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Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by donnie(m): 10:48pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
donmarshia: Exactly! For many men, the only help you can give is peace and the warm reassuring smile you give him when he comes home. That assurance that all is well at home and with the kids when they're away. 6 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by chiefoboh1(m): 10:49pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Nuttella:if u were a man and u started dating a girl while both of you were in school then after school you happened to get a job while d girl haven't been able. So you won't marry her or she is a liability now' Leave her n look 4 a working class or business owner I guess? 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by efosky1246(m): 10:51pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Nuttella: So with this your thought process. Why bother getting married then. since upbringing has no effect on children. Are you that old or ugly that you really think the ultimate value a woman has is in the corporate world? Children don't respect their mothers that are housewives? You're messed up, honestly 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by ume1000: 10:57pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
saaphiere:which cage women when be cage on their own |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by efosky1246(m): 11:02pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Nuttella: The loss of a partner is not what anyone expects or prepares for ideally. If you're even going into marriage with this kind of mindset, preparing for the ultimate worst from the onset, then nothing I say will make sense to you. Even if both partners are working. It would surely take its toll except the man was nothing to write home about. But if there was love and transparency in the marriage. The woman would have access to all finances so in the midst of the grief, she's not entirely lost, she has something to start a business to keep the family afloat, and even at that. will you tell me you've not seen families where the man still provides from the grave via investments? There are men who pride themselves in taking care of their families. They love doing it, they lead their homes, not control despite being the breadwinner and they appreciate the intrinsic values a woman bring into their life. I know you can't relate but get out of your toxic circle. They do exist. 6 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 11:03pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
chiefoboh1:I will marry her, when she finish school, I get her a job or a business, no room for housewife. |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 11:06pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
efosky1246:So what you are saying is that men that have working wives dont take pride in taking care of their family. Any man that won't let his wife work is a control freak and he is doing so for selfish reasons and nothing else. Say NO to housewife. |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by abdullahi45: 11:07pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
prophetfire: Help me ask them oo |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by abdullahi45: 11:08pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Hathor5: Then you can keep your choice to yourself and avoid being critical of others because you think they have made an awful decision, when in reality they made the best decision that allows the prosperity of their peace of mind. |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Kobojunkie: 11:09pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
bukatyne:Western what? Oh please.... Women as full housewives is a traditional thing for Nigerians. Abeg consult your ancestors for that one. |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Henrydata(m): 11:13pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Acidosis:gbam, u said my mind |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by abdullahi45: 11:15pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
efosky1246: Absolutely. I couldn't have drafted it any better. The problem arises when there is no proper communication, transparency, and support between the couple, which in most cases send the wife and children to poverty after sudden demise of the breadwinner. Sometimes, the outsiders even tends to benefit more from the wealth left behind. If everything is very open and the financial pool of the husband is accessible by the wife, this could be avoided.. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by othenok(f): 11:58pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Nuttella: While the kids are at school, there meals to be planned and prepared, clothes to wash, mend and possibly iron and many other house chores that Home makers do or are you one of the few people that believe Home makers just cross their legs and snore when no one is at home. That's stereotyping and believe me you are so wrong. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by IAMBlesssed(f): 2:04am On Aug 17, 2020 |
pocohantas: Thank you Poco for this. The truth is that a lot of people are not being realistic here. So many families cannot live comfortably on just the husband's income, thus the need for support. Just one month lockdown we all saw the level of online and offline begging all over the place. Let each couple do what's okay for them .. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Napheesa2(f): 4:44am On Aug 17, 2020 |
saaphiere:As in hehhhnnn my sister no be small thing� |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by akdjr(m): 4:46am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Her opinion. |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by rhemauni: 4:56am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mayflowa: As if we don't have house helps better quit that weak defense. House chores doesn't earn one an income, so anyone without a paid job is jobless. She didn't go to school to become a housewife (liability) let her find a job to earn money if it's easier than house chores. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 6:52am On Aug 17, 2020 |
othenok:A nanny or help can do all that, I no come this world come suffer, if you stress yourself too much in marriage, you will age more than your husband. |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Acidosis(m): 8:03am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Nuttella: Very easy to say because (we) Nigerians are so fond of using people (including our mothers) and underpaying nannies. Go and try that in a country like Germany and see whether your monthly salary can offset the bills from a nanny. You will hardly even see a day care because the available ones are very competitive, expensive and controlled by the government. If Nigerian nannies begin to charge #200k per month, a lot of you will have to stay home or quit making babies. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 8:06am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Acidosis:My family friend in USA is a working nurse and also takes care of her kids, so what are you saying? |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 8:08am On Aug 17, 2020 |
IAMBlesssed:Is it not the same thing the woman is preaching? Don't depend on hubby. |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Acidosis(m): 8:08am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Nuttella: This information is ambiguous. How is she taking care of her kids and what is the nature of her work/working hours? 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Ebhohimhen2: 8:23am On Aug 17, 2020 |
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Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by v2: 9:07am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Do what works for you. The man going out to hustle while the woman manages the home shouldn't be a bad approach where married couples decides on that. They can also set up a business that the woman can manage and which will also give her the time to manage the home. Don't forget that since we started copying the western world our family values and by extension national values have deteriorated. Father is out, mother is out, children at the mercy of house helps. That is the product of the children you see these days that lacks proper parental guidance. The family structure a couple chooses is their choice as long as it works for them. |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Sunnymarc(m): 9:08am On Aug 17, 2020 |
You dey mind this motivational speakers, they just talk as if they have the ultimate formula to everything on earth. Did she know how many housewives shared half of the husband property in a divoce abroad, if the same law apply here. Will she still think housewives are failures? The same woman that said you are a failure if you can't borrow your husband 1million when he needs it, in this same country with the reality on ground? Abeegi mariahAngel: |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by danielistics(m): 9:10am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Nuttella: true 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by lilyheaven: 9:27am On Aug 17, 2020 |
efosky1246:I read the story of Vice President Osibanjo. In his words, his father asked his mom to quite job and take care of the children. Today her children are celebrating her. If a husband is capable of providing all the financial assistance , what is the need of a house help, A mother is expected to take care of her offspring not paying another person to do so . maybe when the kids grow up, she might start up something. Personally I don’t like nursing mothers working because they are unproductive, they always have one complaint about one child to the other. 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by lilyheaven: 9:31am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Sunnymarc:She can say whatever sout her , she has people running errands for her, offering and tithe money is giving her account alert |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by efosky1246(m): 9:34am On Aug 17, 2020 |
lilyheaven: The overall objective is to have those women lining their pockets every Sunday. any so called man/woman of God that preaches material prosperity is fake. 100%. that was not Jesus' message when he walked the earth. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by lilyheaven: 10:39am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Watin she gain, if tithe money no enter, how can she boast her business if offering money no enter. efosky1246: |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 10:40am On Aug 17, 2020 |
[quote author=Nuttella post=92908074]My family friend in USA is a working nurse and also takes care of her kids, so what are you saying? |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by raphy(m): 10:43am On Aug 17, 2020 |
the woman just didn't know what to say and open her mouth say trash if her husband says she should not work full time but part time and comes back before him to prepare his food and check on the kids is that a problem. some ppl will just think with there bum bum nothing wrong in taken care if the kids and putting the house In other when dad is hard working. so she expect all wife to go hire house help Now.. its just dumb she can have a shop not far from home too and always take time to go keep food. for daddy . the couple has to plan not her saying all this trash . its there lit not her life for married ppl. gbam. |
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