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Be calm give him little time or better still tell him about it so if it goes on and on like this then back off

Sleepaway:
Hi nairalanders
I'm not really new here, I deactivated my other account so this is a new one. That's probably not important but I'm really confused right now.
I met this guy after 2yrs ago, he was all cool, the extremely social type, his friends started talking to me about him and all, long story short we started dating. A few months in, he basically just stopped trying, no calls or any form of want to see me and even when I try to reach out he doesn't pick up. I even started doing mathematics in order to calculate the percentage of him picking up. Note we are in a distant relationship. Normally you'd expect your partner to ask for your sexy pictures you know, all those mushy moments. We became like strangers. Mostly "hey" "how are you" "hope you're good?" "Okay cool have a blessed day" kind of convo. Yes yes I knew it was over at that point so I let him know that it might just not be the right time for all of this. But no he won't have it. He keeps saying "he still loves me and there's no other girl". The thing is I'm not the loved up kind of girl so I'd rather be alone than be treated like an afterthought. I don't want to break up with him cause I made a promise on our first date. So it has to be him. What do I do? Do I call it off and forget the promise? Or just continue the normal convo and see where it leads?��

Very interesting
you're utterly confused
you like him and you've loved up.. period

May your confusing be over as soon as the lockdown is over

bless up

He’s fvcking a sweater pvssy. since it’s a long distance relationship, he’s been occupied by another lady hence you become side chick. And he’s obviously no more interested in you. The “I love you only” he said was just to keep you there. Future pvssy things. Trust me.

Thanks I'll consider it
I just hope we don't argue after that cause I might loose it tbh

ZINIBANKS:
Be calm give him little time or better still tell him about it so if it goes on and on like this then back off

Lol Amen. I truly can't wait for freedom to freelance

RiskyJoint95:



Very interesting
you're utterly confused
you like him and you've loved up.. period

May your confusing be over as soon as the lockdown is over

bless up

.

jawalis:
He’s fvcking a sweater pvssy. since it’s a long distance relationship, he’s been occupied by another lady hence you become side chick. And he’s obviously no more interested in you. The “I love you only” he said was just to keep you there. Future pvssy things. Trust me.

Sleepaway:
Ouch
You might be right tho I've thought of that but aren't we all future pvssies

Modify that sweater pvssy tho
no pvssy sweater than mine baby if he's fvcking another then it's just another pvssy this pvssy here is a spec

Did I just read those lines? Damn. You mean no pvssy can successfully compete yours?

That's the thing it's not a competition it's a fact. Anyways i spoke to him he's agreed that he's been messing up and apologized I think we'll be alright from here

jawalis:

Did I just read those lines? Damn. You mean no pvssy can successfully compete yours?

Thanks guys

Sleepaway:
That's the thing it's not a competition it's a fact. Anyways i spoke to him he's agreed that he's been messing up and apologized I think we'll be alright from here

I wish you well

Sleepaway:
Lol Amen. I truly can't wait for freedom to freelance

Oya naa
make we gada freelance together
You will be getting free with me on the freelancing

Sleepaway:
Ouch
You might be right tho I've thought of that but aren't we all future pvssies

Modify that sweater pvssy tho
no pvssy sweater than mine baby if he's fvcking another then it's just another pvssy this pvssy here is a spec

i did not read that

Sometimes everything doesnt go as we want, earlier this year, i lost a girlfriend of four years, it was so heartbreaking but im getting over it, life continues

I don't mind o why shall I shy

RiskyJoint95:


Oya naa
make we gada freelance together
You will be getting free with me on the freelancing

dukeprince50:
i did not read that

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dukeprince50:
Sometimes everything doesnt go as we want, earlier this year, i lost a girlfriend of four years, it was so heartbreaking but im getting over it, life continues

Sleepaway:
I don't mind o why shall I shy

Oyaa let me have your whatsapp no Let's go there

Sleepaway:
I don't mind o why shall I shy

You still haven't answered me oo

RiskyJoint95:


You still haven't answered me oo

Lmao!!

This is the best treatment to give a girl you don't like.
Just ignore them until they understand they are no longer wanted, it shatters their girly ego, and makes them have low self esteem. They they pack and go

solonubinho:


Lmao!!

@sleepaway don run oo

Sleepaway:
Hi nairalanders
I'm not really new here, I deactivated my other account so this is a new one. That's probably not important but I'm really confused right now.
I met this guy after 2yrs ago, he was all cool, the extremely social type, his friends started talking to me about him and all, long story short we started dating. A few months in, he basically just stopped trying, no calls or any form of want to see me and even when I try to reach out he doesn't pick up. I even started doing mathematics in order to calculate the percentage of him picking up. Note we are in a distant relationship. Normally you'd expect your partner to ask for your sexy pictures you know, all those mushy moments. We became like strangers. Mostly "hey" "how are you" "hope you're good?" "Okay cool have a blessed day" kind of convo. Yes yes I knew it was over at that point so I let him know that it might just not be the right time for all of this. But no he won't have it. He keeps saying "he still loves me and there's no other girl". The thing is I'm not the loved up kind of girl so I'd rather be alone than be treated like an afterthought. I don't want to break up with him cause I made a promise on our first date. So it has to be him. What do I do? Do I call it off and forget the promise? Or just continue the normal convo and see where it leads?��

Well sorry, but not all relationships can survive the "long distance" test, even worse if it's over longer periods...
Video calls, phone calls and pictures CAN'T take the place of physical contact and doing fun shii together...

This might not be your problem sha and certainly doesn't apply to all relationships...
Just a perception of why the fire is dying

Sleepaway:
Hi nairalanders
I'm not really new here, I deactivated my other account so this is a new one. That's probably not important but I'm really confused right now.
I met this guy after 2yrs ago, he was all cool, the extremely social type, his friends started talking to me about him and all, long story short we started dating. A few months in, he basically just stopped trying, no calls or any form of want to see me and even when I try to reach out he doesn't pick up. I even started doing mathematics in order to calculate the percentage of him picking up. Note we are in a distant relationship. Normally you'd expect your partner to ask for your sexy pictures you know, all those mushy moments. We became like strangers. Mostly "hey" "how are you" "hope you're good?" "Okay cool have a blessed day" kind of convo. Yes yes I knew it was over at that point so I let him know that it might just not be the right time for all of this. But no he won't have it. He keeps saying "he still loves me and there's no other girl". The thing is I'm not the loved up kind of girl so I'd rather be alone than be treated like an afterthought. I don't want to break up with him cause I made a promise on our first date. So it has to be him. What do I do? Do I call it off and forget the promise? Or just continue the normal convo and see where it leads?��

your promises are just words you said out of love/excitement