Hellp everyone.I am white woman and my husband is Nigerian.We are married for 2 years now and he doesnt work.We are in my country.He is footbal player.I am the one that pays rent bills food and anything he needs.Is not hard for me to do that but sometimes i feel that he likes it that way and that he doesnt want make any effprt for him to do something.I feel tired and i feel as man in this marriage.I am alsp pregnant and few days ago he told me that i need to do 2 jobs that it would be better for us!!!I was shocked and angry!So while i am pregnant i should be doing 2 jobs and payinf rent bils food??The worst is that when he is anoyed or stressed i am thr one he wil insult and shout..I am so tired of everything and dont know what to do ((( He doesnt apreciate me and never said even thank you..He always tells me how i didnt do alot for him..and i did!!!also he always makes me.feel.insecure like i domt worth nothing and i am coping with things that almost no woman be it black or white would.cope with!!As we all know no womam want.to.babysit a jobles man without any money at all...so lets be realistic

TROLL.

Which kyn white woman de type dis thing, i for dn run mad while reading it.

Are you from India?

Juz deport his azz.. No woman deserves such horrible treatment from her partner/ husband...

If he's ungrateful after what u have done for him, then don't punish urself by sacrificing everything juz to please his azz.

donstan18:
Which kyn white woman de type dis thing, i for dn run mad while reading it.


Are you from India?

hahhhahaha nooooo.i am from East Europe.What is wrong with my writing?

Europija:
hahhhahaha nooooo.i am from East Europe.What is wrong with my writing?

Lol, just kidding, nothing wrong

Very very cool and awesome writing

I love it, it's nice.

Does he have papers? Sounds like he is using you. Has he been back to Nigeria since the marriage?

Europija:
Hellp everyone.I am white woman and my husband is Nigerian.We are married for 2 years now and he doesnt work.We are in my country.He is footbal player.I am the one that pays rent bills food and anything he needs.Is not hard for me to do that but sometimes i feel that he likes it that way and that he doesnt want make any effprt for him to do something.I feel tired and i feel as man in this marriage.I am alsp pregnant and few days ago he told me that i need to do 2 jobs that it would be better for us!!!I was shocked and angry!So while i am pregnant i should be doing 2 jobs and payinf rent bils food??The worst is that when he is anoyed or stressed i am thr one he wil insult and shout..I am so tired of everything and dont know what to do ((( He doesnt apreciate me and never said even thank you..He always tells me how i didnt do alot for him..and i did!!!also he always makes me.feel.insecure like i domt worth nothing and i am coping with things that almost no woman be it black or white would.cope with!!As we all know no womam want.to.babysit a jobles man without any money at all...so lets be realistic

he is playing for which club? I think I know him

Lewaluv:
Does he have papers? Sounds like he is using you. Has he been back to Nigeria since the marriage?

dem ask you amebo

Pubichairs:
he is playing for which club? I think I know him

in Russia

All these our girls wey dey reply for up so! Make una no fall the bro handi bikonu!

Madam, are they paying him yet or he's attending trials? If he has been signed and paid and even receives match allowance, then I guess there's something wrong. Sit him down and talk some sense into him. Our men are not like that. We value our wives, children and family. There must be something wrong somewhere.

If he's still attending trials, please be patient with him. Things will get better, I assure you

I am short of words....Hmmmmm(sigh) First, I'd love to hear his version to be on the side of fairness but if I may say based on your perspective, he is only taking advantage of you because Naija men (Nigerian men) are not lazy especially outside Nigeria.
Second, have you tried to know his emotional state and try to see how to help him?because he sounds a little depressed. If football is not paying, advise him to look for something else.
If you have tried, you still need to talk to him and make him understand his role as a man and a father thereafter, threaten to leave him.
Lastly, if he does not change, kick him out (for a while) to bring out the Nigerian man in him.
My small advice oooo.

Europija:
in Russia

is he tall and dark? if yes..it could be him

Pubichairs:
is he tall and dark? if yes..it could be him

tel me name?

Europija:
tel me name?

can't call his name here for some reasons..

Europija:
tel me name?

can't call his name here for some reasons

Pubichairs:
can't call his name here for some reasons..

but that guy stays in Russia?

Europija:
but that guy stays in Russia?

it should be a private discussion don't u think?

Pubichairs:
it should be a private discussion don't u think?

send me mesage on my email

Europija:
send me mesage on my email

done..check your mail

Ur useless mum is amebo

free2ryhme:


dem ask you amebo

I disagree, what is private in public domain. Abi you wan yahoo the person wife :olol. I pray your intentions are genuine

Pubichairs:
it should be a private discussion don't u think?

LLSAINT:
I disagree, what is private in public domain. Abi you wan yahoo the person wife :olol. I pray your intentions are genuine

LLSAINT:
I disagree, what is private in public domain. Abi you wan yahoo the person wife :olol. I pray your intentions are genuine

Lewaluv:
Ur useless mum is amebo

so this is how your brother address your mom abi

your mum born pickin

If he doesn't do nothing. It means he does something

donstan18:


Lol, just kidding, nothing wrong

Very very cool and awesome writing

I love it, it's nice.

Pubichairs:
he is playing for which club? I think I know him

Pubichairs:
can't call his name here for some reasons

Pubichairs:
is he tall and dark? if yes..it could be him

Pubichairs:
can't call his name here for some reasons

Pubichairs:
it should be a private discussion don't u think?

Who da fück is this pervert ?
Op, no hard feelings but you're dumb and that's why your man treats you like cow dung!!
You really need to wise up.. Who falls for these cheap prank these days?
How can you want to go private with someone because he claims to know your husband without pictures??

And you Mr poster, stop fooling around.. She's a depressed wife and don't need stüpid men like you worsening her situation

Pubichairs:
it should be a private discussion don't u think?

@OP, please be very very carefully with this man...don't say you were not warned. His intention is not pure...or you want to go from frying pan to fire?

hibiscus76:




Who da fück is this pervert ?
Op, no hard feelings but you're dumb and that's why your man treats you like cow dung!!
You really need to wise up.. Who falls for these cheap prank these days?
How can you want to go private with someone because he claims to know your husband without pictures??

And you Mr poster, stop fooling around.. She's a depressed wife and don't need stüpid men like you worsening her situation

your level of foolishness is quite pathetic why did u think I wanna scam her

Tell him what you've told us. He might step up or step out.

JULIE1925:



Juz deport his azz.. No woman deserves such horrible treatment from her partner/ husband...

If he's ungrateful after what u have done for him, then don't punish urself by sacrificing everything juz to please his azz.

You have sense.

Pubichairs:
your level of foolishness is quite pathetic why did u think I wanna scam her

coming from someone that derives joy in the gullibility of naive women...REPENT