Good morning great Nlanders, please is this normal or l need to seek for medical attention...
There is this lady v bn dating for 8years now, yeaa 8 years, we both meet in the University, l was in 300l while she was in 200l, she is a well cultured lady and set a boundary of no sex relationship till wedding, l agreed wt her and we moved on wt the relationship, even after graduation and NYSC, we never broke the vow, l went for my MSC and we still maintained our stand, now b4 the lockdown we did our introduction, thou she use to visit me from time to time, and even anytime she is around, l dnt get moved .not to long ago she spent 2 days with me, we slept on the same bed, and was still not moved, please is anything wrong with me or is it because m not use to sex...m in my 30s and dnt v any disease.

8 years, no sex?
Hmmmm. There maybe nothing wrong with you, but your relationship with the girl needs a reality check.
8 years?, where is she getting it from, or is she also a "virgin" or na celibacy?

But wait, don't you get aroused or is there something I'm not understanding here.