I try not to compare my ex with my current girlfriend, understanding that people are different and I should not have the same expectations, but this aspect of her deviancy doesn't feel like the regular not-expect-the-same-expectation.

It bothers me that she avoids s*x talks whenever I bring them up even though we have made love a number of times in our 3 year old relationship. And it is bad because it makes me miss my ex. I could talk with my ex just about anything and even anywhere and she was always ready for the talks.

Now, the reason I bring up the talks with my current girlfriend is not just for the purpose to have fun but also to let her know my wants in our sexual life and also to get to know her fantasies so as to make up for the parts we lack. Whenever I bring the talks up (and trust me I am not so blatant with them that they make her feel uncomfortable) she always either finds a way to end the talks or give unenthusiastic replies. This always makes me look like a pervert or some s*x-starved guy.

I usually think she is shy about them but then how can she still be shy in a 3 year old relationship or is it normal for a girlfriend to avoid s*x talks?

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Do you try to initiate these discussions one on one?

PrimadonnaO:
Do you try to initiate these discussions one on one?

Over the phone, on WhatsApp, most of the time. We only play about it in person, and if it is not when we are making love she will jokingly try and change the topic by mentioning how a "spoilt child" I am. And I don't press on.

Get a new girlfriend and stop disturbing our peace.

Jimbadly:
Get a new girlfriend and stop disturbing our peace.

Thanks!

That means she doesn't love you enough, if i don't love a guy i dodge such chat, but when i love you i initiate the talks.

aIrbenIc:


Thanks!

You're welcome.

phintohlar:
That means she doesn't love you enough, if i don't love a guy i dodge such chat, but when i love you i initiate the talks.

Even when we have made love?

aIrbenIc:


Even when we have made love?

oga a girl can fvck you and not be in love with you

aIrbenIc:


Over the phone, on WhatsApp, most of the time. We only play about it in person, and if it is not when we are making love she will jokingly try and change the topic by mentioning how a "spoilt child" I am. And I don't press on.

I'd have said perhaps she's shy discussing it one on one. But apparently she's not free even via text.

Well, she's just coy. She'll come around at her own time.


Though, I'm really wondering why it seems you want to discuss sex with her often.

aIrbenIc:


Even when we have made love?

does it matter, cos i see no reason to dodge such convo with a man you claim to love.. so try harder man