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Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by Chukwudiajibo(m): 10:16am On Aug 02
Why is it that 70% of divorce women are well educated?
Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by RedSquirrel: 10:17am On Aug 02
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Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by Rgade: 10:24am On Aug 02
Because education reduces your bullshit tolerance level.
Also being well educated is largely consistent with being well paid. So for these women, the financial implications of getting a divorce isn't considered.

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Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by falcon01: 10:29am On Aug 02
Educated women don't take bullshit from useless men, if you dont treat them right they leave you it's better to be happy and single than married and suffering.

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Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by Dew04(f): 10:37am On Aug 02
Intelligent comments so far. Some bigots would later come and spoil this thread sad
It's true. Educated women find it very hard to tolerate bullshit.
They're enlightened enough to know that marriage isn't the pinnacle of a woman's success. It's no longer a 'do or die' affair.
Years ago, females were taught that their purpose in life is to be a wife and mother, nothing else. So there wasn't a choice of leaving the marriage. It didn't matter whether the man was abusive or he had a dozen other wives.

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Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by Oracleforce: 10:52am On Aug 02
Dew04:
Intelligent comments so far. Some bigots would later come and spoil this thread sad
It's true. Educated women find it very hard to tolerate bullshit.
They're enlightened enough to know that marriage isn't the pinnacle of a woman's success. It's no longer a 'do or die' affair.
Years ago, females were taught that their purpose in life is to be a wife and mother, nothing else. So there wasn't a choice of leaving the marriage. It didn't matter whether the man was abusive or he had a dozen other wives.


So, are you happy with the rate of broken homes in the country...there is always a solution to any marital issues...

Or maybe ladies want to be paying the groom price instead of guys paying the bride price...and ladies want to be carrying the herculean responsibility of the family and the guys taking back seat...
Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by Adasun(m): 10:53am On Aug 02
What are those up there saying




Been educated makes u rational and doesn't brings dat sacrifice marriage needs.

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Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by Babaalajo(m): 10:58am On Aug 02
When you divorce your husband in the name of education won't you want to remarry ? And when you marry another man and he did wrong too then what else ? Divorce again? Marriage is more than one been educated or not, its like having your own world, you have to be able to forgive and tolerate some things you don't used to if you want to stay in marriage with peace of mind..some are lucky in marriage so they don't do much for their marriage to be a successful one but some are not lucky like that and they have to work hard for their own to be a successful one....if you are married then you will understand more

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Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by Dew04(f): 11:04am On Aug 02
Oracleforce:



So, are you happy with the rate of broken homes in the country...there is always a solution to any marital issues...

Or maybe ladies want to be paying the groom price instead of guys paying the bride price...and ladies want to be carrying the herculean responsibility of the family and the guys taking back seat...
some marital issues have nothing to do with finances. Did you get the points I highlighted in my previous post? undecided
There was a time a woman had to tolerate being physically abused. She had to put up with a cheating partner or a drunk and gambler.
Nowadays, females are taught not settle for less all in the name of marriage. It's not a 'do or die' affair.
Being single gives some women peace of mind, more so than being married. tongue

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Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by hashtagged: 11:06am On Aug 02
Thats cause uneducated women like our grand and great grand mums were maltreated due to african values, now with educations their eyes have opened

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Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by hashtagged: 11:07am On Aug 02
Divorce is also a gift, if you dont like your marriage leave it
Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by Dew04(f): 11:10am On Aug 02
Babaalajo:
When you divorce your husband in the name of education won't you want to remarry ? And when you marry another man and he did wrong too then what else ? Divorce again? Marriage is more than one been educated or not, its like having your own world, you have to be able to forgive and tolerate some things you don't used to if you want to stay in marriage with peace of mind..some are lucky in marriage so they don't do much for their marriage to be a successful one but some are not lucky like that and they have to work hard for their own to be a successful one....if you are married then you will understand more
If your wife nags constantly, is a chronic cheater or gambles and drinks excessively
If she doesn't take care of the children nor the home (assuming you pay the bills and she's a full time housewife)
If she's lazy and good for nothing, refusing to show respect and would spend her time gossiping.
Wouldn't you leave her? There's a limit to what we can tolerate.

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Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by Newguyhere: 11:10am On Aug 02
I call it indoctrination.. Not education grin
Dew04:
Intelligent comments so far. Some bigots would later come and spoil this thread sad
It's true. Educated women find it very hard to tolerate bullshit.
They're enlightened enough to know that marriage isn't the pinnacle of a woman's success. It's no longer a 'do or die' affair.
Years ago, females were taught that their purpose in life is to be a wife and mother, nothing else. So there wasn't a choice of leaving the marriage. It didn't matter whether the man was abusive or he had a dozen other wives.
Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by Dew04(f): 11:16am On Aug 02
Newguyhere:
I call it indoctrination.. Not education grin
indoctrination... education
It's the way forward!

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Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by Oracleforce: 2:32pm On Aug 02
Dew04:
some marital issues have nothing to do with finances. Did you get the points I highlighted in my previous post? undecided
There was a time a woman had to tolerate being physically abused. She had to put up with a cheating partner or a drunk and gambler.
Nowadays, females are taught not settle for less all in the name of marriage. It's not a 'do or die' affair.
Being single gives some women peace of mind, more so than being married. tongue

..., mostly, in relationship setting, ladies used to see the handwriting on the wall and yet still go ahead to marry the same horrible person....the same person that was caught severally cheating, gambling, smoking, drinking, physically abuse them...so, whose fault is it?

As some ladies are tired of marriage so also some of the guys are tired, because of so many horror stories we used to read on social media there are different ladies. There are those that are nagging, uncooperative, unsupportive, manipulative, arrogant, insensitive, lies and unappreciative and ladies want to marry without wanting to bend or change their ill-attitude...

Whichever way you looked at it, all these aforementioned attributes are simply red flag in relationship..but because we have the mindset that nobody is perfect, we still tolerate all these bad attributes in a lady....

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Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by PureGoldh(m): 3:52pm On Aug 02
Na oversabi dey worry some of dem
Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by tnerro1(m): 4:07pm On Aug 02
Some ladies up there are saying been well educated means the woman won’t tolerate bullshit..duh

Being well educated should help the women navigate the complex ideology called marriage. It should help them understand his views and find a common ground between both views. It should help the women present themselves better in their marriages.

Behave like a lady, get treated like a lady
Behave like a strong headed hoe, get treated like one

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Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by chiddyok(f): 5:07pm On Aug 02
Oracleforce:



So, are you happy with the rate of broken homes in the country...there is always a solution to any marital issues...

Or maybe ladies want to be paying the groom price instead of guys paying the bride price...and ladies want to be carrying the herculean responsibility of the family and the guys taking back seat...
So to avoid broken marriages women and men should remain in unhappy marriages? Paying groom price will not be a problem the day men can go through labor pains. I’ll personally pay for a sexy, dark skinned, tall dick to cook, clean and give me children.
Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by Oracleforce: 7:01pm On Aug 02
chiddyok:

So to avoid broken marriages women and men should remain in unhappy marriages? Paying the groom price will not be a problem the day men can go through labor pains. I’ll personally pay for a sexy, dark-skinned, tall dick to cook, clean, and give me children.


When does carrying a pregnant become a herculean task?.. Is it not just to hide a baby in my stomach for 9 months or less and release it for people to see after D-Day....if you are complaining about labor pain, what should surrogate women do? ... Abeg....! There are now alternative for man to avoid nagging and ungrateful women....surrogate woman will do the magic

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Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by chiddyok(f): 8:04pm On Aug 02
Oracleforce:



When does carrying a pregnant become a herculean task?.. Is it not just to hide a baby in my stomach for 9 months or less and release it for people to see after D-Day....if you are complaining about labor pain, what should surrogate women do? ... Abeg....! There are now alternative for man to avoid nagging and ungrateful women....surrogate woman will do the magic
Surrogate WOMEN. Not surrogate MEN. And I’m yet to meet the Nigeria man who thinks it’s okay to have a surrogate when his wife is perfectly healthy and enough for pregnancy. You that is saying there’s nothing in pregnancy, please repeat it to the hearing of your mother. I’m sorry for you in advance.
Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by lacasera14(m): 8:43pm On Aug 02
Education adds more foam to a woman's shoulder pad

Re: Why Is It That 70% Of Divorce Women Are Well Educated? by Oracleforce: 10:42am On Aug 03
chiddyok:

Surrogate WOMEN. Not surrogate MEN. And I’m yet to meet the Nigerian man who thinks it’s okay to have a surrogate when his wife is perfectly healthy and enough for pregnancy. You that is saying there’s nothing in pregnancy, please repeat it to the hearing of your mother. I’m sorry for you in advance.

Don't major on what is minor...women are designed with wombs to carry a baby or babies...and you can't be complaining about what you are majorly designed to do...as a matter of fact, it supposes to be an opportunities to be called to perform what you are divinely designed to do...
Though I may not too much about what it takes for a woman to deliver a child I know some women in the north who don't see baby reproduction as a big deal....they reproduce it in dozens...
So, if this generation ladies are hesitant or uncomfortable do perform their divine assignment of reproduction then, we create an alternative to replace you...

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