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My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by nakosm4me(m): 2:20pm On Aug 02
Fellow Nairalanders,

I just discovered that my girlfriend's father worships a Deity that was passed down to him from his forefathers.

I just discovered this after I paid a visit to the family.

I have confronted her but she said it's harmless. And that the Dad is a good that doesn't do evil.

Honestly, I am a devout Christian and I don't want anything to do with idolatry.

What Should Do?

No insults please.

Kindly advice.

Thanks.
Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by bunnaes: 2:22pm On Aug 02
Deity is just a sculpture. Spirits don't exist.

Meanwhile, Crownedrookie = bunnae = Aududunine11 = GentRoyal = moreb2cum = homo!
Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:23pm On Aug 02
who does the girl in question believe in? I mean are u of the same faith?.


if not JAPA, I repeat JAPA...
Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by bunnae(f): 2:24pm On Aug 02
nakosm4me:
Fellow Nairalanders,

I just discovered that my girlfriend's father worships a Deity that was passed down to him from his forefathers.

I just discovered this after I paid a visit to the family.

I have confronted her but she said it's harmless. And that the Dad is a good that doesn't do evil.

Honestly, I am a devout Christian and I don't want anything to do with idolatry.

What Should Do?

No insults please.

Kindly advice.

Thanks.
Deep in your heart, I know you have the answer you seek. Maybe a resounding no. Follow it. I have no problem with what people choose to believe in. But when it conflicts with mine I don't negotiate. There are some lines I already made up my mind never to cross in life. If you are like me, then you already have the answer you seek.
Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Aug 02
bunnaes:
Deity is just a sculpture. Spirits don't exist.

Meanwhile, Crownedrookie = bunnae = Aududunine11 = GentRoyal = moreb2cum = homo!



grin lol

u don't know anything bro and I don't pray u know.....
Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by donstan18(f): 2:27pm On Aug 02
Firstly, Love isn't even in the top 10 important things to consider when choosing a lifetime partner.

The reason I said this is because you'll be quick to say you don't want to leave her because of you LOVE her. LOVE isn't enough and will never be. Not in this generation, not even in the next generation.

If you are uncomfortable and restless with what you saw or observed about her family. Kindly opt out for the sake of your mental health and peace of mind.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by falcon01: 2:28pm On Aug 02
it doesn't matter, If you guys love each other that's all that matters.
Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Kemimarch16(f): 2:33pm On Aug 02
If your mind didn't go with it then leave her but if u know u can cope go ahead with hear
Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by yanabasee1(m): 2:39pm On Aug 02
You have yourself to be blamed.....



You the see Dangote truck for express, you want test the juju weh baba give you....Egungun.....express no deh select people weh him the kill.
Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Ningen(m): 2:54pm On Aug 02
You are not dating her father or his deity.

As long your girlfriend shares your beliefs as a Christian... then I don't get the cause for alarm.
Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by hisgrace090: 3:09pm On Aug 02
For seeing her father actions as harmless means she's spiritually ignorant, pls watch your steps because ignorant is never an excuse.

All levels of idol worshipping comes from a single source deeper or shallow Satan is in charge.

For finding this out before marriage it is better you quit.
Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Blackmoran(m): 3:23pm On Aug 02
You are a Christan rite? And you believe in the story in the bible about Enoch who never died but was transported to heaven on a chariot with fire if I can remember? If you believe in that story or myth I don't think you should have a problem with someone that also believe that odudwa was transported with a chain down to earth... My question is what is the different between two of you?
Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Pegi23(f): 3:24pm On Aug 02
You love her right. Kindly marry her
Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 3:40pm On Aug 02
nakosm4me:
Fellow Nairalanders,

I just discovered that my girlfriend's father worships a Deity that was passed down to him from his forefathers.

I just discovered this after I paid a visit to the family.

I have confronted her but she said it's harmless. And that the Dad is a good that doesn't do evil.

Honestly, I am a devout Christian and I don't want anything to do with idolatry.

What Should Do?

No insults please.

Kindly advice.

Thanks.

You marry a family not a person. Choose being equally yoked

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Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Aksnoopy: 4:02pm On Aug 02
nakosm4me:
Fellow Nairalanders,

I just discovered that my girlfriend's father worships a Deity that was passed down to him from his forefathers.

I just discovered this after I paid a visit to the family.

I have confronted her but she said it's harmless. And that the Dad is a good that doesn't do evil.

Honestly, I am a devout Christian and I don't want anything to do with idolatry.

What Should Do?

No insults please.

Kindly advice.

Thanks.
If your girlfriend is a Christian go ahead and marry her. Her father's believe is inconsequential. I have seen many pastors whose father's were herbalists. Marry her if she is good enough for.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Father Worships Deity. Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by hashtagged: 7:36pm On Aug 02
Kemimarch16:
If your mind didn't go with it then leave her but if u know u can cope go ahead with hear

Cope lol my mums friend married a guy whose mum was an ifa priestess, the mom didntb endorse it and afyer marriage, from misscarriages to fibroid to ovarian cancer, she would complain withes want to kill her, she suffered till she died

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