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. by Olawrites: 8:08am On Jul 25, 2020
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Re: . by donstan18: 8:10am On Jul 25, 2020
Will you get out of here!!!

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Re: . by RichDad1(m): 8:13am On Jul 25, 2020
Na one of them misandrist masquerading as feminists. cheesy cheesy
You better carry your load and continue your journey because you never see wife. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: . by Ipromote: 8:17am On Jul 25, 2020
Capital Nonsense and small nonsense. What are her reasons?







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Re: . by Ahmed0336(m): 8:17am On Jul 25, 2020
People like me no send self... If you like use your great grand father name not my concern. But as for my kids, certainly they'd use my name.

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Re: . by Vyzz: 8:19am On Jul 25, 2020
Brother.....


Just go and look for a wife...

If u wan marry her sha... N ur cup of tea....



But ME.... I aint marrying anybody with that kinda mindset
Re: . by Rossonero: 8:22am On Jul 25, 2020
RichDad1:
Na one of them misandrist masquerading as feminists. cheesy cheesy
You better carry your load and continue your journey because you never see wife. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Naso jare. This one don dey mad. Your own wife is waiting for u, wish him all d best as he continues d search
Re: . by Ayemileto(m): 8:27am On Jul 25, 2020
Lol. Daughters of most rich, connected and popular men don't change their name to that of their husbands after marriage, while some opt for a compound surname like Ajimobi-Ganduje grin

Seems they always want to remain connected to that family name.

So, is the lady's father very rich? Is he very connected? Is he popular?

Your answer to these questions will help us determine the color of the flag you are seeing.

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Re: . by Nobody: 8:27am On Jul 25, 2020
Simps everywhere angry drink redpill,una go say no...dump that bitch mahn!!

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Re: . by ojun50(m): 8:29am On Jul 25, 2020
donstan18:
Will you get out of here!!!
Lolz you see the op for dream
Re: . by lilmax(m): 8:31am On Jul 25, 2020
It means she's not yours


So MOVE
Re: . by thesicilian: 8:31am On Jul 25, 2020
It's no big deal actually. It's just a name, and she may have her reasons. As long as you two can come to an understanding, and you're convinced she's not a feminist copycat (e.g. those that will not enter the kitchen, take care of children, wash clothes etc)
Re: . by AlphaStorm: 8:36am On Jul 25, 2020
Prepare for premium Tears
Re: . by Kriss216: 8:36am On Jul 25, 2020
So, no one here cares to ask, who's her father
Re: . by Kaolaniyi(m): 8:37am On Jul 25, 2020
She is not ready to be submissive to you
You better run as far as your leg can carry you free advise

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Re: . by PureGoldh(m): 8:45am On Jul 25, 2020
Bros.....Dem no dey telli person say khaki no be leather

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Re: . by Nobody: 8:49am On Jul 25, 2020
Olawrites:
I was having a discussion with this girl, she say she can't change her father's name to my own name as the husband.

And she expect me to pay dowry, bride price and spend on marriage ceremony.

Is this a red flag?

She is not ready. Look for someone else that will beg to have your last name attached to hers.

But it's no biggie if she doesn't want to use your last name, especially when she is a public figure. If she ain't; she should BOUNCE!
Re: . by Olawrites: 9:22am On Jul 25, 2020
Nawao grin na y I like Nairaland
Re: . by Olawrites: 9:24am On Jul 25, 2020
Kaolaniyi:
She is not ready to be submissive to you
You better run as far as your leg can carry you free advise

This is deep man
Re: . by tobechi20(m): 9:50am On Jul 25, 2020
if her surname is dangote, then you should change your surname for her own
Re: . by Nobody: 9:58am On Jul 25, 2020
donstan18:
Will you get out of here!!!
Who the guy or the girl angry
Re: . by Nobody: 9:59am On Jul 25, 2020
Olawrites:
I was having a discussion with this girl, she say she can't change her father's name to my own name as the husband.

And she expect me to pay dowry, bride price and spend on marriage ceremony.

Is this a red flag?

Better leave her Na her father she wan marry
Re: . by oluwatosin070: 10:26am On Jul 25, 2020
Olawrites:
I was having a discussion with this girl, she say she can't change her father's name to my own name as the husband.

And she expect me to pay dowry, bride price and spend on marriage ceremony.

Is this a red flag?



Super Red flag...

That's the problem we have when some so called motivator whose homes are broken comes to advice the females wrongly..

Run for your life.
After all, a broken courtship is better than a broken marriage

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Re: . by Ayoleeboy007: 10:50am On Jul 25, 2020
So if I cum marry Dj cuppy u expect me to tell her to change name? Even my children self go dey bear otedola my surname go b their middle name.

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Re: . by emienez(m): 11:39am On Jul 25, 2020
I dont knw y some people are so obsess with this change of name thing.
Condition can make her change husband bt never her father.
pls b civilised and stop acting as if the marriage is not complete witjout the change of name. stop puting women through unnecessary inconveniences.
Re: . by nerdfrost(m): 11:42am On Jul 25, 2020
Olawrites:
I was having a discussion with this girl, she say she can't change her father's name to my own name as the husband.

And she expect me to pay dowry, bride price and spend on marriage ceremony.

Is this a red flag?

Bro u pay bride price not dowry
Re: . by Daviestunech(m): 11:46am On Jul 25, 2020
Leave her nd go find another woman...bro life no hard now..


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Re: . by symplyrachel(f): 1:10pm On Jul 25, 2020
Is it even necessary


Stop making trivial things an issue in ur relationships

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Re: . by Olawrites: 2:15pm On Jul 25, 2020
emienez:
I dont knw y some people are so obsess with this change of name thing.
Condition can make her change husband bt never her father.
pls b civilised and stop acting as if the marriage is not complete witjout the change of name. stop puting women through unnecessary inconveniences.

I reason with you on this. Thanks for the mature advice.

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