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|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by keepingmum: 5:04pm On Aug 09, 2020|
Whats the update ff ur visit to the hospital
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by sleit: 9:23pm On Aug 09, 2020|
It will not be well for you and every other promoters of this bullsh*t.
Cancer will visit each of your family and you will spend all your money buying this so called 'miracle' for all ailments.
At Viceni111 please I beg you do not listen to anyone that tells you they know any healing centre or man. Just go straight to the hospital and pray to God you still have the opportunity to cut it off now. I just lost someone very close to breast cancer last Wednesday.
She started out just like your mum with a little lump in 2018. She started tests at LUTH but ran away because she was scared of the after effects of surgery and chemotherapy. And she got deceived by all these tradomedical and supplements people like this fool I'm quoting right now.
The affected breast looked exactly like your mums and she lost so much weight. She visited almost 20 of these people and healing centres promising and giving her false hope that they've treated such successfully.
She started undergoing intense pain in the breast since 2019, sleepless night, rapid weight loss, chronic cough, light headedness and weakness. Still she was insistent about visiting these healing centres. She was referred to a local healer in Abeokuta in April 2020 who said he had treated such, and she had to live in his centre to receive daily 'treatment'.
Eventually she called one afternoon 3 weeks ago that she wants to come home that she feels weak and we should help make arrangements for a private hospital so she can regain her energy. I cried when I set my eyes on her. She could hardly walk. After a week in the private hospital she gained a bit of strength, we then took her to FMC Abeokuta. The doctor said nothing can be done as it has affected her lungs and heart, so she had to be placed on oxygen. The said she should be on drugs before they work on palliative plans for her. She was in FMC for just 5 days before passing away and all she kept praying for was for God to give her a second chance that she regrets not going with medical advice. We recently buried her.
I sent something to you. Confirm if you got it.
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Ralphlauren(m): 12:55pm On Aug 10, 2020|
What plans have you got for her? Surgery? Do you know the stage of the cancer? This will help with your fundraising and encourage people to donate substantial sums
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by apadiduntaiwo(m): 1:09pm On Aug 10, 2020|
hello sir/ma, sorry about your loss.
But, I'd advice you to go and read about stem cell therapy before you start wishing cancer for the rest of your family. Ignorance is your problem!!!
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Lordsonn: 2:23pm On Aug 10, 2020|
I wanted to call you but I thought it again and drop my phone because of fraudulent activities of many people online. My advice for you is to go FMC Ile-ife, let them examine your mother and give you people medical bills. People can pay directly to the official account of the hospital and send you the receipt so that you can get your mother treated. The only way I would have help now is to drive from Akure to Ore to verify and do little assistance and connect you to others who can help but Akure to Ore is far. Just take a step to go to the hospital. Mummy shall be well in Jesus name
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Lordsonn: 2:42pm On Aug 10, 2020|
With the video evidence, I believe it is true. May God help you people. I will try my own too
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Viceni111: 3:14pm On Aug 10, 2020|
Apologies for not updating the forum since we left for Obafemi Awolowo University Teaching Hosoital, Ile-Ife on Thurs 7th Aug.
We left Ore for Ile-Ife at exactly 8am in the morning, and arrived at the hospital 3 hrs later. We were left unattended to until it was 2pm. We were told there are lot of patients and all Doctors on duty were occupied.
We opened folder, a kind of hospital registration, and some Doctors attended to us. During cross examinations, the head surgeon came in and observed the breast. He declared that it is Metastatic cancers. From his explanations, he said it is advance cancer and that it has already spread into her body system. He said the cancer has affected her left leg which developed into difficulties in her mobility. He explained that it is much likely that the cancer would spread into the lung, kidney, heart and brain. He also pointed that there is no possible cure, except only treatments, prayers, and her strength to fight on for survival. The cancer has done a lot of damages, and things cannot be reversed again.
The head surgeon took my Dad and another relative who followed us into his office. I later joined them. From the conversation he was having with my Dad, he told us the treatment would cost us a lot of money, also asked how much we have at the moment. He said if we want proper treatment, we would have to pay N400,000 as an initial. This cover chemotherapy among other things. We informed him we have N120,000 at hand, and we would source for the remaining bills. We were asked to pay N68,000 for tests and consumables. Right after making the payments to different departments, Mummy was admitted into her ward. A junior doctor was charged to take different samples from her.
However, there was a swift turn when it was around 5:30pm. Another doctor directed that all processes should stop, reason is there was no report on covid19 screening in the file with them. He called us in again, gave us a note, and asked us to go for covid19 confirmation test. At this stage, the Doctors were acting very unprofessional. I went to pay N5000 for the confirmation test. The junior doctor took a blood sample and gave it to me to take it to the covid19 checking department. Result came out after one hour and Mum came out positive.
The head doctor on duty told us the result is not a confirmation she carries the virus, but there is high probability she has the virus in her system. He made some explanations which I don't really understand that the sample would be sent to Osogbo for further confirmations, and the result would come in 10days. Since covid19 is now in the picture, I asked him to call NCDC in to handle the confirmation case but he simply tell us NCDC is audio. He then said if we want the final confirmation within five days, we would have to travel to Ede. He said we should go to Redeemer University hospital, Ede, Osun state. This is without any letter or note. He also said the tests on cancer spread would be withheld.
We were sent out of the ward. This happened at around 7pm in the night. I had to rush to the park to get a vehicle that take us back to Ore. We arrived Ore at around 10pm. I called NCDC number the next day we arrived. The lady who spoke with me on phone said we should isolate her for 14days, and watch out for some symptoms. She said if Mum has difficulties with breathing, we should call in again. Nothing like dispatching staff for confirmation was mentioned.
It is the 3rd day today since we returned from Ife. Hopefully by Tuesday next week, if she does not show any symptoms, we will take her to Redeemer University Hospital at Ede, Osun state for the pcr test. The result would then be taken with us to OAUTHC for the commencement of cancer treatment. However, if she show any symptoms, we would have to call NCDC in.
Thanks to everyone who have contributed some funds we have be using so far. I sincerely appreciate everything you've done. Thanks to those who have been calling, encouraging us with prayers and moral supports. I want to say thanks to the user who sent us N100,000, he asked me not to mention his name. I pray God bless you immensely in Jesus name.
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Viceni111: 3:19pm On Aug 10, 2020|
Picture when we were on our way
And when we got to the hospital
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Viceni111: 3:34pm On Aug 10, 2020|
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Viceni111: 3:38pm On Aug 10, 2020|
Hospital is Ede where we are referred to for pcr test
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Viceni111: 3:48pm On Aug 10, 2020|
Dr Arowolo, the Head Doctor who attended to us didn't mention the how much it would cost us in today for the treatments. He only said we would pay N400,000 as initial. We don't know for such what the total estimation for treatment would cost us. I had thought Federal Hospital would be greatly subsidized.
I had tried using Gofundme fund raising platform but I found out Nigeria is not a supported country. There are some Nigerians who raised fund on it... To those who have idea how gofundme works, please what and what would I need as a Nigerian to open and use the platform for fund raising?
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Viceni111: 3:49pm On Aug 10, 2020|
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Viceni111: 3:59pm On Aug 10, 2020|
Doctor simply told us it is Metastatic cancer. It is stage four but we don't know how severe it is now except that she can barely use her left leg, and there are multiple sores and injuries on the affected breast. I also do not know the next Doctor's move.
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Viceni111: 4:08pm On Aug 10, 2020|
I have every evidence needed to prove my case is truth. Pictures and videos. As a matter of fact, you are free to visit Ore for confirmation since we are currently in Ore now. Or maybe if you have someone living within or around Ore, you can ask him/her to help you confirm. We are at Ajegunle street, opposite Government Field Ore. Call my mummy or my number, I will come and pick you there.
We were at the OAUTHC Ile-Ife on Friday. She is examined and reported she has Metastatic cancers.
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Ralphlauren(m): 4:19pm On Aug 10, 2020|
She has to get surgery done urgently and also start chemo. Is her doctor not keen on this treatment route? Is she on painkillers?
I will suggest you start a gofundme with all the videos and pictures you posted. You should also start similar campaign on twitter and tag the popular influencers.
I'll arrange to have funds transferred to the account you posted.
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|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Swissheart(f): 8:21pm On Aug 10, 2020|
My prayers are with you Bro. I pray for strength for you and your family. I also pray for your mom, that God soothe her pains.
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by LadySarah: 11:04pm On Aug 10, 2020|
Jesus the mighty healer do your miracle.
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Viceni111: 9:55am On Aug 11, 2020|
The Doctor made mention of all these. But there are two problem. He said we would have need alot of money before they start anything which ought to have started until they discover she is probably carrying covid19. We were asked to go for pcr test at Redeemer University Ede. I have called NCDC and they said we should isolate her for 14days. Today makes it 5th day since she has been indoor.
I haven't opened twitter and would start working on escalating it as you suggested. On gofundme though, I found out Nigeria is not a supported country. Is there a way I can go around this? Your advice would be appreciated. Thanks
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Modupetemmy1(f): 10:37am On Aug 11, 2020|
I am so short of words, it is well with you sis, God will surely intervene
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by keepingmum: 8:09pm On Aug 11, 2020|
I dont know how much you know about cancer but what the doctor means is that its terminal and at the last stage. Stage 4 cancer. Your mother CANNOT be treated. What she ll be given is palliative treatment to make her remaining stay comfortable and painfree because she ll be in alot of pain.
You need to be strong and spend the next few weeks creating and enjoying memories with your mother and family. Stage 4 might be 4 weeks left or 8months- only the doctor can advice specifically.
I am truly sorry it has come to this but i ll encourage everyone whom has a diagnosis or suspected diagnosis to always speak up early and seek adequate medical advice and attention as early detection saves lives.
When you hit 28 and above, pls check your breasts regularly for any lumps as certain breast cancers are genetic and you might be at risk if you have inherited the gene. Gosh, i wish i could see you and just hug you and reassure you that you will be fine......this is heavy
When you are free, please read up this links to equip yourself with what to expect over the next few weeks.
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by CokeBar(f): 8:21pm On Aug 11, 2020|
Thanks for the candid comment.
@viceni111, I honestly have no idea what you're passing through but I pray that God gives you the strength to pass through it.
I'll be sending a token to you, kindly confirm when you receive.
God bless you!
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by frozen70(f): 9:34pm On Aug 11, 2020|
May God give you the strength to carry on
God will heal her and provide financial help for your family
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Viceni111: 9:05am On Aug 12, 2020|
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Theyoungmatron: 9:37am On Aug 12, 2020|
Viceni111:Easy brother. Do not despair. What she wrote is the honest fact.
Are you willing to spend money when it is already terminal?
Stage 4 cancer is a brief chance to make amends and put things in order.
What she needs now is palliative care.
They may have to excise the tumour or the entire breast and alleviate her pain.
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by jeff1607(m): 11:49am On Aug 12, 2020|
if this works as you state I think this would be a very good opportunity to prove it, take this as your contribution to a fellow human and if it does work, you know what that means
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Swissheart(f): 12:49pm On Aug 12, 2020|
Viceni111:I understand your pain but what keepingmum has written up there is the truth. I couldn't bear to write it, what was why i prayed that God soothes her pain. Pls take care of your mom and make her comfortable( she'll start to complain alot, don't be fed-up. Move her legs,hands whenever she wants you to)
Be by her side. Pray and sing with her. Try not to spend all the money you have gathered. You'll need it. Prepare for it as bravely as possible. You wouldn't want to be mourning and be financially helpless at the same time. Brace up for this. Does she have a younger sibling around? You'll need people around.
God will take care of you and your dad. He'll soothe your mom's pain �
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Viceni111: 7:09am On Aug 19, 2020|
Good morning, I am so grateful for your help...thanks for being my family. God will continue to bless u and your family...from the depth of my heart am so grateful. I wish I had knew this forum earlier...my mum will have been curred. The doctor only mentioned that depositing 400 000 it's just for the drug that will sustain her life...he clearly said "no cure, it has spread"
I'll just show her love and make her happy.
I'll do everything in my power to make her happy
Thanks for your support
Am grateful ��
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by annayawchee: 8:30am On Aug 19, 2020|
Viceni111:It's well bro
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by PureGoldh(m): 8:52am On Aug 19, 2020|
Nigeria matter weak me.....any person wey dey sick lately...doctors go just brand the sickness**CoronaVirus**
Unprofessionalism at its peak and later someone will come out to say that the figures that NCDC incorporation with FG normally out here are true...stories will soon unfold
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by PureGoldh(m): 8:54am On Aug 19, 2020|
Just take it easy dear....God have a better plan for you and your family...your mom will be fine.
Just don't lose faith in God.....get yourself acquainted to him...He is the beginning and the end....There is nothing impossible or too hard for him to do.
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by PureGoldh(m): 9:01am On Aug 19, 2020|
@ bolded text....the main issue why GoFundMe stopped giving access to Nigerians on that platform is because so many Nigerians do use it for fraudulent activities.....na the bad eggs wey we get in dx country dey spoil our name globally.
Just keep up with this particular post here on Nairaland.....you will surely get the help you need.
|Re: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by Acidosis(m): 9:18am On Aug 19, 2020|
Quite sad but I don't think you should give up just yet. So long there's life, there's hope. Only that hope can give her and the entire family the strength to carry on.
While you're awaiting the test result, also take some moments to speak to your creator. Truth is, your mom's condition is perfectly within His power to unturn. I know it doesn't make rational sense to some but don't ditch it. The one who creates can also fix.
I wish you guys the strength to carry on. And to those who have contributed and still contributing towards this cause, whether financially or morally, may God bless you guys. You all are God's representatives on earth.
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