let me stop at these. If your answer is no, then you have got no right doing all that “ thinking this might be the case here or otherwise”.
Your post is clearly not aligned with the OP.
Now wondering why you made it?

Johntemmy:
I am married for over 5yrs now, I love my wife so much and my family. But I don't know what is going on btw my wife and my kid brother(close relative but not sibling), it all started 2016, my brother school in the same State and town am living, he always come around for weekend at my place, and I noticed they get close, I was happy about it.
When i got transferred to work in another State, I started coming home on weekends too, until my wife got sick and I asked my brother to go there and stay with her because he's also on holiday, I think that was how they got so intimate I like the way they play and gist a lot, I was transferred back 2017. but what giving me concern about this' is, whenever he's not around they always talk on phone, video chat, sometimes send pictures to each other, my wife will sometimes block me from viewing her WhatsApp status when she put him there, because I had complained ones about why she used so much romantic words for him. She will always excuse to go and talk to him, when I ask why? she'll say private discussion, I really don't feel comfortable but I think I shouldn't jump into conclusion.
I'm not a heavy eater but my brother is, my wife always give him larger portion, I don't mind but when it's meat, my wife gives him the best meat in the soup, bcoz we always eat together on the same dinning table, I feel uncomfortable & disrespected with this, but I didn't talk, but recently I was checking through my brother phone and saw one of his pics that he took 2018 and unknowingly and unware my wife was sitting down behind him, exposing her breast because of the ordinary singlet she was wearing because she's inside the house but my brother kept this picture since then, I ask him why didn't he delete it, he said "i like it, I don't feel convenient with how my wife shows on it, I ask why he couldn't crop her out of the pics, he keeps giving excuses so i deleted it, and he was mad at me. But this had been a point of concern for me, I don't know what to think and how to handle this....
Please mature minds only! Thanks.
from LIFE MATTERS NIGERIA.

Johntemmy:
I am married for over 5yrs now, I love my wife so much and my family. But I don't know what is going on btw my wife and my kid brother(close relative but not sibling), it all started 2016, my brother school in the same State and town am living, he always come around for weekend at my place, and I noticed they get close, I was happy about it.
When i got transferred to work in another State, I started coming home on weekends too, until my wife got sick and I asked my brother to go there and stay with her because he's also on holiday, I think that was how they got so intimate I like the way they play and gist a lot, I was transferred back 2017. but what giving me concern about this' is, whenever he's not around they always talk on phone, video chat, sometimes send pictures to each other, my wife will sometimes block me from viewing her WhatsApp status when she put him there, because I had complained ones about why she used so much romantic words for him. She will always excuse to go and talk to him, when I ask why? she'll say private discussion, I really don't feel comfortable but I think I shouldn't jump into conclusion.
I'm not a heavy eater but my brother is, my wife always give him larger portion, I don't mind but when it's meat, my wife gives him the best meat in the soup, bcoz we always eat together on the same dinning table, I feel uncomfortable & disrespected with this, but I didn't talk, but recently I was checking through my brother phone and saw one of his pics that he took 2018 and unknowingly and unware my wife was sitting down behind him, exposing her breast because of the ordinary singlet she was wearing because she's inside the house but my brother kept this picture since then, I ask him why didn't he delete it, he said "i like it, I don't feel convenient with how my wife shows on it, I ask why he couldn't crop her out of the pics, he keeps giving excuses so i deleted it, and he was mad at me. But this had been a point of concern for me, I don't know what to think and how to handle this....
Please mature minds only! Thanks.
from LIFE MATTERS NIGERIA.

Johntemmy:
I am married for over 5yrs now, I love my wife so much and my family. But I don't know what is going on btw my wife and my kid brother(close relative but not sibling), it all started 2016, my brother school in the same State and town am living, he always come around for weekend at my place, and I noticed they get close, I was happy about it.
When i got transferred to work in another State, I started coming home on weekends too, until my wife got sick and I asked my brother to go there and stay with her because he's also on holiday, I think that was how they got so intimate I like the way they play and gist a lot, I was transferred back 2017. but what giving me concern about this' is, whenever he's not around they always talk on phone, video chat, sometimes send pictures to each other, my wife will sometimes block me from viewing her WhatsApp status when she put him there, because I had complained ones about why she used so much romantic words for him. She will always excuse to go and talk to him, when I ask why? she'll say private discussion, I really don't feel comfortable but I think I shouldn't jump into conclusion.
I'm not a heavy eater but my brother is, my wife always give him larger portion, I don't mind but when it's meat, my wife gives him the best meat in the soup, bcoz we always eat together on the same dinning table, I feel uncomfortable & disrespected with this, but I didn't talk, but recently I was checking through my brother phone and saw one of his pics that he took 2018 and unknowingly and unware my wife was sitting down behind him, exposing her breast because of the ordinary singlet she was wearing because she's inside the house but my brother kept this picture since then, I ask him why didn't he delete it, he said "i like it, I don't feel convenient with how my wife shows on it, I ask why he couldn't crop her out of the pics, he keeps giving excuses so i deleted it, and he was mad at me. But this had been a point of concern for me, I don't know what to think and how to handle this....
Please mature minds only! Thanks.
from LIFE MATTERS NIGERIA.

Johntemmy:
I am married for over 5yrs now, I love my wife so much and my family. But I don't know what is going on btw my wife and my kid brother(close relative but not sibling), it all started 2016, my brother school in the same State and town am living, he always come around for weekend at my place, and I noticed they get close, I was happy about it.
When i got transferred to work in another State, I started coming home on weekends too, until my wife got sick and I asked my brother to go there and stay with her because he's also on holiday, I think that was how they got so intimate I like the way they play and gist a lot, I was transferred back 2017. but what giving me concern about this' is, whenever he's not around they always talk on phone, video chat, sometimes send pictures to each other, my wife will sometimes block me from viewing her WhatsApp status when she put him there, because I had complained ones about why she used so much romantic words for him. She will always excuse to go and talk to him, when I ask why? she'll say private discussion, I really don't feel comfortable but I think I shouldn't jump into conclusion.
I'm not a heavy eater but my brother is, my wife always give him larger portion, I don't mind but when it's meat, my wife gives him the best meat in the soup, bcoz we always eat together on the same dinning table, I feel uncomfortable & disrespected with this, but I didn't talk, but recently I was checking through my brother phone and saw one of his pics that he took 2018 and unknowingly and unware my wife was sitting down behind him, exposing her breast because of the ordinary singlet she was wearing because she's inside the house but my brother kept this picture since then, I ask him why didn't he delete it, he said "i like it, I don't feel convenient with how my wife shows on it, I ask why he couldn't crop her out of the pics, he keeps giving excuses so i deleted it, and he was mad at me. But this had been a point of concern for me, I don't know what to think and how to handle this....
Please mature minds only! Thanks.
from LIFE MATTERS NIGERIA.

Nostradamus1:
;Dask iamj .he is nacking someone wife so he knows the characteristics of a cheating wife ;Dask iamj .he is nacking someone wife so he knows the characteristics of a cheating wife

Bruno3000:
something is telling me the woman initiated d move. The guy follow useless sha. In any infidelity case, always hold ur woman responsible. No man, no matter hw randy would dare near a faithful, virtuous woman. Trust me.

deltateam:


Do you have children? Cos I hate nonsense.

For starters ban him from coming to your wife and be very stern with your wife. Let her know her boundaries or get butted out.

I hate nonsense.

If you want evidence, act unbothered. Get a tech expert to installe undetectable cctv .

Tell her you are travelling for 3 days, your bedroom, his bedroom and parlour are suspects.

But could this be real?

Please mature minds only! Thanks.

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Bruno3000:
they fcking each other guy... fear women una no wan hear word