Evergreen4:
Thanks, but tell me more please

I'd have if we see one on one but that will be all for now.

op....like someone said up there,just go incommunicado with her... she'll come around if she really loves ya....reduce the calls,texts and pestering...u kinda sound desperate to get her and also afraid to lose her(despite the fact that she's not your girl yet).....have the mindset that there are many single girls out there with the same potential as hers.
Las Las,u go dey alright.

VULCAN:
This made me burst out in laughter and everywhere is so quiet by this time.

Betnaija thins loading

I swear you're destined to be a great man.

You're already thinking along that line.

All I need is "2 sure".....

Nijagogetsense:

Thanks. I think it's time I changed the game by making myself the prize.

Word

nuelsam:
I'm sure u hoping he'll predict that "you'll be richer than dangote"

Hahahaha. Thats what pastorpreneure tell us

SavageBoy:
She seems to have trust issues either because of past heartbreak experiences. I can tell you that she really do live you but she wants to be sure from your side if you're really being sincere about what you feel and say to her.

In every given opportunity you have to talk with her,always reassure her of your love for her and back it with actions that shows this.She will open up with time

I can tell you Bro that that girl loves you...

Listen to this!

I didn't say you should be a red piller. I said you must KNOW it before you can call yourself a Purple piller.

Just like you must know medicine before you branch off into plastic surgery.

And you can't claim to KNOW redpill if you are begging a girl for relationship. The bitter truth is that you are behaving like a simp.

That is not a crime in itself because a red piller can allow himself to fall into simp behaviour on occasion.

My only prayer is that you don't end up like Will Smith. With a wife that has eliminated all forms of masculinity from your psyche

Go back to the Red Pill books and you won't need to open this thread.

Nijagogetsense:

You learn what's the best for you bro. I'm not biological wired to be a red piller except I want to be a nihilist. There are more things to enjoy brother. I understand red pill, blue pill, black pill, etc

Your matter needs more patience.. But don't put all your emotional eggs in her basket of uncertainty. Don't cast all your pearlous treasures upon a leaking treasury.

Since, you have been introduced to her family, be patient with her. You might not be the only one pestering her for relationship, although your pestering rate might be higher, hence her full communicative attention with you but no psycological, emotional, and mental connection yet. She might be only physically connected with you based on your persistent and consistent demand.

Just be patient with her. She has preferences you are yet to discover fully. She may be patiently trying to matchmake her preferences with you. That's what her type does especially ambitious and visionary ladies, and once she sees it else where she might close your chapter.

-Check your differences in background, culture, belief system, class, choices, ambition, vision, et al..

Most of all, exercise patient with her.. Build it up with my first paragraph. Safe!

Now, It seems you have begun your self deliverance. Carry Go

Nijagogetsense:

Thanks. I think it's time I changed the game by making myself the prize.

VULCAN:
I didn't say you should be a red piller. I said you must KNOW it before you can call yourself a Purple piller.

Just like you must know medicine before you branch off into plastic surgery.

And you can't claim to KNOW redpill if you are begging a girl for relationship. The bitter truth is that you are behaving like a simp.

That is not a crime in itself because a red piller can allow himself to fall into simp behaviour on occasion.

My only prayer is that you don't end up like Will Smith. With a wife that has eliminated all forms of masculinity from your psyche

Go back to the Red Pill books and you won't need to open this thread.

I understand your point perfectly. To every rule, I believe there is an exception. I'm a believer of the aphorism, "stooping to conquer".

Don't get your heart broken

I wish you all the best.

God Bless

Nijagogetsense:

I understand your point perfectly. To every rule, I believe there is an exception. I'm a believer of the aphorism, "stooping to conquer".

Saintmary:

Just go incommunicado.
If she wants you, she'll call you.

.pls advice me on dis.a girl block your number saying you call her too much but still calls u(like 3to4 times a week),u got angry n told her not to call u again.but bcus u loved the girl u called her back bt she didnt pick bt called afta seeing a pic u posted wit anoda girl wit a caption special friend.i tink 4uckup 4 apologising 4 telling not 2 call me(she even accept it) am jst confused i feel like am becoming a simp wich i detest a lot.

VULCAN:
Don't get your heart broken

I wish you all the best.

God Bless

Thank you and God bless you too

[quote author=Wolgrace post=92735748]Your matter needs more patience.. But don't put all your emotional eggs in her basket of uncertainty. Don't cast all your pearlous treasures upon a leaking treasury.

Since, you have been introduced to her family, be patient with her. You might not be the only one pestering her for relationship, although your pestering rate might be higher, hence her full communicative attention with you but no psycological, emotional, and mental connection yet. She might be only physically connected with you based on your persistent and consistent demand.

Just be patient with her. She has preferences you are yet to discover fully.

Thank you, I've thought about this too. Though, we have engaged in heart to heart talk which at times make her sobs and break down emotionally. Yet, no result. She once talked in favour of suicide in one of our random calls and childishly talked about taking her life but I rebuked and berated her that day. She's still a complete mystery to me. Thanks.

[quote author=Nijagogetsense post=92739931][/quote]

Haaa! Suicide? Is she listening to strange voices? You have to be extremely careful with her to avoid being implicated or incriminated for what you know nothing about. Don't invite her for a sleep over for any reason, except you are legally married to her.

Take her to right institution or persons for rehab, counselling and guidance to find out on why she nursed the thought of suicide. Or secretly inform her aunty or parents about it because she's more open to you than her family. So, that might be the reason you are in her life to help her (suspend emotional investment for now) Something mystery is behind her, don't joke with it..

Mysterious girl like her can only be saved with pampered loved, never hurt and be the reason to hasten her decision (you know suicide notes everywhere).. Her mystery to you is connected with "suicide." She has given you the expo but be spiritually fit to access it..

tHE BABE na mammy water, na so dem dey do. Speaking from experience
E just be like say you go CLUB, one beta okpeke come give you lap dance, use her 'Pum-Pum' take harrass ur "JUNIOR", as she she say "JUNIOR' don wake and respond to stimuli, na so she take off leaving you in state of utmost confusion and overtaken by "KONJI"


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vb87XSmmW1E

Wolgrace:


Haaa! Suicide? Is she listening to strange voices? You have to be extremely careful with her to avoid being implicated or incriminated for what you know nothing about. Don't invite her for a sleep over for any reason, except you are legally married to her.

Take her to right institution or persons for rehab, counselling and guidance to find out on why she nursed the thought of suicide. Or secretly inform her aunty or parents about it because she's more open to you than her family. So, that might be the reason you are in her life to help her (suspend emotional investment for now) Something mystery is behind her, don't joke with it..

Mysterious girl like her can only be saved with pampered loved, never hurt and be the reason to hasten her decision (you know suicide notes everywhere)..

Hmm, though I'm an empath by nature but I still see the need to detach myself for a while. I've once suggested the need for a therapist but she wouldn't yield

Nijagogetsense:

I've done that earlier during this lockdown, before you know it, she would text me and later called me too that it's been a while she heard from me. I hope she won't get to see this thread sha.

Wow
Am short of words to say now

I hope it doesn't get to late for her to realize how much you love her

Goldenfinger:
.pls advice me on dis.a girl block your number saying you call her too much but still calls u(like 3to4 times a week),u got angry n told her not to call u again.but bcus u loved the girl u called her back bt she didnt pick bt called afta seeing a pic u posted wit anoda girl wit a caption special friend.i tink 4uckup 4 apologising 4 telling not 2 call me(she even accept it) am jst confused i feel like am becoming a simp wich i detest a lot.

I think you should be true to yourself.
If you want her, focus on her, if not, look elsewhere.
You're sending contradicting signals to the girl.

Nijagogetsense:

Hmm, though I'm an empath by nature but I still see the need to detach myself for a while. I've once suggested the need for a therapist but she wouldn't yield

If its possible to detach both physically, emotionally, and mentally, you can, for your own sake. And her case is beyond therapist, I think it's a strange path where some angels fears to thread. So, mere man should not try it.

A friend escaped being incriminated by Nigeria police for his wife's suicide (hanged herself with a rope tie to ceiling fan), but her family saved him because they were fully aware of her mysterious nature (possessed). My uncle's daughter did the same in her bf's room. What saved the guy is the girl's father, he was fully aware of her time of death (all these possessed things like spirit wife or husband, e get as e be).

Her mystery might be the reason she's been patient and careful with and not to harm you, as there are something behind it.

-It's a church thing bro. Help her

Bodlyspeaking:


Wow
Am short of words to say now

I hope it doesn't get to late for her to realize how much you love her

I hope our 'love story' or 'story about love' should not turn to the poem, 'To His Coy Mistress' by Andrew Marvell

Wolgrace:


If its possible to detach both physically, emotionally, and mentally, you can, for your own sake. And her case is beyond therapist, I think it's a strange path where some angels fears to thread. So, mere man should not try it.

A friend escaped being incriminated by Nigeria police for his wife's suicide (hanged herself with a rope tie to ceiling fan), but her family saved him because they were fully aware of her mysterious nature (possessed). My uncle's daughter did the same in her bf's room. What saved the guy is the girl's father, he was fully aware of her time of death (all these possessed things like spirit wife or husband, e get as e be).

Her mystery might be the reason she's been patient and careful with and not to harm you, as there are something behind it.

-It's a church thing bro. Help her

I'm speechless