emmaodet:


This is why am always surprise when guys bash men who bring their stories to nairaland for advice.
2/3 days ago, a moniker opened a thread and seek for advice about his wife who just got to UK less than a month ad has been frolicking with a strange man to the extent she added him to their private WhatsApp video call.
Many people came for him saying he is insecured blah blah blah.
For God sake, the heart of man is where his treasure and money is.
The man said he has spent close to 27m for visa and relocation for his family (wife and 4 kids) and you don’t want him to be insecured and monitoring his life investment?
How many people can invest just 5m naira without close monitoring? To a man, a woman is an investment reason why we spend a lot in relationships, gifts, money, wedding, running the family etc. This is an investment yet people will just be throwing unsecured or not matured around.

ubunja:
that's the game brotherman...

Men invest Financially in a woman, women invest Sexually in a man.

But it definitely goes beyond sex for women and becomes more nuanced.
Yes, women invest Sexually in a man but there are women who can't have sex (eg virgins and celibate women) so don't these women get invested?
They definitely do get invested - even without the sex, So sex apparently comes short of being the universal hook we want it to be, begging us to find a more universal all-encompassing hook that will cover ALL women regardless of sexual status. The answer is EMOTIONS.

Yes women invest Sexually but it's not just the sex itself it's the EMOTIONS that follow the sex such that if a man can draw these emotions without sleeping with a woman (eg dealing with virgins and celibate women) he'll still get her invested without the sex; and note: If a woman is actively separating the sex she's having with a man, separating it from her emotions, then she won't get invested no matter how much she fuccs him. No string attached sex don't count to women such that they don't even include it in their body count. Unless the sex is extremely good then she'll become hooked and by extension emotional and by extension invested. But the hook is the emotions.

We say "sex gets women invested" just cause the easiest way to a woman's emotions is her puccy.

Dabronze:
@Eric247
What I observed about your issues is that you are given yourself too much comfort and this are the things that are killing your testosterone ,you will need to change your daily routine
You increase your T- level by this simple habit

1. Take cold shower early in the morning before 6.00 am

2.Do push- ups everyday don't give yourself a target just continue doing it until until you are exhursted

3. Avoid plastic food eat enough vegetables And also avoid sugar drinks replace it with water

4. Read motivational book I can recommend if you don't have one

5.Relate with people to build your social circle meet new people surround yourself with people that will motivate you

6.Meditate often before you get out bed stay away from TV, your phones or any thing that can distract you

Is just a matter of time everything will be fine just stay focus

Vulcanheph:

It depends on the kind of hotel...
Is it a big 5 star hotel or a small hotel.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
BECAUSE OF KPEKUS, THIS NIGGA FALL HIM HAND

WIFE WEY BE SAY KNACKING FOR HER STILL DEY IMMINENT

Abba114:
i dont believe that the main reason is KPEKUS. nigger is going through a lots in silence and the woman add more to it. why dont rich men commit suicide over women?

CaveAdullam:


1. If you understand the level of commitment, sacrifice, sweat, and blood men put into romance and sexual relationships just to ensure the setting and building of a family you'll know why they always go extreme in doing things.

2. Jealousy reigns in men's veins. They can kill to secure a mate or protect their mate. "Simping" is rooted in men's psyche. It is because of our conscious awareness of female nature that's even trying to liberate some men. Despite that, they do go astray sometimes.

3. From the external, "the man is a weak man. He killed himself because of cheap pvssy. He is not fit to be a man blah blah blah" people will say.

But no one ever cares to see his level of sacrifice. No one cares to know how much he has tolerated just to make sure the relationship works. It is men that make a relationship work not women because it is men that have the bulk of the workload.

4. Heartbreak hurts. But women always have options B, C, D, E, F...as a fallback. No matter how much a pvssy is fvcked, it never becomes a man's property, it remains the woman's. But commitment is a sacrifice. Once it leaves the man, it is gone forever.

5. It is stories like this that are making men check out of the dating market - MGTOW, monks, VCEL, etc. Because there are no incentives for men in marriage. The sexual market has been so polluted that women can commit an act of depravity that breaks their marriage vows and still get paid for it or excused. So, why should men care to start the marriage journey anyway?

6. As far as I understand, as the sexual market gets worst, there will be a raise of sociopathic, toxic men who will cause great harm to women who jilt them. Women may see it as a game and anchor it to their evolution, however, these men don't care. For a temporary time let these women feel they can have their cake and eat it with gayness.

7. But we will try our best possible to preach the message so that more men can be redeemed or know what to do.

8. Truth be spoken, the family is a core unit of civilization. And civilization is built upon the shoulders of men. Therefore, men must have great incentives in whatever they do as far as it brings growth and prosperity.

9. The fact that this young man committed suicide doesn't necessarily mean he's weak. His death is the greatest sacrifice in the relationship even though he failed to understand female nature.

He wanted to close his eyes forever than bear the shame and pain of his name being ridiculed because of the reckless behavior of his wife and (children). The waste of his commitment for decades. He just wanted to protect his ego, albeit, the wrong way.

May his soul finds peace.

DAY 305, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Put yourself first.

JESHAL:
Men are naturally slaves to their sexual desires.

A man's greatest weakness is a woman. When a man sees an attractive woman he loses his sense of reasoning, which makes sense biologically speaking, since in order for the penis to harden, blood needs to leave the brain.

To control a man all you need to do is capitalize on his weakness for your body and use it to your advantage.

JESHAL:
If she's not a virgin, don't marry, don't commit to used up hoes and celebrate that you have found your NAWALT, your missing rib, someone that has far more sexual experience and relationship skills than you,by default she controls the frame of the relationship, you can't teach or mould her into your image since she has been imprinted sexually and mentally, she's going to control you, manipulate you, weaponize sex against you.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
THE BOSS IS BACK

Dabronze:
There is always a rewards on your choice?

ashewoboy:




This is true. Women that have had several sexual partner before marriage are damaged. Sex damages a woman. Keep it up. You are an advocate for marrying a virgin.

ubunja:

Yes man,, sorry I missed this mention. Blessing definitely knows the game. And her gender-inclusive approach is rare in these days of men vs women content. I actually spend a lot of time on her page.

Eric247:



Yes sir, I'm a student currently facing exams now

Labadi69:


Guy if you know what is good for you, stop reading all the junk that the Zimbabwean immigrant in SA called Ubunja writes. This guy is a well known chronic masturbator addicted to porn and most of his writings are just based on what he reads from oloshos plus what he sees in pornos.

He feeds gullible people like you all those fantasies and after reading, your libido gets high and you start thinking about toto from morning to night. When you realize say e no easy like that to get toto, na so soapy and ashawo house go be wetin dey your head.

You better give yourself sense before yamayama from Ubunja go destroy your life. A word is enough for the wise

ubunja:
A woman always keeps a record of which men fucced her the best. These men stay in her mind indefinitely and she'll do everything in her power to stay in touch with them her whole life --- whenever she gets into a new relationship, sex with these men is the standard against which she measures the sex with the new man and where the new man can not perform to that standard, these are the men she knows she can go to, who can do the job.

Sex with these men is easy because she has a history with them and the emotional connection is already there plus sleeping with them does not add to her body count since she has slept with them before.This is why women are always in touch with their Ex boyfriends and also why they don't want you to have any contact with your own Exes since they fear you may be playing the same game.

Men who know how to Bleep are very rare and no woman will let such a man go, even if the relationship ends.

When a woman is single or when she has given up on relationships, these are the men she's exclusively dealing with. She can even thrive on these situationships for the rest of her life.

ubunja:
lol At this point just admit you've a crush on me. it ain't a crime for your dicc to get hard thinking about another man....


meanwhile......

Abba114:
that my girl once said to me even if she gets married we will still be friends

Dshocker:
Prostitution is the highest employer of female labour below the age of 40

Scale of job for women in Nigeria, below 40yrs

1....50% prostitution
2....5% white-collar job
3....5% makeup artist
4....5% Traders
5....3% Hairstylist
6....2% Nail Tech
7....4% Interior Deco
8....4% Baking
9....1% I.T
10....21% Jobless

taiocol:

Returned to the village I finished secondary school and saw some of my classmates both male and female.. Especially the females dem boiz use to chase back then. Omo
Your guess is as good as mine

ubunja:
always nice to see one of our own on the world stage.. big up @thegidredpiller.
nice one!

Zonefree:
Why are modern feminists mostly jilted and bittered women? You hardly see a happy feminist.



*Nairaland as a case study.

TheGidRedpiller:
The funny thing is that, THEY HAVE ALWAYS BEEN JILTED AND BITTER.

What you experience from modern feminists is the same thing you experience from ruthless rich men.

Rich men aren't ruthless because they have money, they are ruthless because they have ALWAYS BEEN, the money just further illuminated their traits!!

80% of modern day feminists have always wanted to hit on men, they are just hiding behind feminism to achieve this goal and still attain unaccountability for them.
Feminism is a platform for modern women to be misandric and still be praised for it.

TRP IS GOLDEN!!