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Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by ModestGal(f): 5:01am On Aug 06, 2020 |
ModestGal: Lets stand up for the weak Abuse is illegal 3 Likes |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by ModestGal(f): 5:03am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Stand up for the weak 1 Like |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by shamsin6300(m): 6:37am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Uhmmmmm I think he should, we are made to forgive each other, beside no one is perfect we all have our flaws. But he should caution her about such her actions, it's a very bad habit. |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by GraGra247(m): 6:57am On Aug 06, 2020 |
ModestGal: Kudos cos you spoke my mind on this matter. The menace of domestic violence and battery on minors in homes is one that people do not take seriously because just about everyone does it. I was disgusted by the recent video of a woman unleashing terror on her son while he begged her to "calm down". People hailed the child as intelligent and nobody called out the woman for abuse and she wasn't arrested or questioned till date. In developed countries she would've lost custody of that child. I have neighbors that always torment and maltreat their househelp and children on regular agonizing basis. I couldn't report this to the landlord or anyone else cos it was obvious that all of them do it and even encourage each other to keep up with it because it's child training supposedly. I can't go to the police because I would make my landlord and all my neighbors my very enemies and they will either gang up and kill me or even evict me(they're that powerful and connected). Besides the police you report to is likely doing the same thing in their homes because most police officers are very brutal including in their homes. 1 Like |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by reservd(m): 7:19am On Aug 06, 2020 |
shamsin6300:Do you understand the meaning of red flags in a relationship? When you are in one, think with your head not your heart, the heart is senseless when it comes to relationships 1 Like |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by austine4real(m): 7:20am On Aug 06, 2020 |
The onus lies on him |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by Nobody: 7:24am On Aug 06, 2020 |
shamsin6300:somethings are beyond flaws. No one's perfect, but her attitude was outright nasty. Only a fool would take her back with the mindset that she would change. 1 Like |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by Alwaysachick: 7:27am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Both of them are abusers...i guess birds of a feather can flock together. |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by PussyOdour(m): 7:32am On Aug 06, 2020 |
ModestGal: Goodmorning ModestGal He has seen your post and has read it word by word but unfortunately he couldn't reply as he was banned yesterday for bantering words with one dude in that same thread. Seeing his action i can say he has made up is mind not to take the girlfriend in again. We are leaving quite close, and he happened to be my hood buddy. 4 Likes |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by Ayemileto(m): 7:36am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Lol. 1. They shouldn't even be living together, talkless of the Girlfriend doing all his house chores. The fact that the girlfriend have been doing all house chores before the niece comes around is a sign she's probably unproductive. No productive lady will be living with a guy she's not married to and doing all his house chores for him. The fact that she's unproductive can also be seen in the fact that she has lots of time in her hand to monitor the niece. 2. Just the way the girlfriend knocked his niece's head, he also beat up the girlfriend. Like someone stated on that thread, there's a simple pattern here, the STRONG ALWAYS PREY ON THE WEAK!!! He could have asked her to move out immediately, but he decided to beat her instead. 3. Contrary to that post where the OP said that all marriage plans were suspended, I'm 100 percent sure there was never a marriage plan at all. They are still in the BF/GF stage, Not fiancee, talkless of marriage. There's even 50 percent chances the OP have never introduced the lady to his mother. That OP only said he's suspending marriage plans, so it will look like he's a strong man. 4. That OP won't send that lady away. And you can deduce that in the sense that he hasn't sent her away when he made that thread. Instead he waited for hours, and then took her to a hospital for treatment. By the time she gets fully healed (like that OP is waiting for), his anger would have cooled off, and he'll go and apologize to her instead of driving her out. This is because: 1. it's less easier to drive her out when he's no longer angry. 2. He's feeling guilty and remorseful for beating her. While it's good to feel remorseful, it can be used against him. Because people with a soft heart are usually easily manipulated, and are often indecisive. 3. The only reason anyone will date an unproductive lady - like that OP is doing - is because of a unique character such 'lady" posses, that's difficult to find in most other ladies. One of this character, in that OP's case, is the lady acting more like his house help. Taking responsibility to do all house chores - which many ladies won't bother doing today. And except he get another "slave" to take up those responsibilities, and fill up most of the gap the lady will be leaving, he won't have the balls to kick her out, and his attempts to do so will be half hearted. Even if he drives her out, he will still take her back if she comes back begging, because he will miss his "'slave". Except, he gets another one. Going back to Anigreat case, the little girl would feel empowered seeing the action of her uncle, and the smile on her face ehn. That would really help her confidence in life and she would feel happy to pursue any dream of her choice. While the action will help her confidence, contrary to this statement, she won't use the confidence to pursue any dream of her choice. Rather, she will get disrespectful and always look for trouble knowing fully well that her uncle will always beat up whoever touches her. This can be seen quite well among little children, when a young child is fighting with someone older, and you beat the older one alone without scolding the younger one, the younger one will feel empowered and always look for trouble, knowing fully well that you'll always defend him. It would have been better if that OP have driven the lady out immediately, but he beat her up in the presence of the Niece instead, and she witnessed everything and got a new found joy seeing her enemy get battered. Just watch as she'll completely disregard any lady that becomes That Ops girlfriend. To summarise the entire post, that OP made that post in order to look like a strong man, and many people fell for it. But in the real sense, he's just like many other men. 2 Likes |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by Mandela27: 7:37am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Noooooo!
NEVER TAKE HER BACK. |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by SEGLIZ: 8:29am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by shamsin6300(m): 8:35am On Aug 06, 2020 |
reservd: Emmm Tnkx,,,,, I learn something from this. |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by shamsin6300(m): 8:35am On Aug 06, 2020 |
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Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by SEGLIZ: 8:52am On Aug 06, 2020 |
reservd: the heart is fast and sensible when it comes to relationships but senseless in decision making. the mind should be the decision maker, be loving, at the same time learn to avoid stories that touches the heart by using your mind to decide and not you heart. the heart is meant to love and not to decide. 1 Like |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by ModestGal(f): 11:15am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Ayemileto:How many hours did it take you to finish this post? |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by Ayemileto(m): 11:48am On Aug 06, 2020 |
ModestGal: You mean typing that kind of post will take you "hours"? So, how many hours did it take you to construct your opening post? |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by ModestGal(f): 12:22pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Ayemileto:Its somehow long ni, thats why I asked. Mine isn't long, you really took your time to write something extremely meaningful o |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by ModestGal(f): 12:33pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
SEGLIZ:Exactly bros |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by Crownstar01: 12:37pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
The girlfriend should leave and never return because she's so arrogant and bossy. |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by Martinez39s(m): 12:38pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:The guy is not an abuser in any way. He warned his GF seriously to stop maltreating his niece but she didn't heed. He couldn't take it any longer and he gave her a taste of her own medicine. In his niece's mind, he is a kind man who protected her from an abusive witch. If in future she should count those who were kind to her, she wouldn't forget her uncle. Many simps would have prioritise their abusive spouse, sent their poor niece packing, and foolishly retain their relationship with a toxic witch. After all, we have a lot of women and shameless manginas who in such situations always think the man is at fault for the abuse by letting his young relative(s) stay when he could send the relative(s) packing. 1 Like |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by Ayemileto(m): 1:44pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
ModestGal: Lol. Yours was long as well |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by Regex: 4:46pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
ModestGal: I am already on my feet for the abused. But that man should never take his fiancee back. 1 Like |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by SEGLIZ: 5:10pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
ModestGal: it is so disheartening how the weaker one are being abused daily. husband and wife molesting the children their partners brought from their previous relationship. relatives abusing dependant relatives taking refuge with as a result of one circumstance of the other. people molesting their maid or male servants. my wife told me of a client she went to offer a service to at her resident three days ago. it is unworthy the way the woman and her children treated the little girl serving as their maid. the daughter was busy using her mums laptop for her online class, when the mother demanded for the laptop as she was returning to work. the maid was ask to fetch the bag but could find, coming back to the girl saying 'you brought it out of the bag so you should know where you left.' she came after the maid hauling insult and curses, can't quote her but I remember my wife saying she used the word hopeless, useless. she confirmed the mother attacking the girl in same manner. the said client got confused on which attire to use, the maid innocently suggesting to the woman on what might be the best outfit the event got attacked by the same daughter. she went as far as telling her mom to make sure deal with the maid on those happenings. this is how evil and degraded our society has became. |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by ModestGal(f): 6:48pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
SEGLIZ:We live in a society that no one stands for the weak |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by chinchonglee(m): 8:43pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
OP if u re really a girl den God bless you for speaking the truth... U judged this matter from all perspective both moral, emotional and reality. U re priceless nt all dese rubbish feminist we ve here saying he has no right to touch a woman.. God bless you.. u re type a man shuld be looking to have in his life. |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by chinchonglee(m): 8:51pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:U re a fool
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Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by chinchonglee(m): 8:53pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
PussyOdour:Tell that ur guy that he is a rare gem. I love his decision. |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by chinchonglee(m): 8:57pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Ayemileto:Stay in ur village and be making useless assumptions to make u look intelligent. How did u come up with all ur useless conclusions. Big mouthed fool |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by Ayemileto(m): 9:02pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
chinchonglee: I'm actually intelligent, and I'm not a fool as well. Go and read the first thread created by the original author, then come here to dispute my points constructively. |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by Alwaysachick: 9:17pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
chinchonglee: I know the truth really hurts but it still remains the truth. The man is no different from the lady. Beat a woman to a pulp because she told a little girl what to do? I don't support child abuse or torture but the man would have just told her to leave his house since she will not listen to him. He inflicted visible injuries, that is domestic violence. How did he even present his case at the hospital, and she is still in his house, some women nawa |
Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by chinchonglee(m): 9:19pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Ayemileto:U said many fallacies. That she is the giy's girlfriend and not financee. That the guy had not introduced himself to yhe family etc... How did u arrive to dese conclusion Ur pastor or imam told you? |
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