Have u ever been in a situation where u met somebody and u fall in love with that person. However, the person wants u both to establish friendship before relationship. You agreed, the person still meets and hook up with other guys during that period. She tells her ex that u both are just friends and nothing much. The ex claims he still love her. The ex does not have something doing at hand. You have been sacrificing for her because u love her and this is the first time you will be going into something like that. She tells her friend she loves her ex very well and you both are just more like friends. You put in all your effort and resource into the whole stuff to make it work but you keep doubting if the love is real. Moreover, u guys barely even get intimate sexually.

After 10 months, she agreed to become committed and u begin to see the seriousness. After few weeks she starts acting somehow, you confronted her and she claims she is jealous of her ex being with another person. But she still claim to care about you.

What kind of stuff is that?

Please I need inputs to form an opinion and don't mind my wordings.......

this shouldnt even be a matter to talk about... oga are the signs not too glaring for you to see it cannot work. Save your time, money and other resources for a better person. She is using you as a fall back

when the interests are mutual and stand to last forever

johnykgoal:
when the interests are mutual and stand to last forever

But she being jealous that her ex is meeting another person, is that a normal thing for those who have been in love before with an ex? Just confused

honourable1769:
this shouldnt even be a matter to talk about... oga are the signs not too glaring for you to see it cannot work. Save your time, money and other resources for a better person. She is using you as a fall back

I was trying not to give an evidence of doubt hence the reason why I still maintain my cool to see if it will work out. Thanks