When I was a teenager in the choir those days, I did develop crush on some fellow choir members, but that was all.

Yes, it's a normal thing to be attracted to someone in your choir, but discipline and fear of God should be paramount.

paxonel:
It is a normal occurence in all choir and there is nothing bad about it.
If the church are sincere enough to accept that there is nothing wrong about it that is when the choristers will be open about it, but so long the church keep being hypocritical saying it is bad then it will remain secret among the choristers

ARE YOU SERIOUS ABOUT THIS STATEMENT?THAT DATING IS A NORMAL OCCURENCE IN THE CHURCH AND THERE IS NOTHING BAD ABOUT IT,THAT THE CHURCH SHOULD ACCEPT IT SI THAT THE CHOIRISTERS SHOULD COME OUT OF THEIR HIDING,OGA GO AND CHECK THE MEANING OF DATING BEFORE YOU COME OUT OPENLY TO DISGRACE YOURSELF
LET ME ASK YOU ONE QUESTION THAT I WILL NEED AN HONEST ANSWER,IF YOU ARE SINGLE AND SEARCHING FOR A WIFE AND YOU FOUND A CHURCH GIRL THAT YOU WANT TO MARRY AND LATER DISCOVER THAT SHE IS SLEEPING WITH A GUY OR EVEN THE PASTOR,WILL YOU STILL GO AHEAD WITH THE MARRIAGE,BECAUSE THE DICTIONARY DEFINATION OF DATING SAYS "A FORM OF REGULAR ROMANTIC COURTSHIP BETWEEN TWO INDIVIDUALS" example, it was a couple of years before he even started dating again; another example says "meet with a lover or potential lover" so ANSWER FROM YOUR HEART.

akbonus:

DID YOU CHECK THE MEANING BEFORE COMMENTING OR YOU JUST A DUMB slowpoke TRYING TO DRAG GULLIBLE YOUNG CHRISTIANS TO YOUR SINFUL LIFE SO THAT THEY PERISH WITH YOU,BECAUSE I JUST CHECKED THE MEANING NOW

It's evident that you have mental issues.

Are you so illiterate that you do not know how to pass your ideas/differences across?

Do you pause to think before you talk or your mouth runs ahead of your brain �?

Please be careful and caution yourself when responding to anyone here.

akbonus:


ARE YOU SERIOUS ABOUT THIS STATEMENT?THAT DATING IS A NORMAL OCCURENCE IN THE CHURCH AND THERE IS NOTHING BAD ABOUT IT,THAT THE CHURCH SHOULD ACCEPT IT SI THAT THE CHOIRISTERS SHOULD COME OUT OF THEIR HIDING,OGA GO AND CHECK THE MEANING OF DATING BEFORE YOU COME OUT OPENLY TO DISGRACE YOURSELF
LET ME ASK YOU ONE QUESTION THAT I WILL NEED AN HONEST ANSWER,IF YOU ARE SINGLE AND SEARCHING FOR A WIFE AND YOU FOUND A CHURCH GIRL THAT YOU WANT TO MARRY AND LATER DISCOVER THAT SHE IS SLEEPING WITH A GUY OR EVEN THE PASTOR,WILL YOU STILL GO AHEAD WITH THE MARRIAGE,BECAUSE THE DICTIONARY DEFINATION OF DATING SAYS "A FORM OF REGULAR ROMANTIC COURTSHIP BETWEEN TWO INDIVIDUALS" example, it was a couple of years before he even started dating again; another example says "meet with a lover or potential lover" so ANSWER FROM YOUR HEART.

are you ok?

Smile... This one loud oooo

sonofthunder:




It's evident that you have mental issues.

Are you so illiterate that you do not know how to pass your ideas/differences across?

Do you pause to think before you talk or your mouth runs ahead of your brain �?

Please be careful and caution yourself when responding to anyone here.