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Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by wedeal: 3:40pm On Aug 02, 2020
Please help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship

I have cousin and she’s 28 years of age and from a Good family background Anambra State and while the guy is around 51 years old. Though she has had previous relationship challenges until she met a guy from Enugu State who also base in Lagos. Both of them has been dating for about a year now, and as it’s now the relationship is about to lead to marriage. This guy in question from all analysis and background checked, he’s a diabolic guy and also does yahoo yahoo stuff. The guy family in the village is known to be diabolic including the guy’s Mother. This guy siblings are all dead remaining this guy and the Mother of this guy is doing everything possible to ensure this guy marry this young girl.
The girl father works in Anambra. There was a day the girl father was deceived and was taken to an unknown location in the East which was later discovered to be a shrine where parts of the girl’s body like finger Niles, hair was presented. Up till date no one, not even the girl’s father can actually tell what transpired.

This guy can take this girl to Hotel and spend money on this girl, but one thing he cannot do is to give this girl MONEY to take care of herself. Instead of this guy spending on this girl, rather it’s the girl that’s spending on herself and even sends the guy money. As it’s, there’s no single evidence to show that the guy takes care of the girl.

As we speak, the family members are not in support of the marriage, but the girl is insisting that he MUST marry this guy otherwise she will not only kill herself but also kill others in the family house. In fact it’s not only the family members that are against the marriage, most men of God has also revealed different revelation that the girl should not go into the marriage otherwise there would be catastrophe. Me that am typing this message God have revealed it to me long ago that there was crises on the day of the marriage. Also, there are no single family members that had not received a revelation about the warning of God for this marriage. This girl in question cannot listen to anybody as we speak. I repeat, this girl in question cannot listen to anybody as we speak. She wouldn’t listen to her parents, family members, pastors, friends etc. Anybody that advises her against this marriage has automatically becomes her enemy. To her, she must marry this guy no matter what anyone would want to say, and she cannot wait for this marriage to take place. She stays in the family house and sometimes goes to the guy’s house to stay for days and thereafter return back.
Left for the guy he’s not ready to do any white wedding or to do other traditional rights. His mission is to pay the bride price and leave and the girl concurred to him. As we speak the guy has fixed 2weeks from now as the date for the marriage. What an emergency marriage! From information reaching us now, the girl is planning of wearing white clothes on the marriage day.

Everyone has prayed, everyone is praying and everyone has advised this girl against this marriage, but the girl CANNOT LISTEN TO ANYONE.

What’s your advice on this matter? Please share!

Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by Kriss216: 3:41pm On Aug 02, 2020
I repeat, this girl in question cannot listen to anybody as we speak. She wouldn’t listen to her parents, family members, pastors, friends etc



She has been hypnotized by uncle Vitamin D, the great. She's dickmatised and there's nothing you people can do about it.
Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by mariahAngel(f): 3:50pm On Aug 02, 2020
She's definitely not in her right mind.

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Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by ojun50(m): 3:57pm On Aug 02, 2020
If na my family the girl dey, we go Don kidnap the guy go one pastor house for one week

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Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by StPete: 4:02pm On Aug 02, 2020
This is a one-sided story painted to suit the narrative of the OP. The girl is an adult, let her decide for herself. She's the one who's going to live with the guy at the end of the day
Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by Nephilim: 4:19pm On Aug 02, 2020
She's not in the right state of mind. She's been diabolicalized lolz! She needs God's intervention.
Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by NevetsIbot(m): 6:38pm On Aug 02, 2020
Dog wey go lost no go hear the whistle wey hunter blow

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Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by Fourwinds: 6:55pm On Aug 02, 2020
NevetsIbot:
Dog wey go lost no go hear the whistle wey hunter blow
that is it

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Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by NevetsIbot(m): 7:22pm On Aug 02, 2020
StPete:
This is a one-sided story painted to suit the narrative of the OP. The girl is an adult, let her decide for herself. She's the one who's going to live with the guy at the end of the day

Does it seem like he's saying it for his own benefits? Here's someone who cares about another person and wants to help stop her from whatever she's about to do.


"To suit the narrative of the Op "

Tarhhhh

That she's an adult doesn't mean she should turn deaf ears to good counsel.

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Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by Nobody: 12:39am On Aug 03, 2020
Take her to mfm or an ex she truly loved should come into her life

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Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by wedeal: 11:03am On Aug 03, 2020
Moderator please take this post to FP let's save someone's life from the positive advice people will give
Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:21am On Aug 03, 2020
NevetsIbot:
Dog wey go lost no go hear the whistle wey hunter blow
...I love this.
Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by paulolee(m): 11:23am On Aug 03, 2020
wahala...
Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by Tina001(f): 11:31am On Aug 03, 2020
Do everything possible to take the girl very far away from the guy for months and pray fervently, the juju go clear. Apparently, nor be ordinary eye be this
Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by wedeal: 7:20pm On Aug 03, 2020
Tina001:
Do everything possible to take the girl very far away from the guy for months and pray fervently, the juju go clear. Apparently, nor be ordinary eye be this

True talk
Re: Please Help A Serious Advice Needed For This Relationship by frozen70(f): 9:09pm On Aug 03, 2020
If she insist, she can go ahead and live with the man while the marriage is suspended till all doubts are cleared

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