So I have been staying with my married elder brother recently, I have noticed his wife doesn't wash his clothes she only washes her clothes and the kids own and manage to wash his boxers.

My brother washes his clothes by himself and she will be gisting with him.

I think it is disrespectful for a woman to watch her husband washing clothes himself and offers no helping hand.

What is so disrespectful about a man washing his own clothes that he would wear on his own body?
You better do fast and leave that house before looking for someone's marriage to destroy.

Samuelde:
So I have been staying with my married elder brother recently, I have noticed his wife doesn't wash his clothes she only washes her clothes and the kids own and manage to wash his boxers. My brother washes his clothes by himself and she will be gisting with him , I think it is disrespectful for a woman to watch her husband washing clothes himself and offers no helping hand.

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Wetin concern you for their matter,abi you Bro complained to you,you better vamose from that house .
It seems you are from the village,Incase you don't know 80℅ of working class ladies don't wash their husband's cloth except on 2/15 of the times when she just feel like,she'll cook,take care of the kids,bath them,waah their clothes,take them to school,feed them ,change daiper etc

The remaining 20℅ are either full house wives or the ones with shops very close to the House.
If you can ask your brother for cash,you can as well help him wash his dirty clothes instead of letting the village people use you as "yahoo messenger Iranshemi"

I personally wash my own cloths as a rule, cos i believe no one can do it better and i feel more comfortable wearing them knowing how clean they are. If ur brother have no problem washing his own cloths, i wonder why u should? This is why i dont entertain adult relations staying in my house. Goan marry ur own wife n leave them alone.

Op you are wrong..... I will advise you to out stay out of there business

If this is ur own problem this 2020, you are finished. If by now how to gain independence and fully become a man is not ur priority then you've missed it.
Dey there dey look wetin no concern you. And if you feel too pained about it ask your brother to give the clothes to you to wash.

No go dey reason am say u wan go tell them for una family house. Reason many couples don't want inlaws that poke their noses in their affairs around. Marriage itself is stressful, don't add ur own archaic mentality.

Samuelde:
So I have been staying with my married elder brother recently, I have noticed his wife doesn't wash his clothes she only washes her clothes and the kids own and manage to wash his boxers. My brother washes his clothes by himself and she will be gisting with him , I think it is disrespectful for a woman to watch her husband washing clothes himself and offers no helping hand.

Did ur brother complain to u ? .... Dat is there own way of life ... Go and marry bro.. No fall my hand o

Samuelde:
So I have been staying with my married elder brother recently, I have noticed his wife doesn't wash his clothes she only washes her clothes and the kids own and manage to wash his boxers. My brother washes his clothes by himself and she will be gisting with him , I think it is disrespectful for a woman to watch her husband washing clothes himself and offers no helping hand.

Squatter mind your business. Your brother isn't complaining.

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No be all men like make dem dey help him wash cloth.
I think you should pray for your brother so he can buy him wife washing machine.

Ur broda go n married afonjresss
Wat do u expect

Samuelde:
So I have been staying with my married elder brother recently, I have noticed his wife doesn't wash his clothes she only washes her clothes and the kids own and manage to wash his boxers. My brother washes his clothes by himself and she will be gisting with him , I think it is disrespectful for a woman to watch her husband washing clothes himself and offers no helping hand.

Why not just appreciate their style or over look them

You can do otherwise when you get married

There is nothing disrespectful about it

It's time we leave couples to live their lives the way it pleases them

chivera018:
What is so disrespectful about a man washing his own clothes that he would wear on his own body?
You better do fast and leave that house before looking for someone's marriage to destroy.

Exactly, his time will soon be over there

Op stop reasoning like your aged parent, this is 21st century not 1890s. Abeg free those loving couple o, biko let them be. PS: Either you face what brought you there or better you take your leave to your father's house.

Mtchew! The op is just a fool. Of all things to worry about, he is worried about his brother's wife not washing clothes for him when his brother is not complaining. O.p you need to occupy yourself with better things.

Samuelde:
So I have been staying with my married elder brother recently, I have noticed his wife doesn't wash his clothes she only washes her clothes and the kids own and manage to wash his boxers. My brother washes his clothes by himself and she will be gisting with him , I think it is disrespectful for a woman to watch her husband washing clothes himself and offers no helping hand.

Please stop living in the stone age. You expect the woman to wash her clothes and wash the one of her 3 to 5 kids and still wash her husband's own.

Is she a slave? Can you wish such on your sister.

You should be worried about your life that at the age you are , you are living under your brother and his wife inconveniencing them with your homelessness.

Go get your own house oga trouble maker before you can nosedive into what doesn’t concerns you.

Can you imagine ? That’s how they cause division in the marriage with things that are not even worth stressing on. You think it’s easy to wash clothes ? The wife washes hers and the children clothes , is that not enough work?

Homeless man !!! Don’t go and look for work to do to better your life . Be there looking for trouble in a peaceful home .

GraGra247:


Please stop living in the stone age. You expect the woman to wash her clothes and wash the one of her 3 to 5 kids and still wash her husband's own.

Is she a slave? Can you wish such on your sister.

Don’t mind the homeless man. He should be kicked out of the house cos he brings nothing but trouble by the look of it .

If she begins troubling your brother to kick you out of her home, you will open a thread to say that your brother's wife is wicked. You are supposed to know that it's not your home, and mind your business.

Samuelde:
So I have been staying with my married elder brother recently, I have noticed his wife doesn't wash his clothes she only washes her clothes and the kids own and manage to wash his boxers. My brother washes his clothes by himself and she will be gisting with him , I think it is disrespectful for a woman to watch her husband washing clothes himself and offers no helping hand.

Go and get your own house !!! Trouble maker !! Be worried by the fact that you’re homeless!

Another fake story created to instigate gender war on this dwindling site

I guess washing machines don't exist anymore.

....Op. There's nothing wrong with your brother washing his cloths himself.

I do my laundries too

Samuelde:
So I have been staying with my married elder brother recently, I have noticed his wife doesn't wash his clothes she only washes her clothes and the kids own and manage to wash his boxers. My brother washes his clothes by himself and she will be gisting with him , I think it is disrespectful for a woman to watch her husband washing clothes himself and offers no helping hand.

Learn to leave your brother's wife alone. Her husband and your brother is not complaining, so why should you?

Leave their home, settle down and get married.

LilMissFavvy:
If she begins troubling your brother to kick you out of her home, you will open a thread to say that your brother's wife is wicked. You are supposed to know that it's not your home, and mind your business.

What is so difficult in adding her husband's clothes when she is washing her own ?

See brother visitor! You mean you disagree with how husband and wife have decided to run their home ba? She washes hers, the kids and his boxes but that does not sit down well with by u. Biko buy a washing machine for them...issue resolved

Ginaz:


Go and get your own house !!! Trouble maker !! Be worried by the fact that you’re homeless!

Come and pursue me from the house, dummy!

What is so difficult in her husband buying a washing machine for the house, or what is so difficult in husband washing his clothes? If you feel it's a wife who should do all the washing, keep such views and practice it in your marriage.

Samuelde:
What is so difficult in adding her husband's clothes when she is washing her own ?

genq:
Another fake story created to instigate gender war on this dwindling site

I guess washing machines don't exist anymore.

Some people have already fell for the bait.

Sound fake but if true, redirect your energy into earning income that would make change your status as a squatter. Your type will be updating your parents and other relatives on per second basis on how your brother and his wife are living their lives.

OP don buy market