| The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by odinson1(m): 6:36pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Thread of dating Nigerian women
Day 1:
Girl - How did you get my number?
“We met at that event. You were with Gina and you gave me your number”
Girl - I gave plenty people my number that day. What were you wearing?
Day 2:
(WhatsApp message)
Guy - Hi
**1 day later**
Girl - hey
Guy - Good morning
Girl - Mrng.
Guy - How are you?
Girl - blue tick. No reply
Day 5:
Girl - hi
**guy is surprised**
Guy - hi
Girl - hw are u?
Guy - I’m fine. How are you?
Girl - Not fine
Guy - why?
Girl - Can you send me N500 airtime? I’m in a tight corner.
Day 9:
(My guy is bored and wants to try again)
Guy - Hi
**3 hours later**
Girl - Hello dear. Tnx 4 the other day.
Guy - you’re welcome. Where do you stay?
Girl - Lugbe n u?
Guy - Gwarinpa
Girl - K
Day 10:
Guy - hi
Girl - hello dear
Guy - Can we hang out sometime?
Girl - where?
Guy - anywhere you want
Girl - ok, Junkyard
Guy - Ok.
Girl - Can I come with 3 of my friends?
Day 14:
(Date is set)
Guy - hi. Are you still coming?
Girl - yes I’m getting dressed. I will meet you there.
**I hour later**
Girl - please can you help me book Uber, my app is not opening
Just say you don’t have transport FFS �
Day 15:
Guy: Yesterday was nice. I can’t wait to see you again.
Girl - ���
Guy - when will that be?
Girl - Don’t know
(How will she know when she’s arranging other dates with men?)
Day 25:
(Guy posts picture of him and a female friend chilling on status)
Girl - hmmm
Guy - what?
Girl - nothing. Your babe is fine.
(this is how they ask if you’re single)
Guy - she’s just a friend.
Girl - hmmm ok
Day 33:
(Girl has not heard from guy in a while)
Girl - Hi dear
Guy - hello.
Girl - long time. How have you been?
Guy - I’m fine. You?
Girl - you forgot me nau. Can we hangout again?
Guy- ok. Will you come to my house?
Girl - I can’t come to your house.
Day 42:
(Guy finally wants to ask girl out after 6 weeks talking stage)
Guy - Do you have anyone you are emotionally involved with?
Girl - why do you ask?
Guy - I want to be that person if you don’t have.
Girl - Can you take care of my needs?
(What fvcking needs? Are you a special needs person FFS??)
Guy - I believe that we can take care of each other. This isn’t a fling for me. I want to have something special and permanent with you.
Girl - hmmmmm
Guy - Please be my girlfriend
Girl - Let me think about it.
(Basically when they say they want to think about it, they have agreed. But Pride)
Day 47:
(5 days after guy and girl officially start dating)
Girl - hey baby
Guy - hi dear.
Girl - can you do me a small Favour?
Guy - anything for my girl. What is it?
Girl - I want to change my phone screen.
Day 58:
(11 days after guy changes phone screen, phone screen breaks again)
Girl - baby, my phone screen broke again.
Guy - we just fixed it. You have to be careful
Girl - I’m even tired of using the phone. My mates are using iPhone 11. I want one.
Guy - ok. How much do you have let me support?
Girl - N32k
Day 65:
(Guy finally buys iPhone 11 for girl)
Girl - Thanks baby. I love the phone.
Guy - You’re welcome, my love. I love you.
Girl - I love you too.
(After a round of sex)
Girl - baby what are you getting me for my birthday next week?
Day 71:
(1 day after Girl’s birthday)
Girl - baby, thank you for the cake and the dinner yesterday.
Guy - You’re welcome.
Girl - but you didn’t buy me a birthday gift
Guy - I got you an iPhone 11 last week.
Girl - it’s not a birthday gift. You are too greedy. My ex bought me a birthday gift.
Guy - How am I greedy? I got you an iPhone 11, a birthday cake and paid for a dinner for you and your friends.
Girl - so you’re counting everything you’ve done for me.
Guy - that’s not the point.
Girl - I want a break from this relationship
Day 85:
(Relationship on break. Guy misses girl and wants to make it up to her so he shows up at her place unannounced and sees another guy wearing boxer in girl’s house. Other guy introduces himself as her boyfriend and says girl went to the market. Guy walks back into his car and cries like a baby. Then calls girl on phone)
Guy - hello, babe. I came to your house and I met some guy who says he’s your boyfriend. So this is what you’ve been doing to me? Because we had a small misunderstanding. You’re cheating on me.
Girl - I’m sorry but you pushed me to him. You stopped caring about me.
Guy - How did I push you to him?
Girl - You took a break from me
Guy - babe, you asked for the break
Girl - so if I asked you to put your hand inside fire, you will put your hand.
Guy - babe, you were upset and asked for a break and I respected your request. Should I have fought you?
Girl - If you loved me, you would have fought for me.
Guy - It’s fine. I guess this relationship is over. I wish you the best.
Girl - Don’t call my number again
Guy - It’s fine. I won’t. I’m just disappointed that after everything I’ve done for you, you can treat me this way.
Girl - what did you do for me?
(This is a trap to get you to list things that you did so she can say you always list things that you did)
Guy - really? So I did nothing?
Girl - is it IPhone you want to call? I can buy it for myself
Day 105:
(Girl has broken up with new guy, is now missing guy. Actually, her eye don clear. Picks up phone)
Girl - hello, babe it’s me.
Guy - hi dear. How have you been? So happy to hear from you.
Girl - I’m fine. How are you? Just wanted to check on you. Long time.
Guy - you’ve done well. I’m fine �
Girl- I miss you ☹️
Guy - I miss you too.
Girl - Can we have a sit down and talk? I can come to the house.
Guy - Oh let’s meet somewhere else. My wife is at home.
Girl - wait. You’re married? So all these while you’ve been deceiving me while you had another woman you wanted to marry?
Guy - no, I actually met her one day after our break up (day 86) and in 15 days (day 101) we got married. I didn’t cheat on you or deceive you.
Girl - It’s not possible. You lied to me.
Guy - babe, you’re the one I caught cheating
Girl - So are you saying I wasn’t good enough for you in 85 days but she was good enough in 15 days?
Guy - Well, she was more ready to settle down.
Girl - So what do you want from me? Why are you talking to me?
Guy - You’re the one who called me oh.
Girl - (hangs up, deletes and blocks guys number and social media everywhere)
Day 106:
(Girl is now a feminist (misandrist), posts on Facebook)
“Menaskum”.
Copied From Brian Dennis on Facebook 24 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Ugaboy: 6:39pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Did u copy that chat and post Hear, so hilarious 2 Likes |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by callyik(m): 6:43pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
1 Like |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Guest911: 7:14pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Spot on |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by emmaodet: 7:33pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
odinson1:
Thread of dating Nigerian women
Day 1:
Girl - How did you get my number?
“We met at that event. You were with Gina and you gave me your number”
Girl - I gave plenty people my number that day. What were you wearing?
Day 2:
(WhatsApp message)
Guy - Hi
**1 day later**
Girl - hey
Guy - Good morning
Girl - Mrng.
Guy - How are you?
Girl - blue tick. No reply
Day 5:
Girl - hi
**guy is surprised**
Guy - hi
Girl - hw are u?
Guy - I’m fine. How are you?
Girl - Not fine
Guy - why?
Girl - Can you send me N500 airtime? I’m in a tight corner.
Day 9:
(My guy is bored and wants to try again)
Guy - Hi
**3 hours later**
Girl - Hello dear. Tnx 4 the other day.
Guy - you’re welcome. Where do you stay?
Girl - Lugbe n u?
Guy - Gwarinpa
Girl - K
Day 10:
Guy - hi
Girl - hello dear
Guy - Can we hang out sometime?
Girl - where?
Guy - anywhere you want
Girl - ok, Junkyard
Guy - Ok.
Girl - Can I come with 3 of my friends?
Day 14:
(Date is set)
Guy - hi. Are you still coming?
Girl - yes I’m getting dressed. I will meet you there.
**I hour later**
Girl - please can you help me book Uber, my app is not opening
Just say you don’t have transport FFS �
Day 15:
Guy: Yesterday was nice. I can’t wait to see you again.
Girl - ���
Guy - when will that be?
Girl - Don’t know
(How will she know when she’s arranging other dates with men?)
Day 25:
(Guy posts picture of him and a female friend chilling on status)
Girl - hmmm
Guy - what?
Girl - nothing. Your babe is fine.
(this is how they ask if you’re single)
Guy - she’s just a friend.
Girl - hmmm ok
Day 33:
(Girl has not heard from guy in a while)
Girl - Hi dear
Guy - hello.
Girl - long time. How have you been?
Guy - I’m fine. You?
Girl - you forgot me nau. Can we hangout again?
Guy- ok. Will you come to my house?
Girl - I can’t come to your house.
Day 42:
(Guy finally wants to ask girl out after 6 weeks talking stage)
Guy - Do you have anyone you are emotionally involved with?
Girl - why do you ask?
Guy - I want to be that person if you don’t have.
Girl - Can you take care of my needs?
(What fvcking needs? Are you a special needs person FFS??)
Guy - I believe that we can take care of each other. This isn’t a fling for me. I want to have something special and permanent with you.
Girl - hmmmmm
Guy - Please be my girlfriend
Girl - Let me think about it.
(Basically when they say they want to think about it, they have agreed. But Pride)
Day 47:
(5 days after guy and girl officially start dating)
Girl - hey baby
Guy - hi dear.
Girl - can you do me a small Favour?
Guy - anything for my girl. What is it?
Girl - I want to change my phone screen.
Day 58:
(11 days after guy changes phone screen, phone screen breaks again)
Girl - baby, my phone screen broke again.
Guy - we just fixed it. You have to be careful
Girl - I’m even tired of using the phone. My mates are using iPhone 11. I want one.
Guy - ok. How much do you have let me support?
Girl - N32k
Day 65:
(Guy finally buys iPhone 11 for girl)
Girl - Thanks baby. I love the phone.
Guy - You’re welcome, my love. I love you.
Girl - I love you too.
(After a round of sex)
Girl - baby what are you getting me for my birthday next week?
Day 71:
(1 day after Girl’s birthday)
Girl - baby, thank you for the cake and the dinner yesterday.
Guy - You’re welcome.
Girl - but you didn’t buy me a birthday gift
Guy - I got you an iPhone 11 last week.
Girl - it’s not a birthday gift. You are too greedy. My ex bought me a birthday gift.
Guy - How am I greedy? I got you an iPhone 11, a birthday cake and paid for a dinner for you and your friends.
Girl - so you’re counting everything you’ve done for me.
Guy - that’s not the point.
Girl - I want a break from this relationship
Day 85:
(Relationship on break. Guy misses girl and wants to make it up to her so he shows up at her place unannounced and sees another guy wearing boxer in girl’s house. Other guy introduces himself as her boyfriend and says girl went to the market. Guy walks back into his car and cries like a baby. Then calls girl on phone)
Guy - hello, babe. I came to your house and I met some guy who says he’s your boyfriend. So this is what you’ve been doing to me? Because we had a small misunderstanding. You’re cheating on me.
Girl - I’m sorry but you pushed me to him. You stopped caring about me.
Guy - How did I push you to him?
Girl - You took a break from me
Guy - babe, you asked for the break
Girl - so if I asked you to put your hand inside fire, you will put your hand.
Guy - babe, you were upset and asked for a break and I respected your request. Should I have fought you?
Girl - If you loved me, you would have fought for me.
Guy - It’s fine. I guess this relationship is over. I wish you the best.
Girl - Don’t call my number again
Guy - It’s fine. I won’t. I’m just disappointed that after everything I’ve done for you, you can treat me this way.
Girl - what did you do for me?
(This is a trap to get you to list things that you did so she can say you always list things that you did)
Guy - really? So I did nothing?
Girl - is it IPhone you want to call? I can buy it for myself
Day 105:
(Girl has broken up with new guy, is now missing guy. Actually, her eye don clear. Picks up phone)
Girl - hello, babe it’s me.
Guy - hi dear. How have you been? So happy to hear from you.
Girl - I’m fine. How are you? Just wanted to check on you. Long time.
Guy - you’ve done well. I’m fine �
Girl- I miss you ☹️
Guy - I miss you too.
Girl - Can we have a sit down and talk? I can come to the house.
Guy - Oh let’s meet somewhere else. My wife is at home.
Girl - wait. You’re married? So all these while you’ve been deceiving me while you had another woman you wanted to marry?
Guy - no, I actually met her one day after our break up (day 86) and in 15 days (day 101) we got married. I didn’t cheat on you or deceive you.
Girl - It’s not possible. You lied to me.
Guy - babe, you’re the one I caught cheating
Girl - So are you saying I wasn’t good enough for you in 85 days but she was good enough in 15 days?
Guy - Well, she was more ready to settle down.
Girl - So what do you want from me? Why are you talking to me?
Guy - You’re the one who called me oh.
Girl - (hangs up, deletes and blocks guys number and social media everywhere)
Day 106:
(Girl is now a feminist (misandrist), posts on Facebook)
“Menaskum”.  1 Like |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 7:55pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Nigi I can't read it this shit is too long |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by odinson1(m): 8:00pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Cc Lalasticlala |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by jeff1607(m): 8:22pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Bros finish work |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by CAPSLOCKED: 9:45pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
ZINIBANKS:
Nigi I can't read it this shit is too long SHOULD I REJECT MY ORDER FROM JUMIA SINCE IT'S TOO LATE FOR ME TO CANCEL?
OR I SHOULD WAIT A FEW MORE DAYS FOR THE PARALYSIS.....?? |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by CAPSLOCKED: 9:48pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
(DAYS 1-47)
THE ONLY ONE I EVER TEXT IS THE NUMBER ONE, LOL, I CAN'T LIVE PRECIOUS LIFE GOING THROUGH THIS BULLSHIT.
IF WE'RE NOT DOING PROFITABLE BUSINESS I DON'T TALK WITH YOU.  2 Likes |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Jerkbaba: 9:50pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Na only mumu go ask for number sef. Who get time for all these one. |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by cooooooks(m): 10:14pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Gotta hand it to you. This was an engaging read.
Would probably sell internationally as a comic tbh. 4 Likes |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Exonerate1(m): 10:25pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Lmao! U got me real big. |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 10:37pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Wtf. Lmao |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 10:46pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
I can't believe I read all that. 1 Like |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 10:47pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
why will a girl even compare you with her ex boyfriend, I swear some niggas dey eat shiit.
if na me I go delete your number |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 10:48pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:
SHOULD I REJECT MY ORDER FROM JUMIA SINCE IT'S TOO LATE FOR ME TO CANCEL?
OR I SHOULD WAIT A FEW MORE DAYS FOR THE PARALYSIS.....?? I honestly don't know what's wrong with those people I swear I also want to buy some items from them The price of the the item is #34,230 So I added it to cart and wanted to buy it You won't believe that on checking the total price of the item it already #40,240 I was like ahhh what did I carry what did I throw the price shock me but he still dey my cart |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by paulolee(m): 10:57pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
very funny and interesting read...cnt bliev I read all of dt long stuff bt it was worth d time.. |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 11:08pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Na Ghetto relationship wahala be this |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by JoshOxborn: 11:34pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
One of the best thing I've heard on nairaland in a while. *Laughs loudly* |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 11:49pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
cooooooks:
Gotta hand it to you. This was an engaging read.
Would probably sell internationally as a comic tbh. Someone is unfortunate to meet a leech in every sense of the word and quickly assumes that all women are leeches. What a logic! |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 11:50pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:
(DAYS 1-47)
THE ONLY ONE I EVER TEXT IS THE NUMBER ONE, LOL, I CAN'T LIVE PRECIOUS LIFE GOING THROUGH THIS BULLSHIT.
IF WE'RE NOT DOING PROFITABLE BUSINESS I DON'T TALK WITH YOU. You and this your capital letters sef. Red colour  You need to be banned for hurting my eyes  1 Like |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by GeneralKoko(m): 12:20am On Aug 18, 2020 |
odinson1:
Thread of dating Nigerian women
Day 1:
Girl - How did you get my number?
“We met at that event. You were with Gina and you gave me your number”
Girl - I gave plenty people my number that day. What were you wearing?
Day 2:
(WhatsApp message)
Guy - Hi
**1 day later**
Girl - hey
Guy - Good morning
Girl - Mrng.
Guy - How are you?
Girl - blue tick. No reply
Day 5:
Girl - hi
**guy is surprised**
Guy - hi
Girl - hw are u?
Guy - I’m fine. How are you?
Girl - Not fine
Guy - why?
Girl - Can you send me N500 airtime? I’m in a tight corner.
Day 9:
(My guy is bored and wants to try again)
Guy - Hi
**3 hours later**
Girl - Hello dear. Tnx 4 the other day.
Guy - you’re welcome. Where do you stay?
Girl - Lugbe n u?
Guy - Gwarinpa
Girl - K
Day 10:
Guy - hi
Girl - hello dear
Guy - Can we hang out sometime?
Girl - where?
Guy - anywhere you want
Girl - ok, Junkyard
Guy - Ok.
Girl - Can I come with 3 of my friends?
Day 14:
(Date is set)
Guy - hi. Are you still coming?
Girl - yes I’m getting dressed. I will meet you there.
**I hour later**
Girl - please can you help me book Uber, my app is not opening
Just say you don’t have transport FFS �
Day 15:
Guy: Yesterday was nice. I can’t wait to see you again.
Girl - ���
Guy - when will that be?
Girl - Don’t know
(How will she know when she’s arranging other dates with men?)
Day 25:
(Guy posts picture of him and a female friend chilling on status)
Girl - hmmm
Guy - what?
Girl - nothing. Your babe is fine.
(this is how they ask if you’re single)
Guy - she’s just a friend.
Girl - hmmm ok
Day 33:
(Girl has not heard from guy in a while)
Girl - Hi dear
Guy - hello.
Girl - long time. How have you been?
Guy - I’m fine. You?
Girl - you forgot me nau. Can we hangout again?
Guy- ok. Will you come to my house?
Girl - I can’t come to your house.
Day 42:
(Guy finally wants to ask girl out after 6 weeks talking stage)
Guy - Do you have anyone you are emotionally involved with?
Girl - why do you ask?
Guy - I want to be that person if you don’t have.
Girl - Can you take care of my needs?
(What fvcking needs? Are you a special needs person FFS??)
Guy - I believe that we can take care of each other. This isn’t a fling for me. I want to have something special and permanent with you.
Girl - hmmmmm
Guy - Please be my girlfriend
Girl - Let me think about it.
(Basically when they say they want to think about it, they have agreed. But Pride)
Day 47:
(5 days after guy and girl officially start dating)
Girl - hey baby
Guy - hi dear.
Girl - can you do me a small Favour?
Guy - anything for my girl. What is it?
Girl - I want to change my phone screen.
Day 58:
(11 days after guy changes phone screen, phone screen breaks again)
Girl - baby, my phone screen broke again.
Guy - we just fixed it. You have to be careful
Girl - I’m even tired of using the phone. My mates are using iPhone 11. I want one.
Guy - ok. How much do you have let me support?
Girl - N32k
Day 65:
(Guy finally buys iPhone 11 for girl)
Girl - Thanks baby. I love the phone.
Guy - You’re welcome, my love. I love you.
Girl - I love you too.
(After a round of sex)
Girl - baby what are you getting me for my birthday next week?
Day 71:
(1 day after Girl’s birthday)
Girl - baby, thank you for the cake and the dinner yesterday.
Guy - You’re welcome.
Girl - but you didn’t buy me a birthday gift
Guy - I got you an iPhone 11 last week.
Girl - it’s not a birthday gift. You are too greedy. My ex bought me a birthday gift.
Guy - How am I greedy? I got you an iPhone 11, a birthday cake and paid for a dinner for you and your friends.
Girl - so you’re counting everything you’ve done for me.
Guy - that’s not the point.
Girl - I want a break from this relationship
Day 85:
(Relationship on break. Guy misses girl and wants to make it up to her so he shows up at her place unannounced and sees another guy wearing boxer in girl’s house. Other guy introduces himself as her boyfriend and says girl went to the market. Guy walks back into his car and cries like a baby. Then calls girl on phone)
Guy - hello, babe. I came to your house and I met some guy who says he’s your boyfriend. So this is what you’ve been doing to me? Because we had a small misunderstanding. You’re cheating on me.
Girl - I’m sorry but you pushed me to him. You stopped caring about me.
Guy - How did I push you to him?
Girl - You took a break from me
Guy - babe, you asked for the break
Girl - so if I asked you to put your hand inside fire, you will put your hand.
Guy - babe, you were upset and asked for a break and I respected your request. Should I have fought you?
Girl - If you loved me, you would have fought for me.
Guy - It’s fine. I guess this relationship is over. I wish you the best.
Girl - Don’t call my number again
Guy - It’s fine. I won’t. I’m just disappointed that after everything I’ve done for you, you can treat me this way.
Girl - what did you do for me?
(This is a trap to get you to list things that you did so she can say you always list things that you did)
Guy - really? So I did nothing?
Girl - is it IPhone you want to call? I can buy it for myself
Day 105:
(Girl has broken up with new guy, is now missing guy. Actually, her eye don clear. Picks up phone)
Girl - hello, babe it’s me.
Guy - hi dear. How have you been? So happy to hear from you.
Girl - I’m fine. How are you? Just wanted to check on you. Long time.
Guy - you’ve done well. I’m fine �
Girl- I miss you ☹️
Guy - I miss you too.
Girl - Can we have a sit down and talk? I can come to the house.
Guy - Oh let’s meet somewhere else. My wife is at home.
Girl - wait. You’re married? So all these while you’ve been deceiving me while you had another woman you wanted to marry?
Guy - no, I actually met her one day after our break up (day 86) and in 15 days (day 101) we got married. I didn’t cheat on you or deceive you.
Girl - It’s not possible. You lied to me.
Guy - babe, you’re the one I caught cheating
Girl - So are you saying I wasn’t good enough for you in 85 days but she was good enough in 15 days?
Guy - Well, she was more ready to settle down.
Girl - So what do you want from me? Why are you talking to me?
Guy - You’re the one who called me oh.
Girl - (hangs up, deletes and blocks guys number and social media everywhere)
Day 106:
(Girl is now a feminist (misandrist), posts on Facebook)
“Menaskum”. Thank you for copying and pasting Brian's post from FB |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by cooooooks(m): 12:24am On Aug 18, 2020 |
Very true. Over generalization will finish us in we country. But that's what movies like. Chii59:
Someone is unfortunate to meet a leech in every sense of the word and quickly assumes that all women are leeches.
What a logic! 1 Like |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by gowonmaharajah(m): 12:41am On Aug 18, 2020 |
naso but not in all cases. |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Sixfeetbelle: 1:24am On Aug 18, 2020 |
1 Like |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by phazotron(m): 2:34am On Aug 18, 2020 |
1 Like |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by ednut1(m): 2:53am On Aug 18, 2020 |
80% of them are like that. hungry classless leeches |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Jack005(m): 4:14am On Aug 18, 2020 |
This is 90% true..The entitlement mentality of some women is appalling and shingbain dem or their papa no get sef . 1 Like |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Newbielearner(m): 11:06am On Aug 18, 2020 |
odinson1:
Thread of dating Nigerian women
Day 1:
Girl - How did you get my number?
“We met at that event. You were with Gina and you gave me your number”
Girl - I gave plenty people my number that day. What were you wearing?
Day 2:
(WhatsApp message)
Guy - Hi
**1 day later**
Girl - hey
Guy - Good morning
Girl - Mrng.
Guy - How are you?
Girl - blue tick. No reply
Day 5:
Girl - hi
**guy is surprised**
Guy - hi
Girl - hw are u?
Guy - I’m fine. How are you?
Girl - Not fine
Guy - why?
Girl - Can you send me N500 airtime? I’m in a tight corner.
Day 9:
(My guy is bored and wants to try again)
Guy - Hi
**3 hours later**
Girl - Hello dear. Tnx 4 the other day.
Guy - you’re welcome. Where do you stay?
Girl - Lugbe n u?
Guy - Gwarinpa
Girl - K
Day 10:
Guy - hi
Girl - hello dear
Guy - Can we hang out sometime?
Girl - where?
Guy - anywhere you want
Girl - ok, Junkyard
Guy - Ok.
Girl - Can I come with 3 of my friends?
Day 14:
(Date is set)
Guy - hi. Are you still coming?
Girl - yes I’m getting dressed. I will meet you there.
**I hour later**
Girl - please can you help me book Uber, my app is not opening
Just say you don’t have transport FFS �
Day 15:
Guy: Yesterday was nice. I can’t wait to see you again.
Girl - ���
Guy - when will that be?
Girl - Don’t know
(How will she know when she’s arranging other dates with men?)
Day 25:
(Guy posts picture of him and a female friend chilling on status)
Girl - hmmm
Guy - what?
Girl - nothing. Your babe is fine.
(this is how they ask if you’re single)
Guy - she’s just a friend.
Girl - hmmm ok
Day 33:
(Girl has not heard from guy in a while)
Girl - Hi dear
Guy - hello.
Girl - long time. How have you been?
Guy - I’m fine. You?
Girl - you forgot me nau. Can we hangout again?
Guy- ok. Will you come to my house?
Girl - I can’t come to your house.
Day 42:
(Guy finally wants to ask girl out after 6 weeks talking stage)
Guy - Do you have anyone you are emotionally involved with?
Girl - why do you ask?
Guy - I want to be that person if you don’t have.
Girl - Can you take care of my needs?
(What fvcking needs? Are you a special needs person FFS??)
Guy - I believe that we can take care of each other. This isn’t a fling for me. I want to have something special and permanent with you.
Girl - hmmmmm
Guy - Please be my girlfriend
Girl - Let me think about it.
(Basically when they say they want to think about it, they have agreed. But Pride)
Day 47:
(5 days after guy and girl officially start dating)
Girl - hey baby
Guy - hi dear.
Girl - can you do me a small Favour?
Guy - anything for my girl. What is it?
Girl - I want to change my phone screen.
Day 58:
(11 days after guy changes phone screen, phone screen breaks again)
Girl - baby, my phone screen broke again.
Guy - we just fixed it. You have to be careful
Girl - I’m even tired of using the phone. My mates are using iPhone 11. I want one.
Guy - ok. How much do you have let me support?
Girl - N32k
Day 65:
(Guy finally buys iPhone 11 for girl)
Girl - Thanks baby. I love the phone.
Guy - You’re welcome, my love. I love you.
Girl - I love you too.
(After a round of sex)
Girl - baby what are you getting me for my birthday next week?
Day 71:
(1 day after Girl’s birthday)
Girl - baby, thank you for the cake and the dinner yesterday.
Guy - You’re welcome.
Girl - but you didn’t buy me a birthday gift
Guy - I got you an iPhone 11 last week.
Girl - it’s not a birthday gift. You are too greedy. My ex bought me a birthday gift.
Guy - How am I greedy? I got you an iPhone 11, a birthday cake and paid for a dinner for you and your friends.
Girl - so you’re counting everything you’ve done for me.
Guy - that’s not the point.
Girl - I want a break from this relationship
Day 85:
(Relationship on break. Guy misses girl and wants to make it up to her so he shows up at her place unannounced and sees another guy wearing boxer in girl’s house. Other guy introduces himself as her boyfriend and says girl went to the market. Guy walks back into his car and cries like a baby. Then calls girl on phone)
Guy - hello, babe. I came to your house and I met some guy who says he’s your boyfriend. So this is what you’ve been doing to me? Because we had a small misunderstanding. You’re cheating on me.
Girl - I’m sorry but you pushed me to him. You stopped caring about me.
Guy - How did I push you to him?
Girl - You took a break from me
Guy - babe, you asked for the break
Girl - so if I asked you to put your hand inside fire, you will put your hand.
Guy - babe, you were upset and asked for a break and I respected your request. Should I have fought you?
Girl - If you loved me, you would have fought for me.
Guy - It’s fine. I guess this relationship is over. I wish you the best.
Girl - Don’t call my number again
Guy - It’s fine. I won’t. I’m just disappointed that after everything I’ve done for you, you can treat me this way.
Girl - what did you do for me?
(This is a trap to get you to list things that you did so she can say you always list things that you did)
Guy - really? So I did nothing?
Girl - is it IPhone you want to call? I can buy it for myself
Day 105:
(Girl has broken up with new guy, is now missing guy. Actually, her eye don clear. Picks up phone)
Girl - hello, babe it’s me.
Guy - hi dear. How have you been? So happy to hear from you.
Girl - I’m fine. How are you? Just wanted to check on you. Long time.
Guy - you’ve done well. I’m fine �
Girl- I miss you ☹️
Guy - I miss you too.
Girl - Can we have a sit down and talk? I can come to the house.
Guy - Oh let’s meet somewhere else. My wife is at home.
Girl - wait. You’re married? So all these while you’ve been deceiving me while you had another woman you wanted to marry?
Guy - no, I actually met her one day after our break up (day 86) and in 15 days (day 101) we got married. I didn’t cheat on you or deceive you.
Girl - It’s not possible. You lied to me.
Guy - babe, you’re the one I caught cheating
Girl - So are you saying I wasn’t good enough for you in 85 days but she was good enough in 15 days?
Guy - Well, she was more ready to settle down.
Girl - So what do you want from me? Why are you talking to me?
Guy - You’re the one who called me oh.
Girl - (hangs up, deletes and blocks guys number and social media everywhere)
Day 106:
(Girl is now a feminist (misandrist), posts on Facebook)
“Menaskum”. What simps go through every week. At all cost, avoid the typical Nigerian girl. |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by Abso1uteZero(m): 11:43am On Aug 18, 2020 |
ZINIBANKS:
Nigi I can't read it this shit is too long I swear. Any thread about woman wey pass three lines, I no dey read. |
| Re: The Reality Of Dating A Nigerian Lady by ABANGWABOI(m): 11:47am On Aug 18, 2020 |
#ILMOVON  #Attitude #Bliv Real matters stated like comic relief.. And that is the manipulative tendencies they exhibit.. Apt post. |
