nnadychuks:
Ladies and gentlemen, I’m not happy at all...
I’m a young guy, in my early twenties, hoping to find love or maybe a girlfriend, but I feel like it’s not happening soon.
I’ve had two girlfriends in the past, but that’s before I entered the working class. I love my job, it pays me well and I don’t see myself quitting now, especially not with the current situation at hand. My previous relationship didn’t last for a month (quite embarrassing to say), but that’s not because I’m not affectionate, but I didn’t have time for her during weekdays and most times after work, I’m stressed out and I even forget to call her.
I understand the importance of making legit money at an early age but it seems like she didn’t care much about money at that point.
Over a year now I’ve not kissed a girl, meaning I’ve not gotten a reason to fall in love or quit my job. I’m a diligent guy with a self esteem (in a scale of 10) of 4 which means I’ve got small friends circle.
If I could remember my first girlfriend in sec. school (shush we didn’t have sex ); she was the one who motivated me to read harder because I didn’t want to look like a failure. I guess that’s the kind of woman I need in my life, considering my loyalty to one woman.

Thanks For reading this far...
For those who manage to mix work and love, how did you do it. Put yourself in my shoes, with my self esteem and my small crew how do you imply I get my girl soon? Cos I need woman oh!

Ningen:
Just want to let you know that you're doing well.

MrBrownJay1:


if you have no free time to socialize and/or meet someone, then you have to MAKE TIME to socialize and/or meet someone to share life with...there are no two ways about it. as for the above in bold you wrote, i hope you were joking (or its a typo) when you wrote that you would quit your job for love.

nnadychuks:
I’m not quitting my job For any woman, but sometimes I envy those who have so much time for themselves to find love. Is it a price I have to pay for trying to make ends meet?

nnadychuks:
Ladies and gentlemen, I’m not happy at all...
I’m a young guy, in my early twenties, hoping to find love or maybe a girlfriend, but I feel like it’s not happening soon.
I’ve had two girlfriends in the past, but that’s before I entered the working class. I love my job, it pays me well and I don’t see myself quitting now, especially not with the current situation at hand. My previous relationship didn’t last for a month (quite embarrassing to say), but that’s not because I’m not affectionate, but I didn’t have time for her during weekdays and most times after work, I’m stressed out and I even forget to call her.
I understand the importance of making legit money at an early age but it seems like she didn’t care much about money at that point.
Over a year now I’ve not kissed a girl, meaning I’ve not gotten a reason to fall in love or quit my job. I’m a diligent guy with a self esteem (in a scale of 10) of 4 which means I’ve got small friends circle.
If I could remember my first girlfriend in sec. school (shush we didn’t have sex ); she was the one who motivated me to read harder because I didn’t want to look like a failure. I guess that’s the kind of woman I need in my life, considering my loyalty to one woman.

Thanks For reading this far...
For those who manage to mix work and love, how did you do it. Put yourself in my shoes, with my self esteem and my small crew how do you imply I get my girl soon? Cos I need woman oh!

MrBrownJay1:


its the life balance where you can find equal fulfillment in both love/family/work/pleasures etc. sadly, just because you see two people in love, does not mean they are fulfilled. the important questions ARE:
- whats your priorities in life?
- what actions are you taking to fill the void in your life?
- do you also work saturdays and sundays?
- have you ever thought of using online dating to meet someone?

Stephenomozzy:
There's never enough time in the world to LOVE any THING OR PERSON other than one's self oga.

You have to make out time even in busy schedule. Even God makes out time to express his love to us talk less of mere mortal like yourself. The good thing is that you're career-driving (focused on building your career/job); so maybe you should focus on one since you can't make a little compromise to do the little things that is required to be in a relationship.

No matured woman will require 100% of your time during the week days when they already know you're working. But at least a tithe of a tithe of you'r day's time can be made into spending really quality time with the other person. Remember, it's not the quantity of time (duration) but the quality of it.

Tomide007:

Bro keep working, you'll meet a workaholic like you.

Mgtowmonk:
you're not missing anything my brother
Nigerian women aren't worth your time