Your lust is her gain.

Agbaje1246:
Now,your body don cool down

Abi

luminouz:


He says 'love sex too much', not women too much..

You can actually love sex too much with just one woman or a few women(1-3). I don't see anything bad in that but what's bad is loving and having sex too much with different women(100-20000)... Shows a lack of comtrol

For me, I can't love the two too much because too much of a thing is a begining of disaster for the doer or lover

luminouz:


I've had same experience as yours. That's why I laugh at people who said redpillers hate women. I don't hate them but understand them. I have been helped severally by women when my own gender turned me down. Not to say men never helped me at all. But I've received help from more women than men. If not for a lady, I would have died in 2016 in Abuja when my classmate(who was married) suddenly decided not to host me after previously agreeing(said his wife disagreed) when I already got to Abuja park. I knew no one in Abuja and I was turned down brutally by 3 different churches(after talking to their pastors).

I called Oge who I met online on NL and had never seen and she came to my aid. She called two yoruba guys in Abuja and they rejected me. She tried to take me to her house but her parents refused because I'm Yoruba (just by hearing my name on her phone, even though I look like Ibo). Oge kept going from house to house in that area looking for where I would sleep, ignoring her parents' calls to come home. I later found refuge in a church owned by an ibo prophetess around 1am. She took care of me till I left for my interview that day.

I finished late at the interview and Oge sneaked me back into her parents house when they were at work. I was in her room for three days , eating good food and fuqin good pussy. I was notified after 3 months that I passed the interview (a scholarship) and my greatest regret was losing my phone with Oge's number and not repaying that prophetess for her kindness when I went back to Abuja. That is just one of many help I've had from people/women and other tribes/races, which is why racism/tribalism is dead to me.

That would be really painful 😣
I have been helped by female but my strong head no let me appreciate her instead i always ignore her on several occasions whenever she tried to talk to me.

Women get bored easily, and that's why they love players.

Players are skilled at giving them a rollercoaster of emotions, which equates to drama for them.

As a man.

You have to find somebody you want to emulate - at least partially.

You don’t copy that person exactly, you pick and choose the traits you want.

Absorb from different men and build your ideal self.

It’s your job to convince them to teach you.

And once you find good people to learn from?

You're able to quickly change the person you are.

That's what I did when I was coming up.

From my father, I was instilled with a mindset of excellence.

And over the years I learned from others.

The result?

I've got a mind of iron.

I'm in top physical condition.

Rich man all while still young.

I am now a great man.

If your friends don't demand excellence from you.

And if you have nobody around you who's at a higher level.

It's mathematically impossible for you to fully develop.

It would be like me putting you in a boxing gym run by bicyclists.

You'd have zero proper training.

They don't have the qualities that make a good boxer, they can't even throw a punch.

How are they going to teach you anything about boxing?

On the other hand, if you've got people to emulate?

You'll learn quickly.

Your coaches will let you know what’s important to focus on.

What exercises helped them,

What fundamentals to focus on.

You'll grow QUICKLY into a good boxer.

If you want to get anywhere in life.

Finding the right mentors and friends is crucial.

If you're looking to get rich?

With the right friends, you'll talk about what you're working on.

Day in and day out.

Working together and learning better approaches.

And with your mentors, you'll skip the errors and go straight to the top.

Find someone who's done it before you to emulate.

It's the fastest way.



📖::: Andrew Tate

Akinbahm:


Guess what, am number 3.

Lmaoooo....na joke I dey o biko...

FORGET NIGERIAN GIRLS MANY OF THEM OF TODAY ARE OLOSHOS

luvyaself95:


That would be really painful 😣
I have been helped by female but my strong head no let me appreciate her instead i always ignore her on several occasions whenever she tried to talk to me.

Do you mind sharing?

Karlifate:
If you refuse to achieve success as a man, you will be looked down upon & be labelled as a failure.

If you play the success game & win, you will spend the rest of your life protecting what you’ve built.


The harsh reality of a being a man: Either way, your existence will not escape suffering.

In essence, you must collect.

Is it true that redpillers are incels?

princekami:


Hello Nairalanders

So I read Pukkalolo book Tittled below and I am here to recommend this book for every Nigga out there that is having trouble starting a conversation with a lady or not know what to say during the conversation.

This short book gives detailed and relatable scenarios of how to execute and handle the authors “shameless approach “

My favorite part of this book is in the introduction where he said and I quote “ I assume that most guys who are reading this have their "basics" handle. or at least are working towards geting handled. When I say basics,I mean your physical appearance, having a good personality, having ambition regarding your career and finances, etc.”

This shows that the author is big on self development before anything else.


Kindly contact the author to get a copy and trust me you’ll find this short book very helpful.

I’m emphasizing on short because I know that most of you don’t have time to read lotta text.

#Respect.

My 18 year old fiancee (turning 19 in October), after constantly receiving physical abuses at home and no intention from her divorced parents to take her education serious, informed them she was leaving then she moved in with me voluntary on her own will, I am just a year older than her, I am 19 and turning 20 soon, I already proposed to her which she accepted earlier this year and she proposed the idea of court marriage to me, I made plans to prepare her and put her in school, we lived comfortably and fine without problems until her mother brought vigilantes to my residence, they beat me up with metals, heavy log of wood, they forced their way into my room took my two laptops, phone and tab, took my apple airpods pro, tore my shirt and paraded me on the streets like a criminal, threatened me with weapons and violence to unlock my phone, my mother and I were locked in a police cell for more than 24 hours, paid a lot of money as bail before we left.
Police kept beating my fiancee to reduce her age while writing her statement because her mother whom often abused her wanted to make a case to put me in prison. My fiancee was slapped by police officer and forced to make untrue statements but she didn't give in. My fiancee cried that she wanted to continually stay with me but she received beating for saying it, she cried and later revealed to me that a policeman attempted to rape her at the counter after sending out a junior officer, she even said the man was masturbating and cum. At the end of the day my left ear is blown and I can't hear from it, police forced me to write an undertaking to call off my relationship before letting me go on bail. My mother is not feeling fine after spending time in cell for what is not her business, Did I do any wrong allowing a lady who will be turning 19 soon come live in my residence out of her own free will? Is love a crime?

Sorry about your experience. Based on your story I assume that her mother told the police that you were an internet fraudster that was cohabiting with her underaged daughter.

You did not commit any crime ( if your story is true) and do not deserve the treatment that was meted out to you.

It is likely that your girl lied about being abused or you both made it up to justify your hormone driven actions.

Do not bear grudge. The system is not perfect. Learn from this experience.

Since your girl was loyal to you, please be there for her.

Most parents despite their differences want the best for their children so I believe there might have been some miscommunication between you and her parents.

Try your best to forgive and forget this incident.

IF YOU BELIEVE THAT THIS RELATIONSHIP IS RIGHT FOR YOU ( I have strong reservations about this though), reach out to your girl's parents and dialogue with them.

Goodluck.

Tyg3rFvry:
My 18 year old fiancee (turning 19 in October), after constantly receiving physical abuses at home and no intention from her divorced parents to take her education serious, informed them she was leaving then she moved in with me voluntary on her own will, I am just a year older than her, I am 19 and turning 20 soon, I already proposed to her which she accepted earlier this year and she proposed the idea of court marriage to me, we lived comfortably and fine without problems until her mother brought vigilantes to my residence, they beat me up with metals, heavy log of wood, they forced their way into my room took my two laptops, phone and tab, took my apple airpods pro, tore my shirt and paraded me on the streets like a criminal, threatened me with weapons and violence to unlock my phone, my mother and I were locked in a police cell for more than 24 hours, paid a lot of money as bail before we left.
Police kept beating my fiancee to reduce her age while writing her statement because her mother whom often abused her wanted to make a case to put me in prison. My fiancee was slapped by police officer and forced to make untrue statements but she didn't give in. My fiancee cried that she wanted to continually stay with me but she received beating for saying it, she cried and later revealed to me that a policeman attempted to rape her at the counter after sending out a junior officer, she even said the man was masturbating and cum. At the end of the day my left ear is blown and I can't hear from it, police forced me to write an undertaking to call off my relationship before letting me go on bail. My mother is not feeling fine after spending time in cell for what is not her business, Did I do any wrong allowing a lady who will be turning 19 soon come live in my residence out of her own free will? Is love a crime?

Proverbs 22:3

A prudent man sees danger and hides himself

But the simple go on ,and suffer for it.

I really hope you've stopped thinking like a SIMPle man after this ordeal.

You should thank your stars your life was spared.

Housing a woman without the parents blessing is always a recipe for disaster.

You're still young,make better choices henceforth.

Think with your head not your dick.

Smartb0y:



Proverbs 22:3

A prudent man sees danger and hides himself

But the simple go on ,and suffer for it.

I really hope you've stopped thinking like a SIMPle man after this ordeal.

You should thank your stars your life was spared.

Housing a woman without the parents blessing is always a recipe for disaster.

You're still young,make better choices henceforth.

Think with your head not your dick.

nigga wanna act like a superhero take on the responsibility of a girl from a broken home.

still want to sponsor her to school too ,all this at the age of 20 abi 19 .


when he hasn't gotten his life in order finish, wants to carry another liability,there's just doom written all over that guy life I have no pity for him.


He's lucky they didn't charge him with kidnapping.

Kudos

PhillipPHD:
Your lust is her gain.

talented321:
Kudos

So you are a redpiller smh

They want a man other women admire' so she can feel ontop.
So as u said women love competition' they always go to where their is competition so that they can be relevant, women are always looking for unnecessary attention.

Karlifate:
Women get bored easily, and that's why they love players.

Players are skilled at giving them a rollercoaster of emotions, which equates to drama for them.

All those small boys that used to talk anyhow in this thread have suddenly gone missing, they are fed up of lying to themselves. Thread will eventually go into oblivion.

As a man don't be afraid to loose any woman' even when u fall in love let it has a boundary.
If she know u are afraid to loose her that is where she will manipulate you.
Women respect men who have other options apart from her'' because you can change her anytime and any moment.
''Know ur worth''

O

luminouz:


Lmaoooo....na joke I dey o biko...

I say make I follow your footsteps ni.😎

As a man know that the world is against u since from the very day u was born.
That is why every man without cash is regard as lazy and useless.
It is the reason why a woman can go into marriage with out anything where as a man can't.

On a normal note'' u don't have to allow a girl who can't buy data for herself, who don't have transport fare to visit you and a girl who can't buy her basic needs without involving men to worry your life.

Kipaji:


I am going again now. Stronger and more experienced. I'll take at least a full year out of Nairaland and go Monk Mode.
Thank you.

Hi soldiers.

I battled against lust, perversion, and degeneracy for 170 days... and I failed yesterday, on the 171st day. I am here to report.

I had to reach 365 days and from there carry on with a porn-free degeneracy-free lifestyle. Yet, I did not even made it half way. I am disappointed by my performance. The fight was tenacious. It was the hardest journey I have ever undertaken in my entire life. Nonetheless, It made me a stronger and better man with a better outlook of self, men, women, and life.
That said, I am not giving up. I refuse to give up. Lust will not win. Evil will not win. Porn will not win. Degeneracy will not win. I will stand up, re-strategize, and get back stronger and wiser. It is a fight I cannot avoid as a man. It is a fight I embrace, because I choose strength over pleasure.

I wish you the best soldiers.
Stay strong.

logicalhumour:



The sperm you'll "waste" will be produced withing minutes/hours, however.

I am surprised you say you are a medical student but you are saying this. There’s difference between sperm and semen. It is true the body produces sperm every seconds. But in the act of ejaculation whereby sperm and semen is released. The sperm can be reproduced within minutes. But semen is not. The body does not produce semen at the same rate and it does not absorb the semen at the same rate. this is due to age/aging, and other lifestyle factors.

When you ejaculate during sex, the sperm can be reproduced, but semen which acts as a protective barrier/film inside the human body gets depleted and weaken. This is why we get sick. It applies to both men and women but men especially because we release more than women. Imagine a man going 5 rounds on a woman and cumming all through while the woman isn’t even close to hers.

The only solution to the OP you quoted is to learn the act of having sex without ejaculation. It is very possible but not easily possible with masturbation. Only weak men with weak internal organs ejaculate easily. This is due to the weaken protective barrier inside the body(frequent Loss of Semen). Imagine a car engine, you pour engine oil in it, over time the oil weakens, loses its protective barrier and the car engine becomes cranky.

luvyaself95:
full bass dosage of the pills 😊😊😊

I am not redpill anymore. Going 5 months and a half without porn, sex, masturbation, and redpills showed me that the redpill is a scam, a distraction, and an obstruction to joyfulness.

I will help my son being masculine by encouraging him to find, be, and stand for himself, not by teaching him redpill tactics.

imustsaymymindo:


Hmm....Interesting.

I am not sure of your exact reason for going Monk mode, but I believe if your purpose is one that revolves around self-actualization i.e. deep down that is the kind of life you want to live, then you would succeed.

For me, the purpose is everything. I am never a fan of dos and don'ts.

Take, masturbation for example...

Masturbation can ruin your abundance mentality when you masturbate for fun, when it is an addiction, or when you masturbate just because.

Same masturbation can increase your abundance mentality and give you the logic you need in situations when you can lose your frame such as you have got yourself a lay and you are eager, masturbation before meeting your lay could actually set you up in the right frame. Or you are in a relationship with a girl you really love and you are starting to lose your frame, masturbation could help reset you to a temporal state of abundance.

I think when trying to improve masculinity positively, we should learn to use all things as pragmatically as we can. We are not all testosterone, you know. There is still some estrogen and other female hormones in us. And pragmatism involves using them to our advantage. There may be a need to think like a woman, and even act biitchey for the right purpose.

There is no inherent gain of Monk mode. Its gain revolves around your own purpose for venturing just like every other thing. With a purpose that supersedes your personal esteem or bragging rights or trying to bottle up your testosterone, or heartbreak avoidance but one that revolves around self-actualization, I'm sure you'd succeed.

Thank you for your well-thought-out input. Life is not black and white. This dualism comes from Western thought. In African civilizations, we use complex thought not black-or-white thought. And in complexity, we try have a multi-angle perspective and deal with both the good and the bad.
That said, there are two key things I don't agree with you on: masturbation and the inherit benefits of monk mode. First, I don't see masturbating as masculine. Second, monk mode, in and by itself, has inherent benefits (like fasting) including a stronger mind and better ability to focus.

Princeadebayo11:
Guy I need your opinion on this matter, there is this girl I met through her sister (my student), we exchanged contact and we started chatting. I propose love to her but she said she didn't have heart to love again. Now she agreed to visit me soon and I have been visiting her often also. Last week she even requested for my assistance which I just helped because of her sister. she is telling me she doesn't have heart to love and yet she kept giving me attention as if we are in relationship. Although I have planned if she visits me soon, I will touch body oo

She has been more than clear enough. She is still caught up on her past lover(s) and can't receive your love. The best thing to do would have been to wish her well and let her go. But, obnubilated by lust and delusion, you still want to deal with her. And when you'll get burnt you will say she's a hoe. This is one of the major benefits of monk mode. You are able to take important decisions with little to no influence of lust. You get a clearer mind and a clearer life.

With that said, that she doesn't want love doesn't mean she doesn't want sex.

Tyg3rFvry:
My 18 year old fiancee (turning 19 in October), after constantly receiving physical abuses at home and no intention from her divorced parents to take her education serious, informed them she was leaving then she moved in with me voluntary on her own will, I am just a year older than her, I am 19 and turning 20 soon, I already proposed to her which she accepted earlier this year and she proposed the idea of court marriage to me, I made plans to prepare her and put her in school, we lived comfortably and fine without problems until her mother brought vigilantes to my residence, they beat me up with metals, heavy log of wood, they forced their way into my room took my two laptops, phone and tab, took my apple airpods pro, tore my shirt and paraded me on the streets like a criminal, threatened me with weapons and violence to unlock my phone, my mother and I were locked in a police cell for more than 24 hours, paid a lot of money as bail before we left.
Police kept beating my fiancee to reduce her age while writing her statement because her mother whom often abused her wanted to make a case to put me in prison. My fiancee was slapped by police officer and forced to make untrue statements but she didn't give in. My fiancee cried that she wanted to continually stay with me but she received beating for saying it, she cried and later revealed to me that a policeman attempted to rape her at the counter after sending out a junior officer, she even said the man was masturbating and cum. At the end of the day my left ear is blown and I can't hear from it, police forced me to write an undertaking to call off my relationship before letting me go on bail. My mother is not feeling fine after spending time in cell for what is not her business, Did I do any wrong allowing a lady who will be turning 19 soon come live in my residence out of her own free will? Is love a crime?

No, love is not a crime. It's your actions that's a crime.
Why will you camp a lady in your house?
Why will you decides to be sending her to school?
What will you be gaining in this type of relationship?

Every time you get into relationship with people ask yourself at what cost.

Dabronze:
The wife material test

This is one of the key reasons I left the redpill. It teaches men to be fake. I had to go months without sex/porn/masturbation/redpill to see that.

Dabronze:
........

Let's take hate out of your heart. Soldiers, we don't have to rejoice in women struggles. Most of them make bad and dump decisions. But that's their life, that's their problem. We don't have to hate them, we don't have to mock them, we don't have to make them feel any type of way. We can wish them the best at a distance. No need to hate.