Most of this house help are abused, either mentally or physically, someone in the comment just wrote how her breast looks good, So its challenging for this househelp. I recommend House help should not be mentally abused with abusive words, and if they are not working as you like, you can replace them, while you also restrict what househelps should do, they should not have access to your rooms or they should be supervised with cameras.

These househelps are young, like children, and vulnerable, and they should be in school.

Ladycewhy:
is t that you don't read to understand? .

I said Nigerian will term you wicked for not indulging them in their entitlement mentality, especially poor people who think you owe them something.

I am sure if the maid was rich she wont be in someone's house to be houses ,clothed ,fed and paid.


I think you need to read and understand before putting your fingers to use, I never said you should defend the wickedness of Nigerians.Seems you are a bit slow on comprehension

U are accusing Nigerians of wickedness and witchcraft. Are u not a Nigerian? If u are a Nigerian, that means u are also guilty of d wickedness and witchcraft that u are accusing Nigerians of

Xda59:


That is where you are getting it wrong. You think it can never happen to you because you got it all today but you forgot tomorrow is always pregnant and you never can tell what is going to happen. There is nothing wrong in embracing these kids like ours. They are no witches or wizards, they were just unfortunate to come from poor homes which is no fault of theirs.

yes like this one who is trying to take a life,it's no fault of theirs. There was a video of a maid feeding feaces to her boss' child, and so many more of such cases.

And yes there are witches among them, you can believe in light and discard the existence of darkness. Do you know that the average poor person hates rich people?

Samsimple:
ohh ye wise one..

That’s what u claimed to be but you’re not, sadly.

lexy2014:


U are accusing Nigerians of wickedness and witchcraft. Are u not a Nigerian? If u are a Nigerian, that means u are also guilty of d wickedness and witchcraft that u are accusing Nigerians of

It's quite unfortunate that I am a Nigerian, I am a victim to even be associated with such a wicked country.

SeriouslySense:
Most of this house help are abused, either mentally or physically, someone in the comment just wrote how her breast looks good, So its challenging for this househelp. I recommend House help should not be mentally abused with abusive words, and if they are not working as you like, you can replace them, while you also restrict what househelps should do, they should not have access to your rooms or they should be supervised with cameras.

She literally stole the keys to her room to poison her.

Tiwatopebabe:
I say it again and again. As the Madam of the house, if you're not comfortable with a particular house help, don't so much as raise your voice nor allow her to get you angry. Just let her go. Sack her, fire her, terminate her appointment, whatever it is called. But do it with a smile and make her smile too.

Although, I'll never subscribe to a house help in the first place. #fullhousewife

Sound word with a balance equation.. Both can be found guilty when investigated properly but the latter's crime would be seen as the only grievous sin in our insane societal system.

Most Nigeria househelps are harassed, raped, cheated, denied of wages and benefits, molested, and abused both home and abroad.. And they punishable by law, likewise attempted murder by poisoning..

Madam needs to be questioned too.. Househelp needs to tell us her reasons, although guilty as pleaded...

lexy2014:


By assuming that there was no maltreatment is also stepping into d realm of assumption. Is maltreatment restricted to a bloodied body in a recorded video? If d madam wanted to bloody her maid or maltreatment her maid, would u expect her to video it?

I am drawing all my conclusions from the evidence before me, which is the video.

You could well assume that the madam used a pitch-fork and removed the heart of the househelp for sacrifice to the gods
It will make a good fiction and I’m sure you can write a good plot for a novel.

lexy2014:


By assuming that there was no maltreatment is also stepping into d realm of assumption. Is maltreatment restricted to a bloodied body in a recorded video? If d madam wanted to bloody her maid or maltreatment her maid, would u expect her to video it?

I am drawing all my conclusions from the evidence before me, which is the video.

You could well assume that the madam used a pitch-fork and removed the heart of the househelp for sacrifice to the gods
It will make a good fiction and I’m sure you can write a good plot for a novel.

Go on, assume.

I don't know what lead to what, but the best thing is to let this house help go and maybe do your work on your own or look for a par time house help.

We should try to do the work at home as much as we can and maybe look for a par time helper when urgent.

Demonic house help

Ladycewhy:
It's quite unfortunate that I am a Nigerian, I am a victim to even be associated with such a wicked country.

Can’t but agree. This is true.

SenecaTheYonger:


She literally stole the keys to her room to poison her.

Yes, At this point, the best thing is to let this house help go, there is no need to work with a house help that cannot be trusted.

Carloslehder:
Going to send this to my wife,cos the way she's mistreating our help might earn her an heavy dose of sniper very soon

Wait first why did you marry her?

madridsta007:


I am drawing all my conclusions from the evidence before me, which is the video.

You could well assume that the madam used a pitch-fork and removed the heart of the househelp for sacrifice to the gods
It will make a good fiction and I’m sure you can write a good plot for a novel.

Go on, assume.

And that is why I asked u, is maltreatment restricted to a bloodied body seen in a video? Is maltreatment restricted to just d physical body of d victim? If d madam who did d recording is in fact maltreating her maid, would u expect her to record it?

Things like this is why i don't mind staying on my own and doing my house chores myself.Bringing a total stranger into your home opens you up to all kinds of stuffs .

lexy2014:


And that is why I asked u, is maltreatment restricted to a bloodied body seen in a video? Is maltreatment restricted to just d physical body of d victim?

There’s no evidence of maltreatment, beating, searing of body in the video. I know certain people, personally know them, who would give the househelp a good beating and, if she’s alive, send her back to the village. They will see this video and say the Misstress is nice.

There’s no way you can extract words from me that will defend a would-be killer.
That’s what a psychopath does. I am not a psychopath.
You can defend her, no problem. That’s your democratic right.
Cheers mate.

madridsta007:


There’s no evidence of maltreatment, beating, searing of body in the video. I know certain people, personally know them, who would give the househelp a good beating and, if she’s alive, send her back to the village. They will see this video and say the Misstress is nice.

There’s no way you can extract words from me that will defend a would-be killer.
That’s what a psychopath does. I am not a psychopath.
You can defend her, no problem. That’s your democratic right.
Cheers mate.

I didn't tell u that there is evidence of maltreatment, beating and searing of d body in d video. But since u say that "there's no evidence of maltreatment, beating, searing of body in the video", my question is this:

"is maltreatment restricted to a bloodied body seen in a video? Is maltreatment restricted to just d physical body of d victim?"

If u say some other Madams "would give the househelp a good beating", would those Madams record a video of themselves while giving their house helps "a good beating"?

Exactly, at home, i do house chores, and i don't expect anyone to do them for me, but there are some times, i may need extra help, then i call someone around who i observe is truthworthy, and not overly greedy (I.e Someone who does not look at your material stuff and wants to possess them).

Besides if you need house helps, do not go for children or teenagers without considering their vulnerability and how they can be used by outsiders to know what you have at home, and do not let them into where you have valuables.

Some ways to conceal valuables from par time helpers, are putting away your gaddets in your rooms, and lock the room from their reach.

Do not allow them to rooms and batherooms, i clean my toilets myself.

queenfav:
Things like this is why i don't mind staying on my own and doing my house chores myself.Bringing a total stranger into your home opens you up to all kinds of stuffs .

Watch how our "woke" celebrities will rally round this killer and buy her a house, a car and shower her with money and gifts

lexy2014:


I didn't tell u that there is evidence of maltreatment, beating and searing of d body in d video. But since u say that "there's no evidence of maltreatment, beating, searing of body in the video", my question is this:

"is maltreatment restricted to a bloodied body seen in a video? Is maltreatment restricted to just d physical body of d victim?"

If u say some other Madams "would give the househelp a good beating", would those Madams record a video of themselves while giving their house helps "a good beating"?

Ok.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
What da fuckkkk.... looks like a revenge mission...
The house help doesn't give a fuckkk about the mantra that states
" vengeance is mine says the lord"
Deuteronomy and romans 12 Vs 17


Anyway i won't be fast to judge
I remember my grandfather will always say
Son....there are three sides to a story
1) the complainant version
2) the accused version
3) the true story

But no one knows the truth version except the complainant and the accused

Househelp is tired of being the lower madam, she wants to become oga madam

But have you heard "her side of the story"? Have you investigated why she wanted killing her madam? The madam might have been a very wicked person to her and as a small child (given out and without the choice of leaving) may think of no other reason but to kill her (out of her stupidity or would I say NAIVETY?). This matter needs thorough investigation before any conclusion can be reached please

Bonatheripper:
Do you know this man

Tell him I'm not a one minute man and he should stop spoiling the moment

you be fuu

Bonatheripper:
Do you know this man

Tell him I'm not a one minute man and he should stop spoiling the moment

It means you are always visiting porn sites..

Carloslehder:
Going to send this to my wife,cos the way she's mistreating our help might earn her an heavy dose of sniper very soon

You better call her to order cos when kasala go burst, you'll be an accomplice in the court of law. Maybe, you've not been following latest househelps abuse saga on dailies and how it ends.

SeriouslySense:
Exactly, at home, i do house chores, and i don't expect anyone to do them for me, but there are some times, i may need extra help, then i call someone around who i observe is truthworthy, and not overly greedy (I.e Someone who does not look at your material stuff and wants to possess them).

Besides if you need house helps, do not go for children or teenagers without considering their vulnerability and how they can be used by outsiders to know what you have at home, and do not let them into where you have valuables.

Some ways to conceal valuables from par time helpers, are putting away your gaddets in your rooms, and lock the room from their reach.

Do not allow them to rooms and batherooms, i clean my toilets myself.

It's the best.