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What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by pelusi: 2:29pm On Aug 14, 2020
Marriage is a sacred institution. However the rate of adultery seem to be on the increase among couples. In some cases, when a man that is doing well started having some challenges and setback,in most cases some attest that if married woman commits adultery,it can have an adverse effect on the husband whether the woman confessed to the husband or not or the husband discovered by himself or not, others also assume that even if a married woman is sleeping with as many men as possible,such has no effect on the progress of the husband that all you need to do is just pray and seek for forgiveness.Most tribes and communities by tradition do have some attributed side effect on the husband if such happens.
What are the effects to the man whose wife slept with another man(men)
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Ladylite: 2:31pm On Aug 14, 2020
pelusi:
Marriage is a sacred institution. However the rate of adultery seem to be on the increase among couples. In some cases, when a man that is doing well started having some challenges and setback,in most cases some attest that if married woman commits adultery,it can have an adverse effect on the husband whether the woman confessed to the husband or not or the husband discovered by himself or not, others also assume that even if a married woman is sleeping with as many men as possible,such has no effect on the progress of the husband that all you need to do is just pray and seek for forgiveness.Most tribes and communities by tradition do have some attributed side effect on the husband if such happens.
What are the effects to the man whose wife slept with another man(men)

Apart from STD... There is nothing.

Some spiritual people may say curses or demons but kongi is kongi.

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Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by pelusi: 2:31pm On Aug 14, 2020
pelusi:
Marriage is a sacred institution. However the rate of adultery seem to be on the increase among couples. In some cases, when a man that is doing well started having some challenges and setback,in most cases some attest that if married woman commits adultery,it can have an adverse effect on the husband whether the woman confessed to the husband or not or the husband discovered by himself or not, others also assume that even if a married woman is sleeping with as many men as possible,such has no effect on the progress of the husband that all you need to do is just pray and seek for forgiveness.Most tribes and communities by tradition do have some attributed side effect on the husband if such happens.
What are the effects to the man whose wife slept with another man(men)

sorry i made a mistake posting this on Politics section. It suppose to be at the family section. Admin ,Please can you help me and direct it to Family section. Thanks.
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by softeeg: 2:32pm On Aug 14, 2020
i dont know yet
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by donbachi(m): 2:33pm On Aug 14, 2020
He is walking toward his grave...mostly wen the wife cook food for am,from money she collected from her fvckmate.
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Unnerve: 2:46pm On Aug 14, 2020
pelusi:

What are the effects to the man whose wife slept with another man(men)
To a man who finds out about his wife's indiscretions, it's simply good riddance to bad rubbish.
He may be heartbroken by the discovery, but overall, it's good riddance.

To a man who is yet to find out, the effect is that he is being taken for a fool without his knowledge.

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Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Authoreety: 2:49pm On Aug 14, 2020
Radio sapiensia did something like this today
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Authoreety: 2:52pm On Aug 14, 2020
Wetin Person no know, no suppose kill am. I belive the sin should remain with the one who committed the sin.

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Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by frozen70(f): 2:55pm On Aug 14, 2020
pelusi:
Marriage is a sacred institution. However the rate of adultery seem to be on the increase among couples. In some cases, when a man that is doing well started having some challenges and setback,in most cases some attest that if married woman commits adultery,it can have an adverse effect on the husband whether the woman confessed to the husband or not or the husband discovered by himself or not, others also assume that even if a married woman is sleeping with as many men as possible,such has no effect on the progress of the husband that all you need to do is just pray and seek for forgiveness.Most tribes and communities by tradition do have some attributed side effect on the husband if such happens.
What are the effects to the man whose wife slept with another man(men)

What about married men who sleeps with other women, still comes back home and feed from the wife's pot and still sleep with her

The issue here is every married man or woman should respect him or her self

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Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by frozen70(f): 2:56pm On Aug 14, 2020
Authoreety:
Wetin Person no know, no suppose kill am.
I belive the sin should remain with the one who committed the sin.


Exactly
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by GboyegaD(m): 3:01pm On Aug 14, 2020
Unnerve:

To a man who finds out about his wife's indiscretions, it's simply good riddance to bad rubbish.
He may be heartbroken by the discovery, but overall, it's good riddance.

To a man who is yet to find out, the effect is that he is being taken for a fool without his knowledge.

I find this funny though. For the men who claim men by nature is polygamous, the women they are sleepu g with are either people's wives, fiancee, or girlfriend. How do we address that?

As for your topic OP, it all depends on fhe believe system of those involved. However, by the rule of fairness, I feel it is bad to cheat in a relationship/marriage and the hurt such creates is the negative effect of such acts.

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Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Vyzz: 3:34pm On Aug 14, 2020
pelusi:


sorry i made a mistake posting this on Politics section. It suppose to be at the family section. Admin ,Please can you help me and direct it to Family section. Thanks.
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by LadySarah: 3:40pm On Aug 14, 2020
donbachi:
He is walking toward his grave...mostly wen the wife cook food for am,from money she collected from her fvckmate.

So Will Smith must be rottening in his grave cos his wife has entangled herself over and over again?

Op, what happens to a woman when a man cheats is what happens to a man when a woman cheats.

Therefore nothing happens. Sometimes, some women get tired of eating what they cook and try to taste another cooks dish just like the men don't like eating only egusi till death do them apart.

Both sexes can be polygamous you know?

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Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Unnerve: 3:50pm On Aug 14, 2020
GboyegaD:


I find this funny though. For the men who claim men by nature is polygamous, the women they are sleepu g with are either people's wives, fiancee, or girlfriend. How do we address that?

As for your topic OP, it all depends on fhe believe system of those involved. However, by the rule of fairness, I feel it is bad to cheat in a relationship/marriage and the hurt such creates is the negative effect of such acts.
Same as above.

Should their wives find out they've been cheating, it's still good riddance to bad rubbish.
But fortunately for the men-are-polygamous-crew, majority of Nigerian women (old & young) don't leave their cheating husbands probably because they're thinking of the financial drawbacks, the divorced woman stigma, or the general lack of self-confidence in getting another man who will be willing to marry them as a single divorced mother.

These are factors which most married men don't ever have to worry about, which makes it a little easier and more feasible to say good riddance to bad rubbish when a cheating wife is caught.

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Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by adontcare(f): 3:58pm On Aug 14, 2020
Nothing will happen to anyone. As far as d man cheats up and down, and nothing spiritual happened to d wife. That's how it is to the woman cheating. The only thing there is a big sin against God. But since God himself no send as the male folks have been cheating and he did not do any thing to them, so d women have joined suit. And nothing will still happen. Women pls if u feel to cheat and be blessed, go ahead. If ur conscience will haunt u, don't. Rubbish

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Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by LadySarah: 4:09pm On Aug 14, 2020
adontcare:
Nothing will happen to anyone. As far as d man cheats up and down, and nothing spiritual happened to d wife. That's how it is to the woman cheating. The only thing there is a big sin against God. But since God himself no send as the male folks have been cheating and he did not do any thing to them, so d women have joined suit. And nothing will still happen. Women pls if u feel to cheat and be blessed, go ahead. If ur conscience will haunt u, don't. Rubbish

Hahahahahahahaha.
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Mywd: 7:47pm On Aug 14, 2020
LadySarah:


So Will Smith must be rottening in his grave cos his wife has entangled herself over and over again?

Op, what happens to a woman when a man cheats is what happens to a man when a woman cheats.

Therefore nothing happens. Sometimes, some women get tired of eating what they cook and try to taste another cooks dish just like the men don't like eating only egusi till death do them apart.

Both sexes can be polygamous you know?

U are talking like a child...... Do u mean immediately it happens then repercussions begin to show?? NO..... It takes time b4 it shows in diff. ways.....


Apart from belief now it js a normal law of life... What goes around comes around
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by LadySarah: 8:27pm On Aug 14, 2020
Mywd:


U are talking like a child...... Do u mean immediately it happens then repercussions begin to show?? NO..... It takes time b4 it shows in diff. ways.....


Apart from belief now it js a normal law of life... What goes around comes around

What has happened to the polygamous men?

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Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by don4real: 9:20pm On Aug 14, 2020
adontcare post=92814014[s:
]Nothing will happen to anyone. As far as d man cheats up and down, and nothing spiritual happened to d wife. That's how it is to the woman cheating. The only thing there is a big sin against God. But since God himself no send as the male folks have been cheating and he did not do any thing to them, so d women have joined suit. And nothing will still happen. Women pls if u feel to cheat and be blessed, go ahead. If ur conscience will haunt u, don't. Rubbish[/s]

Nonsense.
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by NobleAngell(f): 9:26pm On Aug 14, 2020
donbachi:
He is walking toward his grave...mostly wen the wife cook food for am,from money she collected from her fvckmate.
An Idoma man has spoken.
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Acidosis(m): 9:30pm On Aug 14, 2020
Nothing, if you use a condom or contraceptive.

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Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Houseofglam7(f): 6:57am On Aug 15, 2020
.....you come write a long epistle on nairaland, that's all that'll happen undecided
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by bukatyne(f): 7:48am On Aug 15, 2020
Acidosis:



Nothing, if you use a condom or contraceptive.

cheesy

It depends on the believe system of the people involved.

Some believe a cheating wife can kill her husband and kids if she cooks for them;

Some believe a cheating wife would get killed;

Some believe nothing apart from STDs, heartbreak, paternity fraud aka nothing spiritual.

I think it is majorly SS states that have spiritual 'consequences' for a cheating wife. I haven't had such in my side sha apart from Magun (which again is hearsay).
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Acidosis(m): 11:05am On Aug 15, 2020
bukatyne:


cheesy

It depends on the believe system of the people involved.

Some believe a cheating wife can kill her husband and kids if she cooks for them;

Some believe a cheating wife would get killed;

Some believe nothing apart from STDs, heartbreak, paternity fraud aka nothing spiritual.

I think it is majorly SS states that have spiritual 'consequences' for a cheating wife. I haven't had such in my side sha apart from Magun (which again is hearsay).


True. I'm one of those with that belief system. There are different ways to tell people that cheating is wrong than attaching some unfounded spiritual consequences. There are other consequences related to health, emotions, hormonal, etc.. sha
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by adontcare(f): 12:52pm On Aug 15, 2020
don4real:


Nonsense.
to u
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Mineisgrace(f): 6:00pm On Aug 15, 2020
Ladylite:


Apart from STD... There is nothing.

Some spiritual people may say curses or demons but kongi is kongi.
spiritually, if the husband's spirit is very strong, the concubine will start experiencing lack and disorderliness in his life and the same applies to the husband when the concubines spirit is stronger.
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Haywhymido(m): 6:40pm On Aug 15, 2020
LadySarah:


So Will Smith must be rottening in his grave cos his wife has entangled herself over and over again?

Op, what happens to a woman when a man cheats is what happens to a man when a woman cheats.

Therefore nothing happens. Sometimes, some women get tired of eating what they cook and try to taste another cooks dish just like the men don't like eating only egusi till death do them apart.

Both sexes can be polygamous you know?
ofcourse, both sexes can be polygamous but do that in your father's house. You cant be living under a man's roof, he is taking care of your needs and have no form of respect for him. If you wanna practice polygamy no one is holding you back, excuse the man,go your way and do it whichever way you like.
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by SirVintageCock: 7:03pm On Aug 15, 2020
Haywhymido:
ofcourse, both sexes can be polygamous but do that in your father's house. You cant be living under a man's roof, he is taking care of your needs and have no form of respect for him. If you wanna practice polygamy no one is holding you back, excuse the man,go your way and do it whichever way you like.
You can't be begging her to support you with the bills and at the same time spilling the emboldened.
Whose roof? When you are contributing to pay the rent and build house cool cool cool. Men of nowadays should be careful of what we wished for.

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Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Haywhymido(m): 7:53pm On Aug 15, 2020
SirVintageCock:
You can't be begging her to support you with the bills and at the same time spilling the emboldened.
Whose roof when you are contributing to pay the rent and build house cool cool cool. Men of nowadays should be careful of what we wished for.
if that is the type of man that you are that is your problem. I spoke for myself, speak for yourself too
Re: What Is The Negative Effect To The Man Whose Wife Slept With Another Man by Kosibaby: 6:34am On Aug 18, 2020
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