He can go days without communicating in any means..does dat means he doesnt care

your relationship is dangling like a pendulum since 2019. are you sure he is not seeing someone else again ?

my guess is that he has other ladies to take care of, as before... you cant change a cheater OR make that man value you... because guess what?! if he did, he wouldnt cheat on you. you should have left this man back in 2019...

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew.
This kind talk early morning.

I haven't called my girl friend for two weeks now but I still love her

Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

Relax your mind

He still cares
Most Nigggars don't like calling
That doesn't mean he got no love for you

How often do you call him?

it depends..

Call him and ask He may not be the communicating type. Are you new to him?
Is that how he does before?

You guys to sit and talk. Period!

Public forum like this might not be of help at times in fixing stuffs like this as there are some things that are not clear to us... You perhaps held back.

Jamesbiodun:
your relationship is dangling like a pendulum since 2019. are you sure he is not seeing someone else again ?

Welcome back from the commercial break. I have gone through her/his profile to check. You are right. It's more than a year now.

Even in a minute my boyfriend did not call me i dey vex talk of a day shuuuu,,,,my dear run from dat guy he have anoda girll around him

...and if he calls everyday you will take him for granted..

vanida6:
Even in a minute my boyfriend did not call me i dey vex talk of a day shuuuu,,,,my dear run from dat guy he have anoda girll around him

exactly what I passing through,over 3 weeks we can stay without talking.

Spending 5h to be calling a girl everyday.
500x30= 15,000.

What will I benefit if I keep spending 15k on top calls? Last last we fit even still break up

If e no call you, you call am, or make una chat.

Aimerosa25:
exactly what I passing through,over 3 weeks we can stay without talking.

So why don't you call instead

Zimri:


Welcome back from the commercial break. I have gone through her/his profile to check. You are right. It's more than a year now.

lol

Wetin be love nah?

abeg, make I dey chop my sweetbuns dey go jare...

AarewaMafia:


So why don't you call instead

I do call and at times he doesn't pick, this has been on since July last year

Thank God for BAE, she knows that we can live without calling each other.

Blacky001:
He can go days without communicating in any means..does dat means he doesnt care

It doesn't mean he doesn't care. Sometimes our brain dey carry over load and our minds are too full.. why not reach out instead of being negative

The same reason I broke up with my ex. I try to call her once a day despite my busy schedules and occasional lack of airtime. Girl, told me that she deserves that I spend at least 2hrs everyday on call with her.

Mind you, she calls maybe once in a week. Tried to make her understand that men got a lot to occupy themselves with. Especially money making ventures. Of course she wasn't having any of it. The nagging about calls bored me to a stage I couldn't have any of it.

I asked her to go meet the guy that will be calling her 2hrs a day. I ain't got time for student's kind of love

Honestly... It doesn't depend......

If he cares, he must find himself calling

Blacky001:
He can go days without communicating in any means..does dat means he doesnt care

Men (and women alike) have different love languages. Some men are very expressive of their love (gifts, calls, flowers...) while others are a bit more reserved and less vocal about it. You need to figure out if his inability to call is due to the aforementioned factor or not, then you act.

Firstorderwizard:
I haven't called my girl friend for two weeks now but I still love her

Exactly my point. She needs to settle down and get to understand his love language.

Hmph, kama pade mo!
Been with someone like this and it wasn't funny.

vanida6:
Even in a minute my boyfriend did not call me i dey vex talk of a day shuuuu,,,,my dear run from dat guy he have anoda girll around him

not really thou,most of us guys are not the talking on phone type and that doesn't mean we are cheating & stuff,sometimes we think & think more than we do and still forget little serious stuffs like this(i can only speak for my self thou and in my case if you call me,i'll never ditch your call unless its necessary but I'LL KILL THAT YOUR NAGING WITH TEXTS) *NICE EYEBROW*

Juliearth:






Men (and women alike) have different love languages. Some men are very expressive of their love (gifts, calls, flowers...) while others are a bit more reserved and less vocal about it. You need to figure out if his inability to call is due to the aforementioned factor or not, then you act.

LOL flowers? In nigeria ? Artificial flower you mean? But i'll really love to try those things but this is nigeria and its costy shipping in stuffs like that

JOACHINpedro:
Thank God for BAE, she knows that we can live without calling each other.

TILL YOU HEAR SHE'S GETTING MARRIED