Haven't told this to anyone before [but on a second thought, its a bloody forum so to hell with it!]
In As much as  would have loved Signing up a new account, or saying My friend
said this and that, or even saying I culled it from somewhere in order to post this here - I've decided not to. 

Pardon the long post - I've got itchy fingers.
The story goes this way;
Back in High School, there was this Yoruba girl I liked - alot. She was skinny, dark and thick and
with a nice chiseled jaw - Ma picture perfect kinda woman. We met and fell inlove.
She wasn't my type per se [in terms of standards]. I was reluctant in approaching her cos I felt she was local and kinda un-educated [no offence to my lovely Youruba Ladies in the house] and was scared of what schoolmates would say. I eventually fashed her.

Months later, I broke up wif my Hausa gf and then decided to go and see her - I need a listening ear.
On geting to the address, it was a ghetto - local boys staring at me and all, I stepped into the door leading
to the compound - it was a face me I face you, gave #20 box and a note to lil'boy to go in and get her for me.

Well I think I've typed  enough - To cut the whole story short, After pouring out my heart to her I told her how I felt towards her and she agreed to be become my  woman.
I loved this gurl like a Madman - presents, recharge cards, money, pads - just name it. She wasn't a golddigger mind you.
I was the one doing all the phone calls and visitation cos she never did!
Each time i said "I love you", All I got was "Are you sure??". 

I got angry one day and stormed her neighbourhood, I spit'd out all my stress and wanted out. All she could say was that She agreed to dating me simply outta pity and was scared of saying "No" cos she knew I would be angry. 

Years later, Those words still haunt me - So ladies in the house, are you fond of this act?
And What are your reasons for toiling wif a brothers feelings and emotions that way

Sidenote: This is the first and last time I'll be asking for any of your opinion partaining my personal life,
And I'm sure I've rendered good and importants solutions to your various problems in the Romance Section.
So I think I deserve an Immunity from your judgmental and criticizing comments. 

I will never date anyone out of pity. I just think it is very unfair to oneself, _{suffering and smiling}

It's not right to love/date someone outta pity. Just not right!

[size=5pt]BTW, Orton nwanne, so ilago onye Hausa, Yoruba . . . na Igbo? U be true and practical ''one Nigerian'' bros.[/size]

True^^^

I think she was very young and didn't know how to say NO

Since u said she was uneducated,me think she does nt kn d right english 2 use in tellin u she has decided 2 date u.

well i wouldnt know cos i have never toyed with a guy's emotion.

Annawhite stop liein jor. No b u first broked my heart?

Well I thought this thread was dead already?

Latty88:

Since u said she was uneducated,me think she does nt kn d right english 2 use in tellin u she has decided 2 date u.

Far fom that babe.
I meant un-educated in the academic way - the philosophies.
She was older than me and was far more experienced at that point in time.
Her words were loud and clear - no doubt!

andromida:

I think she was very young and didn't know how to say NO

Well Like I said pal, She was about a year older.
Most fin I learnt or got to know bout sex, she taught me

busygirl:

I will never date anyone out of pity. I just think it is very unfair to oneself, _{suffering and smiling}

Well good to know your stance on the issue - noted!

koolchicco:

It's not right to love/date someone outta pity. Just not right!

[size=5pt]BTW, Orton nwanne, so ilago onye Hausa, Yoruba . . . na Igbo? U be true and practical ''one Nigerian'' bros.[/size]

ROFL
O boy na you teach me O
But I don repent sha

Perhaps you were being used~
the sex, recharge cards, attention and maybe you ought to have seen it coming


sometimes we can't blame people for playing with our own emotions

bros i dey pitying u

Madukaele:

Annawhite stop liein jor. No b u first broked my heart?

sweery abeg no b me,4 wia i standa do dat one

^^^Honey mi
Forgive me pls, . . . .

out of pity, now that is a second.

adolfe bad:

Perhaps you were being used~
the sex, recharge cards, attention and maybe you ought to have seen it coming
sometimes we can't blame people for playing with our own emotions

So who is to be blamed then?
Cos that nasty incident really got to me. 
I always thought her not calling or showing concern were due to financial constraints 

M M M:

bros i dey pitying u

My brother na so I see am o - Dat gurl just use my head as sanitry pad.
Sometimes self I dey wonder whether na Jazz

annawhite:

well i wouldnt know cos i have never toyed with a guy's emotion.

hehehe, Yeah babe - I believe you

D-sense:

^^^Honey mi
Forgive me pls,  .  . . .

D'come - Gat the hell outta here now!!
Thought we had an understanding - to stay clear of eachother's businesses

MOBO999:

out of pity, now that is a second.

Bro, i don't get you,
BTW, whats the "first" 

I am also facing similar problem,I love my girlfriend so much,I buy everything she needs,we also have sex together, but she has never called me,visit me or have ever bought any thing for me,I am so tired of what I call relationship, God please Give me a good girlfriend that would love me and I would love her with all my heart