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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 11:26am On Jun 18, 2021
Martinez39s:
I remember travelling to my home town earlier this year. Even in Ibo towns, hardly does anyone frowns on a girl marrying as a non-virgin. The standard has dropped.

It's the same in other regions of the country. Old traditions, in some parts of the south west (as I'm aware), older women were always there to confirm the virginity of a fully betrothed female. Where it was confirmed that she was not a virgin, she was returned back to her father's house and her family ridiculed. Now, you have teenage girls popping out babies for men who are not responsible while waiting (when older) for guys who have hustled hard to get their shiit together (Dual Mating Strategy). The ones who don't have babies have multiple abortions. I won't blame anyone on this as there are a lot to blame (that's a talk for another day). Women are adapting to their new freedoms, I'm adapting equally. Others can do what they "wish" about it and I'm in full support if it is, for the benefit of men.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Fearjah: 11:30am On Jun 18, 2021
Let me use this opportunity to give credit to everyone who has been contributing to this thread including the person who opened this thread.

Caveadullum ubanja sozzin matinezz Theudercover....................................
Time will fail me if i keep mentioning names.

I see all we are talking about here as something like behavioral psychology.

Redpill, bluepill, alpha, simp, og, beta etc
Those are ambiguous words that people use according to their own understanding.

Some of what we discuss here are things i have applied all my life, consciously or subconsciously.

I have also gotten a better understanding of certain human behaviors from here.

If you are new here, please remember turn on your filter.


Kudos to everyone!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kaymicheal852: 12:34pm On Jun 18, 2021
ubunja:
Fair exchange ain't no robbery. As long as a woman judges it fair to give me pussy, then it's fair. Regardless of how you yourself judges it.

Check it out, women by nature gravitate and congregate around that man ALREADY getting pussy. If you're single no girl wants you. Get a GF and suddenly many girls want you. So you think then a guy being a willing participant in that dynamic is immoral and wrong? Lmfao. Nice reasonable guys like you don't get far with pussy because pussy doesn't think about right or wrong. Sorry to tell you.

We'll always fvck virgins and still expect to marry virgins. It doesn't have to make sense to you. That's just how the game is. Women fleece guys daily out of money but still expect to marry rich men. You think they stop to think "If we're getting all these men broke where will rich men come from?" they don't man. Its a cold world. That's the world of business and sexual reproduction. Only the strong will survive. Now choose what role you'll play.




BOLDED

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 12:38pm On Jun 18, 2021
So much feminine energy on the thread today. It can only mean one thing: People are getting triggered by some posts. Don't worry gents, hold frame, after the truth has angered you it will set you free.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 12:52pm On Jun 18, 2021
All women are like that.

Old
Present
Future grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 1:19pm On Jun 18, 2021
SOZINN:
All women are like that.

Old
Present
Future grin
100%

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 1:19pm On Jun 18, 2021
ichidodo:
The only thing that time will tell is us the old boys staying true to the message and telling it how it is no matter who don't like it because that's what it is whether we like it or not ...and let me just say..What the f**k is this subtle opprobrium directed at the old ones especially Ubunja?..Where was people when he was preaching himself hoarse all of 2017,2018,2019 etc about the redpill...One thing I know for sure was most of us here were all sleeping dreamily in the blue pilled world.Now y'all suddenly come awake and think y'all know sh**t..Most don't give him the credit that is due heck some even go and plagiarise the little credit that he got just to get all that love and adulations from people and when he's pissed y'all are indignant.How dare he?,some even go as far as opposing his views but back in the day y'all was swallowing heavy doses of Miseducations....What Changed?
that's human nature at the end of the day. I'm even repeating the same truths no one had issues with in the past, and many even welcomed the concepts at the time (eg enjoying women's money) but today everyone is up in arms against that. Which just shows they've stopped growing and are in fact going backd to their blue pill mindset. Even Martinez39s said it yesterday? "I see blue pill seeds being subtly planted".

People must stay vigilant and not lose frame. The game ain't for the weak and those unwilling to let go especially of ego will see themselves meeting the same problems with women over and over again.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by djon78(m): 1:30pm On Jun 18, 2021
Itzlinda:


Well these figures aren't true. Nigeria doesn't even have proper data of its population or immigration, let alone something as critical as paternity fraud.



Those data they are peddling on paternity fraud are not true

Nigeria that has no reliable data almost on everything now has data on paternity fraud

Does Nigeria even know the basic thing as her population size?
Do we know how many we are?

The last census done was in 2005 during OBJ era and still it was still not credible

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 1:36pm On Jun 18, 2021
grin grin
So Nigeria, with all the big churches, over-religious citizens( of which 99% are actually hypocrites or religiously blinded), old and intending patriachs who think patriarchy can curtail women, lazy, broke and entitled females, we rank second in paternity fraud.
They've even changed the name from "Cheating" to "MISTAKENLY HAD SEX" cheesy
Tomorrow is Saturday, another huge set of men would get married to their "unicorn soulmates"
Crazy Crazy world grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 1:54pm On Jun 18, 2021
Zabiboy:
grin grin
So Nigeria, with all the big churches, over-religious citizens( of which 99% are actually hypocrites or religiously blinded), old and intending patriachs who think patriarchy can curtail women, lazy, broke and entitled females, we rank second in paternity fraud.
They've even changed the name from "Cheating" to "MISTAKENLY HAD SEX" cheesy
Tomorrow is Saturday, another huge set of men would get married to their "unicorn soulmates"
Crazy Crazy world grin
while I can't speak on the Jamaican situation, it makes sense that strict patriarchy will breed partenity fraud. Because the cost is high for a lady who has whored, it will make it the obvious solution for products of whoring (illegitimate kids), to be presented as belonging to the official man ie the husband.
In a hoe community like the US there'll be no need for such since the marriage rate itself is low and single mothers dominate and men are willing to raise other men's kids.
But I can't be surprised if my theory doesn't hold water since I don't understand the Jamaicans and the state of the patriarchy there and why they're on top of the list.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jessepaid(m): 1:59pm On Jun 18, 2021
djon78:



Those data they are peddling on paternity fraud are not true

Nigeria that has no reliable data almost on everything now has data on paternity fraud

Does Nigeria even know the basic thing as her population size?
Do we know how many we are?

The last census done was in 2005 during OBJ era and still it was still not credible
Hehehe...

True...


The federal government can only make estimates on the actual population in Nigeria..


Thus we can only estimate the figures on paternity fraud which in reality are not far from accurate..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jessepaid(m): 2:07pm On Jun 18, 2021
Zabiboy:
grin grin
So Nigeria, with all the big churches, over-religious citizens( of which 99% are actually hypocrites or religiously blinded), old and intending patriachs who think patriarchy can curtail women, lazy, broke and entitled females, we rank second in paternity fraud.
They've even changed the name from "Cheating" to "MISTAKENLY HAD SEX" cheesy
Tomorrow is Saturday, another huge set of men would get married to their "unicorn soulmates"
Crazy Crazy world grin
Hehehe....

I don't think a greater number of people getting married theses days do so for soulmates stuff...


It's all about compatibility and the need to build a home with both spouses independent from their immediate families...


Soulmate issue don wash since....


The trending one is now spiritual luck that some men attribute to them being with that particular lady...


I heard one man say since he started dating his babe, he has never lacked money or contracts etc...



So he decided to wife her..




I also heard a man say he was doing well in life but since he started dating his babe, doors started closing and he was becoming wretched....


so he decided to break up with the babe and BAM! things went back to normal in his life...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Executer: 2:11pm On Jun 18, 2021
bennyflipy:
I sacrificed a lot for this girl, when she's sick.

I'm a simp right?
Doing good for a human being doesn't make you a simp.dont become a sadist all in the name of redpill

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 2:12pm On Jun 18, 2021
Executer:

Doing good for a human being doesn't make you a simp.dont become a sadist all in the name of redpill
That's a troll from the ashewo thread.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LutanFyah: 2:12pm On Jun 18, 2021
ubunja:
that's human nature at the end of the day. I'm even repeating the same truths no one had issues with in the past, and many even welcomed the concepts at the time (eg enjoying women's money) but today everyone is up in arms against that. Which just shows they've stopped growing and are in fact going backd to their blue pill mindset. Even Martinez39s said it yesterday? "I see blue pill seeds being subtly planted".

People must stay vigilant and not lose frame. The game ain't for the weak and those unwilling to let go especially of ego will see themselves meeting the same problems with women over and over again.
Bro, some kings will never understand you until they're being paid a monthly stipend for just being a boyfriend.

Some kings here have never been in a position where a girl brings her friends for 3some,pays for lodging and still gives her king money for just sticking his rod in her friends.

Some kings who might not have the time to comment here will laugh at those guys who part with their hard earned money just to cum when they can get better girls that will do whatever her king wants just to be called his girlfriend.

I hope they grow to understand the difference between game and Redpill, and mostly importantly how to milk the resources from these ladies.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 2:12pm On Jun 18, 2021
@Zabiboy be careful oh.
Tomorrow is Saturday, before patriarchs will catch you. grin grin grin
You know they have a civilization to rebuild and maintain. grin grin grin grin grin grin
Hahahahahahhaha

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Executer: 2:15pm On Jun 18, 2021
Jeweltz:


These small boys sef. You don't even have the liver to quote me directly. Well, he's scared of what I've achieved for myself and that's all. Even when I have proved to be respectful and understanding and submissive, the idiot still had the brazen confidence to reject me. If you know you are not gonna marry me, why eating the coochie. Most of you are just confused. And the things I've been reading here since yesterday show me that you don't have respect for women undecided sad
Are you not also eating d gbola?? Smh
Ladies always be making sex look like a one way street

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Executer: 2:32pm On Jun 18, 2021
DeusMagnus:
we are not qurelling. Try dey tune down your voice. You don't have the monopoly of madness.
Dat guy mumu die

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Itzlinda(f): 2:32pm On Jun 18, 2021
SOZINN:

You want to go back to "female oppression".
Good luck with that grin
Although a lot of women don't value your so called "matrimonial vows". They still do as they please. As for married hoès still sleeping around. Let's not delve into that yet, it's not for the faint hearted. grin


There’s nothing like oppression here. No one should have absolute freedom, neither man no women. Only few adult are able to handle total freedom given to them.

Even boys find their way to yahoo and drugs after moving to university campuses.


Married women slept anywhere. But can you compare the rate of Nigeria with Saudi Arabia, where they will behead the woman if she’s found guilty of adultery.

Most girls are corrupted by their fellow women. They met toxic bitches at school and working place who destroy all the values instill with them for years.

90% of female teenagers are introduced to pornography by their fellow girl friends.

It is what it is.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Itzlinda(f): 2:37pm On Jun 18, 2021
djon78:



Those data they are peddling on paternity fraud are not true

Nigeria that has no reliable data almost on everything now has data on paternity fraud

Does Nigeria even know the basic thing as her population size?
Do we know how many we are?

The last census done was in 2005 during OBJ era and still it was still not credible

Everybody with little sense knows it is wrong. Nigeria doesn't have correct data on anything.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Executer: 2:38pm On Jun 18, 2021
nwaezeemmanuel:
Important

If you know you can't convey your thoughts here without shaming, insulting, guilt tripping or a need to be right - please go to another thread.

If you can't help anyone here with advice or useful information and only comment for banter, please go to another thread.

Being a better man means you've got to have better character.
Thanks

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 2:38pm On Jun 18, 2021
Kaymicheal852:





BOLDED
I see nothing bolded.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Executer: 2:40pm On Jun 18, 2021
ubunja:
my apologies bro if I suddenly sound pro-women. The brotherman appears to feel a certain way about female independence which I don't think is logical or healthy especially considering we're in Africa where there are places with unhealthy forms of Patriarchy still in play. It doesn't subtract from the redpill to acknowledge women's struggles. We all know women in some African territories still grapple with the scourge of female genital mutilation and child marriage, being red pill must not make us animals that we cast a blind eye especially when the victims in all this haven't actively chosen that fate and there's no whoring or female stupidity involved.
As much as I don't like your "pride" I agree 1000 percent with you on this.you really do have a good head on you

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 2:44pm On Jun 18, 2021
As long as redpill is concern here on naiiraland UBUNJA is an OG. I am not trying to promote him that's just the fact...

I have being silently observing what is happening here, how some of us are now trying to deny the fact that ubunja is the one that exposed them to the redpill here on naiiraland. Some even go as much as insulting him, trying to take his credit etc. And when some people like Martinez and Many others try to correct them, they will now tag it as trying to side his master or OG(which is very bad)..

Any person who is long here on naiiraland will agree with the fact that ubunja, Martinez, hardoon and many few others are the people that was preaching about the redpill, before this new set now came out. But now they are trying to make people believe they are the real redpillers while it was ubunja and many few others that introduced them to the redpill.

I am an old redpiller here in spite of the fact that I decided to be silent and keep learning from you guys. Though I am impressed with what I am seeing here because most of u are really trying.

I know some people will still call it asslicking, but they know the truth...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jun 18, 2021
TO BROTHERS OF THE REDPILL. MEN ARE THE VICTIMS WOMEN ARE NOT.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ichidodo: 3:13pm On Jun 18, 2021
softguy1:
As long as redpill is concern here on naiiraland UBUNJA is an OG. I am not trying to promote him that's just the fact...

I have being silently observing what is happening here, how some of us are now trying to deny the fact that ubunja is the one that exposed them to the redpill here on naiiraland. Some even go as much as insulting him, trying to take his credit etc. And when some people like Martinez and Many others try to correct them, they will now tag it as trying to side his master or OG(which is very bad)..

Any person who is long here on naiiraland will agree with the fact that ubunja, Martinez, hardoon and many few others are the people that was preaching about the redpill, before this new set now came out. But now they are trying to make people believe they are the real redpillers while it was ubunja and many few others that introduced them to the redpill.
Having spent a decade of my time on Nairaland especially in the romance section, I can confidently put it out here that Ubunja is the Ground Zero of redpill in Nairaland and we should be quite privileged to be having him in this current discourse, we should be looking to pick his brains maybe add one or two of his nuggets into our repertoire of Game skills and Redpill knowledge but Hell No, typical of Nigerians we come out feeling intimidated or envious before resorting to PHD (pull him down) syndrome....

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 3:15pm On Jun 18, 2021
softguy1:
As long as redpill is concern here on naiiraland UBUNJA is an OG. I am not trying to promote him that's just the fact...

I have being silently observing what is happening here, how some of us are now trying to deny the fact that ubunja is the one that exposed them to the redpill here on naiiraland. Some even go as much as insulting him, trying to take his credit etc. And when some people like Martinez and Many others try to correct them, they will now tag it as trying to side his master or OG(which is very bad)..

Any person who is long here on naiiraland will agree with the fact that ubunja, Martinez, hardoon and many few others are the people that was preaching about the redpill, before this new set now came out. But now they are trying to make people believe they are the real redpillers while it was ubunja and many few others that introduced them to the redpill.
NB: this post is not considering the recent clash with Ubunja. I am speaking about certain past treatments of Ubunja here.

Ubunja is the most effective and most influential pioneer of the red pill movement on nairaland. For a long time, he has been the face of the nairaland red pill movement. His most famous moment occurred when people took out a day to open congratulatory threads on how Ubunja freed them. This caused a backlash led by the fishwife called MariaLavina who, by branding us misogynists, sort to weaponize the mods to ban all redpillers and delete their posts. Obviously, she got cancelled instead and she deactivated, only to resurface much later with other accounts.

The thing is, Ubunja deserves utmost respect for his efforts. If only people know how valuable and useful the red pill is, they will respect and be appreciative of someone who gave it out in huge doses for free. When I call out people on being rude and grossly disrespectful to Ubunja over his opinion that they didn't agree with, some see me as an aśs licker. When Ubunja is being misunderstood and dragged, and I step in to defend, clarify and/or articulate his point, I am seen as an asś licker, subservient and solicitous to the red pill god. grin

If you can discuss and argue without insults or rude remarks while still maintaining civility, respect and appreciation, why not do it? If you can amicably agree to disagree, why not do so instead dishing of rude remarks, insults and/or ingratitude? Even though I don't see anybody as a god (due to personal principles), I still give respect, compliments and appreciation to whom it is due. Finally, I wouldn't want us to reach a point were we will say Ubunja is not truly redpilled because he said something we don't agree with... that would be disrespectful to his past and present efforts.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dabronze(m): 3:25pm On Jun 18, 2021
DEMZEE:


Femininity, support, peace and cooperation. This are feminine values
Add sex to it and give me at scale of your personal priorities which one will come first.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Executer: 3:25pm On Jun 18, 2021
walexProjects:
Hello bosses in the house, I need your input ooo.
I applied some red pill rules on my girl that has been misbehaving,she does anything she wants.she doesn't take responsibility for her actions,she won't call and takes too long to reply her chat.sometimes it takes a week.when you challenge her,she will say I can't tell her what to do and instead for her to adjust it's going for the worst.
She's now very toxic and uncontrollable,always wanting to fight and will never apologize for her bad actions.
Tried to talk some senses into her,it's still the samething.
I beg am still new to redpill.
@martinez@ubunja@Dpyhchology@all Oga's
Help your boy out.
Break up.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emotionss: 3:41pm On Jun 18, 2021
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LutanFyah:
Bro, some kings will never understand you until they're being paid a monthly stipend for just being a boyfriend.

Some kings here have never been in a position where a girl brings her friends for 3some,pays for lodging and still gives her king money for just sticking his rod in her friends.

Some kings who might not have the time to comment here will laugh at those guys who part with their hard earned money just to cum when they can get better girls that will do whatever her king wants just to be called his girlfriend.

I hope they grow to understand the difference between game and Redpill, and mostly importantly how to milk the resources from these ladies.


They will never understand because they lack the qualities to attract such.

Only a few amount of men have truly experience what it means to be the price in the eyes of women.

Any man that pays for sex is suffering from low self-esteem and lacks the guts to tell himself the truth...

At this age and time any man that is into any kind of love related relationship with a woman is fooling himself and setting himself for manipulations.

Any man that sees sex with multiple women as an achievement really have a long way to go with women......

Being fainancally stable, having good looks and hight. without the Redpill mentality, you're nothing but a glorified SIMP.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 3:46pm On Jun 18, 2021
Let them get married grin my own is to get invited then eat and drink to my satisfaction grin

Zabiboy:
grin grin
So Nigeria, with all the big churches, over-religious citizens( of which 99% are actually hypocrites or religiously blinded), old and intending patriachs who think patriarchy can curtail women, lazy, broke and entitled females, we rank second in paternity fraud.
They've even changed the name from "Cheating" to "MISTAKENLY HAD SEX" cheesy
Tomorrow is Saturday, another huge set of men would get married to their "unicorn soulmates"
Crazy Crazy world grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by GregJo: 3:49pm On Jun 18, 2021
Skepticus:


Women (mostly young and middle-aged) enjoy drama and love to stir it up. Sometimes, they bring this "drama" to their men and if the man isn't "masculine" enough to put her in place (passing the shiit test), she will make his life miserable and later disrespect him for being "weak". Where they can't do that, they seek for it in watching movies, and reality TV shows.

I'm seeing an increasing number of men (who are typically betas) engage in this bitchy antics of "enjoying" or "hanging around" drama and it gets very annoying, seeing matured males behaving like gossiping market women seeking for attention.

In my opinion, a man is better off stirring "drama" in his lady (to excite her natural urge for chaos that can lead to sexual attraction) than doing that in male groups. The feminine vibe is much on this one.

There's a reason women enjoy the Korean, Indian, American romance films.

The couldn't care less about some macho, action, 'get the job done' Stallone or Schwarzenegger movies. It's boring to them. They always prefer drama.

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