truthsayer009:


So you're a Doctor and you married a Doctor?

Dr Mrs & Dr Mr.

I feel for your children, they must know book by force LMAOOOO!

Hathor5:


It would be a great loss if humanity lost a fully qualified doctor. Imagine all the lives you can save.
I am glad you found a supportive husband. There are men who take pride in the achievements of their wives.

Inspireddd:


Hey. Can i send you a pm?

Nuttella:
Yes, go on.

bukatyne:


It would only help her financial reasoning if she manages the whole finance of the home else she is seeing things in silos and spending money that is 'not there'.

I don't think jobs are designed to bring that kind of fulfillment in the long term; carrying out your purpose/reason for creation does. However, I very well agree that a job (if decent) would add to her self-worth.

I don't see any reason why you can't be financially open with your wife irrespective of her earnings. I think you should be more concerned about a resourceful wife instead.

Please note I am not saying she should not work even if the income is negative; I am just laying all the cards on the table.

And like you said, if she works at it, the income can grow into a positive balance and add meaningfully to the home.

prophetfire:
. Being a house wife, does it make a woman a slave? Though I would not want my wife to be house wife but it doesn't put women in any cage. I have seen very good and happy housewives. A friend who works in the oil industry and his wife is a lawyer, they decided the woman stay at home for the kids and she left her legal patnership and they are happy.

Kobojunkie:
Western what? Oh please.... Women as full housewives is a traditional thing for Nigerians. Abeg consult your ancestors for that one.

Inspireddd:


The email attached to my account is a temporary one. Could you drop your email so i’d write you? I’d delete it immediately

Nuttella:
A nanny or help can do all that, I no come this world come suffer, if you stress yourself too much in marriage, you will age more than your husband.

mariahAngel:


As long as they understand each other, I see no problem with it.

A woman who stays at home does not mean she's idle.
If you understand what it takes to keep the home going on a daily basis, you'll know that it is not easy.

pocohantas:
People like her need to understand women are different and couples are different too. There is nothing wrong in being a housewife. It is the sacrifice some women pay for the smooth running of their homes.

As long as they are both okay with it and do not go begging for urgent 2k, you can only wish them well.

prophetfire:
. Being a house wife, does it make a woman a slave? Though I would not want my wife to be house wife but it doesn't put women in any cage. I have seen very good and happy housewives. A friend who works in the oil industry and his wife is a lawyer, they decided the woman stay at home for the kids and she left her legal patnership and they are happy.

pocohantas:


Then she has a point, though liability itself is relative. If we consider a housewife a liability because she isn’t working from home (business). Doesn’t that mean we have trivialized something as important as childcare? Something we outsource and pay for? I hope you get my point, sis.

spiceadole:


He has been very supportive.
He assisted me leave for the UK before him..And joined me about 7 months after.

bukatyne:

Are you sure

pocohantas:
People like her need to understand women are different and couples are different too. There is nothing wrong in being a housewife. It is the sacrifice some women pay for the smooth running of their homes.

As long as they are both okay with it and do not go begging for urgent 2k, you can only wish them well.

Nuttella:
A nanny or help can do all that, I no come this world come suffer, if you stress yourself too much in marriage, you will age more than your husband.

saaphiere:
I am seeing someone getting pained because women are about being emancipated from men cage.
Cry me a river

Nuttella:
A nanny or help can do all that, I no come this world come suffer, if you stress yourself too much in marriage, you will age more than your husband.

saaphiere:
What understanding sis? We are talking about not being a liability to your husband here. I doubt you watched the video. The pastor is not saying it's bad to be a housewife.

Hathor5:


Please speak for yourself. For me house chores are the most stressful job there is. I respect every woman who runs a home without any help and I am impressed by their courage to sacrifice their earning power for the family because I have seen too many women not being rewarded for doing so ultimately.

I don't see my job as enslavement. The money I earn gives me freedom to do lots of things.

SSpeter:
"House Jobs are the most stressful"? The question is how much do you even earn?