When I married my husband, he was a virgin. After marriage he has been having problems with making an erection into me. We have tried a lot of medical solutions but none has worked. This is our 1st year of marriage now and we have not had real sex. People are already asking me when I plan to get pregnant. I can't even tell them how much i am suffering as a woman. I need suggestions on what to do becos i am suffering in silence.

Duh. . . .you guys should see a doctor

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Duh. . . .you guys should see a doctor

bet 'still buy energy 2000 or Horsepower  555

lol dats y its always good to test run first
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op were u a virgin too cos it is also important we know as it might be a factor.u know two juves coming together

@ op: omo, they get shepe for my village.

plus opa eyin and alomo.
combo toh bad gan

Yes ke.

MEDICAL SOLUTIONS MAY WORK,WHAT PEOPLE WOULD SAY TO U MAY KILL UR MARRIAGE APPETITE.BUT TAKING UR PROBLEMS TO GOD ON UR KNEES WITH UR HUSBAND WOULD WORK PERFECTLY WELL.

TRY GOD.

Your husband is Gay.

maybe sex is not what he thought it would be be patient with him. As you said he was a virgin when you married and you can't expect an inexperienced man to just develop over night. spend time finding out about his likes and dislikes when it comes to sexual pleasure. explore some of his thoughts about sex and what he was expecting. Get him comfortable and show him that he has nothing to be ashamed of that way he would trust you in the bedroom and his freaky side will come out trust me everyone has one

Before trying any remedies, take him to a medical professional. It appears he is suffering from erectile dysfunction.

Even if he's a virgin, surely he knew about this problem before he got married? It's not a good thing to hide such a serious issue from your wife to be. Seek medical advice first and foremost,

@Poster- Oh,so u no test d engine b4 u buy am?. What a mistake. Oya carry ur cross !

OP,

Your husband knew about his medical issues before you guys met and married. He should have been honest with you and given you the opportunity to make a decision that will affect your marriage.

I don't know your husband, but I am sure he went to a doctor AT LEAST ONCE in his lifetime and questions were asked and answered. In initial pediatric visits, doctor check the boy's scrotum and penile shaft for possible "dysfunctions" and doctors touch the penile shaft for possible reaction and if such reaction that deem inappropriate will be subject to further testing.

If you have a boy child, pay attention to the doctor when he or she does physical exams you will see exactly what I am talking about.

There are possible solutions for Erectile Dysfunctions, but he will have to do a COMPLETE LIFESTYLE change to see some improvement but not really. You may have to result in purchasing some intimacy gadgets to supplement the lack of.

Good luck!

nw i knw y he was a virgin. men

That is a serious problem OP, they say bad sex can break a union, good sex can make it stronger. . . .he should have been honest with you, maybe being celibate/a virgin was a choice he made when he realised he had a problem. . . in the mean time, get a toy!

@ Chima and Goddess

She's obviously more concerned about getting pregnant - last I checked, toys can't do that for you.

This problem goes beyond just getting satisfaction and is more about being disgraced in the midst of her friends and family.

He knew his condition already. That is why he claimed virgin.

debosky:

@ Chima and Goddess

She's obviously more concerned about getting pregnant - last I checked, toys can't do that for you.

This problem goes beyond just getting satisfaction and is more about being disgraced in the midst of her friends and family.

Uh, missed that part. . .  . . .but satisfaction is still key, RIGHT?

debosky:

@ Chima and Goddess

She's obviously more concerned about getting pregnant - last I checked, toys can't do that for you.

This problem goes beyond just getting satisfaction and is more about being disgraced in the midst of her friends and family.

If she want a baby that bad and STILL wants to be with her husband.  She will need TONS of money because Invitro Fertilization is expensive.  If that won't work, there are children waiting to be adopted.

Failing to "Test Drive" your so called Life partner before Marriage was the crucial mistake you made here.

I perfected the NUDGE AND DIP test. My husband passed with flying colors!

The real question however is did He pass the Test Drive?

@Op, my advice is for you to hire a nice looking male house help. you will see change in your sex life.

chic2pimp:

The real question however is did He pass the Test Drive?

Apparently not. The poster wouldn't have created a thread if he did.

I don't even think she carried out the Test Drive before marriage because if she did she definitely would not have married him

chic2pimp:

I don't even think she carried out the Test Drive before marriage because if she did she definitely would not have married him

Spot On. She probably regrets.

@Topic

Mobinga:

Spot On. She probably regrets.

@Topic

Why did you have to tease her?

omorichie:

When I married my husband, he was a virgin. After marriage he has been having problems with making an erection into me. We have tried a lot of medical solutions but none has worked. This is our 1st year of marriage now and we have not had real sex. People are already asking me when I plan to get pregnant. I can't even tell them how much i am suffering as a woman. I need suggestions on what to do becos i am suffering in silence.

He probably lied about being a virgin to prevent you from finding out the truth about his impotency!

Mobinga: