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Klass99:
I'm sorry to hear this, but I'm sending you good wishes.

If you had to do it all over again, will you marry or stay single?

Good to know you and the Litigator are in touch.

Thanks very much
Honestly, I don't know

PrimadonnaO:
Fell out of love . Alright.

I wish you all the best moving forward!

Thanks for your kind words, means a lot to me

PrimadonnaO:
Pardon my curiosity.

But please, why are y'all getting divorced after two years of marriage?

Sounds like a sad situation. What happened?

If someone had told me that our marriage will pack up after two years, I wouldn't have believed it.
Let just say life happened and we fell out of love

Klass99:
Baby, have you not contacted the Litigator yet?

Yes I have and we've been talking
Thanks for asking

Kobojunkie:
Seriously, do not end up another poor single/divorced mother on the streets of Nigeria, abeg!

I really appreciate your advise, thanks

Kobojunkie:
You should check it out for yourself to find out. Ask a lawyer or something.

You don't want to end up worse off than an abandoned wife if you have children, while he goes off spending the dividends of your married life on his own.

Ok thanks, I will.

ogawisdom:
It depends on the lawyer involved from 100k to 500k. Never the less u can pay stage by stage.

You have read his petition for divorce thoroughly, is there anything u want to contend? Are you okay with everything in there? If so then u may not need to spend bc the divorce will be granted in court with or without ur cross petition.

You only need to file a cross petition when u have some things to contend in his petition.

Is there any child?
Properties to share?
Etc

Yes there's a child
Only landed properties

And yes he lied in the paper that he's has been supporting me financially, so I want to contest it and make him start paying that.

Kobojunkie:
3- years of separation? Make sure to get your fair share from the marriage before you leave it at least. I recently read of the Married Women's Property Act of 1882 and I believe you too can benefit from it too.

Will it benefit me cos we were married for two years before the separation

sisisioge:
Dont over stress yourself maami.You dont have to spend a dim. Since he is the petitioner, he practically gets to spend all the money if you're not contesting anything.

If you guys dont have kids or properties to fight over, you dont even have to appear in court. Let him and his lawyer keep going. When they bring another letter try not to be the direct receiver. By the time him and his lawyer waka court wella, he will be begging you to attend once just to tell the judge that you weren't contesting anything as the Judge will keep adjourning. They actually hate dissolving marriages without ascertaining that it's broken beyond repair. Your 3 year separation will even fast track things.

If you still refuse to attend sef, it will get to a point when the court will grant his petitions and award him the dissolution.

All in all,if you join him to spend money and cooperate, you are looking at 6month to 1 year TAT. If you do not cooperate, 2 years will do it.

Meanwhile, what happened to love? I hope you guys dont have kids.

We have a child

ameristu:
If no sharing of property or spousal support or child support, let the case run its course and the marriage would be dissolved, you don't need to spend a dime since you not wanting anything from him.

Ok thanks very much

Klass99:
Where is the Litigator when you need him?



The user I mentioned is a lawyer with experience in marital causes/matters.

Hopefully, he may be able to answer your questions if he sees this.

But, if you have any classmates who are lawyers or know any within your network, you can start from there.

Thank you very much for your input.

Unfortunately, I don't know anyone.

Litigator please I will appreciate it if you can assist me on this.

ogawisdom:
U need to get a lawyer to file a cross petition. Just have enough money for the case

Do you know how much this might cost me co's I'm not financially bouyant

ameristu:
It depends on what you want to do, do you want to grant him a divorce or not, do you want to use the opportunity for the court to grant you some things.

What you want would determine your next line of action.

Thanks for responding
Yes I want the divorce too

My ex husband recently filed for divorce after 3years of separation.

The clerk brought the court summons to me yesterday and I'm absolutely clueless on what to do.

Please someone should put me through.

crazymommy:
See what Tribalism is doing to my father's brain...my finger nails are longer than my father's IQ

K

Yoruba women are too useless abeg
Three kids from three different fathers

Tueh

How dear you insult alfa mails.
Please ignore this beech.
Trp is golden

All i see are your tears

Since you refuse giving us details on how you were scammed, I'm suspecting you tried do same to someone else only that it backfired.

Nothing makes sense when we're smart' toor

Oya break kola and give elders snuff money


Congrats anyway!

No be pozehani aka ashirawealthy be this
Which day you turn to Mother Mary ??

Our people don't do classless bìtch
Sorry!

Na this una go take run una online country
Mtcheww

AngelicDamsel:
I decided to eat only natural food and fruits for three months and I tell you, brothers and sisters, Nature has the cure to every disease.

Many use seasoning cubes to cook everyday, but they don't know the danger of every processed edible.

Go natural and see your health improve on its own. You are what you eat, eat right.

And who told you the "fruits and food" are naturalI

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helinues:
Piking wey no sabi juju go surely call am vegetable

It's translated as herbs or medicine not juju

5k?
If you gree ill pay as soon as you want

AdeOri99:
Presser, i'm very good at pressing

Ok, I'll send you a mail

sissoko89:
Where in ikorodu

Radio Itamaga road

AdeOri99:
I am very much interested.

My gmail is adephilip1999 and phone number is 09.0.670.260.92

Which of them are you applying for?